Lynn

About me:

· I was born march 28, 1962 (the year of the tiger) in Stuttgart, Germany. I am 48 years old. I've never heard my biological clock ticking. · I always have more than one train of thought going at any given time. · I am a single female. I don't always want to be single, but right now it just works out that way … · I don't even know if I want to get married, but I hope to be engaged someday and live in sin until we're both old and grey. · I have a weakness for smart, creative young men and musicians …probably explains why i am still single. · pretty much every guy I've dated has said they would take me back at one point or another … · I don't have anything bad to say about most of them. They're (almost) all good guys · The worst relationship I ever had even had it's touching moments … · the worst gift i ever received from a boyfriend was a garbage can. i can laugh about that now but at the time i was quite hurt. · i am a total pushover for guys with dimples and/or nice arms. ·I'm an old fashioned girl. I cook, I clean, I sew, I prefer men with manners yet I like to support myself financially. ·I love staying up all night and sleeping til the crack of noon · I have two of the best cats ever born. they are my best friends. They are both rescues, and have their own myspace page. ·I majored in Dance Education at Eastern Michigan. Now I "dance" around behind a bar and a styling chair. ·I am a hairstylist. I am licensed to touch others. I like it because I make people feel beautiful and I develop long term friendships with my clients. · I am also a bartender. I like it because it makes people feel happy and I have short term friendships with the drunks. · I am a thief … I steal pens, and hearts that i don't necessarily want. · I hate to lie … I'd rather tell you and hurt you that way … than lie and have you find out … that would cost me both my respect and yours. · These two character traits seem at odds, but they balance out my karma … and add to my charm. ;) · I'm sentimental and a romantic … just not lately · I'm cynical and sometimes (okay … often) suspicious of people's motives. ·I have a deluded sense of entitlement and don't care if you like it or not. ·I believe that a good friend tells you the truth even if it's hurtful and a bad friend tells you what you want to hear and enable you. If you can't take the truth, don't be my friend. ·I give my respect and loyalty to those who deserve it and will totally fuck with the lives of those who don't. I hate drama. I avoid it. But if you start with me look out. I'm comfortable with anger, my mom is not. … it's an emotion … we should be able to experience all of them and occasionally just indulge in them … they are one of the realest parts of ourselves · No, I'm not an angry person … Just a balanced one … it took me 47 years to become ME thus far … and I'm good with it … peaceful with it … looking forward to where my personal evolution will take me next. · I prefer black and white clothing but not black and white thinking. · I write in fragmented and/or run on sentences · I hate talking on the phone · I'm afraid of heights, bridges and falling … falling from heights, falling off bridges, falling in love. · I also have a fear of water. · I'm tired of fear. · I love bad weather; the louder the thunder or the faster the wind … the more of a thrill I get … · I'm moody, but in a good way … hence the wide variety of music that I love. · I have a thing for purses, shoes, and perfumes. · i don't like going out in the sun much. i prefer the night time. · i am not impressed by wealth or material possessions but rather creativity and displays of affection and emotion.. · I miss my grandma more than anyone else ever … · i always seem to help out people who screw me over · i hold grudges but will occasionally let people back in my life … · i forgive but i never, ever forget · who am i kidding? there are a lot of things i never forgive, but i'm working on it · I dislike people who lie to me, use lame excuses or can't accept responsibility. ·I dislike clingy or overwhelming people. ·I dislike women who imasculate their men. If you have a real man in your life you need to treat him like a king. ·I like my personal space. a lot. If I'm not dating you I probably don't want you to "handle" me. · I believe in karma. · I don't believe in religion, but that doesn't mean I don't believe in God … or that he doesn't believe in me. · I hardly ever cry, really. · growing up my dream was to be a Rockette. · I wish I could sing … I would be a rock star! · I believe that music is better than medicine for what ails me. · I get tired of tv; I never get tired of music. · I also never tire of … coffee … road trips … or sex even though the only one I have been getting lately is coffee. · I'm into sports … especially football · I have 4 fave colors..red, turquoise, black and purple · I'm starting to like my body and am determined to get fit. · I like my eyes and lips. · I Love my curiosity, intelligence, compassion, passion and twisted sense of humor. · I hate being bored. ·I am superstitious and bake a batch of muffins before Colts games for luck. ·I dislike people who swear a lot and consider it a byproduct of poor education and poor communication skills. · I prefer my hair dirty. · I like high heeled shoes … they make me feel sexy and thinner. · I am not high maintenance … but I am a girlie girl. · My fave dessert is ice cream · My fave foods are italian, mexican, and french toast. i love french toast. · i usually eat my dinner standing up … over the kitchen sink. · It's been quite a while since I have had short hair. · I love pedicures … with red, silver or black toenails … the name of my fave polish is pretty at the premier… by OPI. · I don't like a lot of makeup … but I always have about 5 lip glosses in my purse … sometimes a red lipstick … just in case. ;) Even with this REALLY long list … you don't really know me yet, just stuff about me … keep reading and drop me a line … maybe one day you will!





When I am able to resist the temptation to judge others, I can see them as teachers of forgiveness in my life, reminding me that I can only have peace of mind when I forgive rather than judge." -Dr. Dyer-"

Lemme tell ya some more about me. I am fiercely independent, energetic, intuitive, competitive, hard working, intelligent, spiritual, spontaneous, opinionated, stubborn, impatient, over confident, inquisitive, motivated, free spirited, extroverted, passionate, animated, loyal to a fault, bitchy, brutally honest, crazy fun, and entertaining. Generally not all at once. That would be exhausting! Love me or hate me, you'll never forget me!



He who argues for his limitations gets to keep them.—Richard Bach



"When self respect takes its rightful place in the psyche of a woman she will not allow herself to be manipulated by anyone"
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