ABUSE IS NO LAUGHING MATTER AND I THINK THE BASTEREDS THAT ABUSED SHOULD SERVE PRISON TERMS, NOT NO CONTACT ORDERS,OR JAIL TIME, THEY ARE A JOKE,THEY DON'T KEEP WEMAN SAFE,FROM BEING ABUSED AGAIN...
Female
40 years old
Kirkland, Washington
United States
i like to go walking with my dog and kids at the lake, and with our friends and there kids and dog also,camping,fishing,hiking,swimming,romantic dinners,watching (seahawks and sonics with the family )watch all sorts of? movies at home.
About me: I AM A SWEET,MARRIED PERSON,TO A WONDERFUL MAN,WHO LOVES ME TO DEATH....I AM A FUNNY PERSON,WHO LOVES TO LAUGH,CAN CRY AT TIMES WHEN IT IS WARRENTED,WHICH IS'NT VERY OFTEN..I HOPE.LOL.I HAVE THREE KIDS THAT LIVE UP HERE IN WA. ONE AT HOME FULL TIME , ONE THAT'S HERE ALOT,ONE THAT IS HERE EVERYOTHER WEEKEND,AND FOUR THAT LIVE IN TX. SO ALL TOGETHER I HAVE SEVEN BEAUTIFUL KIDS I HAVE GIVEN BIRTH TO FIVE BOYS,AND TWO GIRLS ALL OF THEM I AM VERY PROUD OF...I WOULD'NT CHANGE IT FOR THE WORLD OR THEM....THEY ARE ALL SPECAIL IN THERE OWN WAYS....
I BELIEVE THAT ABUSE IS A FELONY CRIME,I BELIEVE THAT A PUNCH,KICK,A BLACK EYE,BROKEN BONES,CUT WITH THINGS,BURNED WITH CIG,FORCED TO DO THINGS AGAINST UR WILL,RAPE,ETC...MEN,WEMAN,CHILDREN..WHO SEE IT FIT TO TAKE IT UPON THEMSELVES TO FORCE ANOTHER PERSON TO INDURE THIS KIND OF TREATMENT.I FEEL THAT SOMETIMES SOME PEOPLE DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT ABUSE IS AND REALLY NEED TO BE EDUCATED IN IT.THE POLICE,JUDGES,LAWYERS,D.A'S,DEFENDER'S,EVEN THE ABUSE COUNSLERS,ALOT OF THEM HAVE NEVER BEEN THRU IT THEY READ BOOKS...WHAT A JOKE!UNTIL U GO THRU IT U HAVE NO IDEA WHAT U ARE TALKING ABOUT,AND SHOULD NOT BE TELLING ANYONE WHAT TO DO OR HOW TO DO ANYTHING.I THINK THAT THE SYSTEM HAS A STRANGE SENSE OF HUMOR WHEN THEY THINK THAT THE NO CONTACT ORDER WILL KEEP THE ABUSER FROM ABUSING THE VICTIM HE HAS BEEN ABUSING FOR YRS.YA,RIGHT!!.LOL!WHERE THERE'S A WILL THERE'S A WAY,TAKE IT FROM SOMEONE WHO'S BEEN THERE AND HAS HAD A SYCHO,EX CHASE HER DOWN,OVER TWO THOUSAND MILES,FROM TX.TO WA.JUST TO TAKE ME BACK TO TX.BY BLACK MALEING TO STILL MY THREE BABIES AND TAKING THEM TO CANADA, SO I KNOW FIRST HAND WHAT A SYCHO ASSHOLE CAN DO,HE HAD ALMOST KILLED ME MANY TIMES,AND ETC...I KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN THE RELATIONSHIP STARTS,AND WHEN I FINISHED IT I LEFT I GOT ENOUGH,I LEFT EXCEPT WHEN I ASKED FOR HELP,I GOT LET DOWN KNOW ONE WANTED TO HELP ME OUT....I FELL THRU THE CRACKS ALONG WITH MY 6 KIDS,AND WE SUFFERED FOR IT...BUT AFTER 10YRS WE CAN SAY WE ARE SURVIVORS,I LOST ALL SIX OF MY KIDS...THREE TO HIM AND HIS MOM,TX. GAVE THEM TO THEM...BECAUSE THERE SYSTEM DID'NT LISTEN TO ME AND MY KIDS. AND MY OLDER THREE TO CPS,DUE TO THE FACT I HAD BEEN IN ABUSE,ATLEAST THAT IS WHAT THEY CLAIMED,BUT HE DID MAKE ONE LAST THREAT TO ME AT THE END OF THE ABUSE," I WILL MAKE SURE U LOOSE ALL OF UR KIDS" AND HE MADE IT COME TRUE,WHAT HE DID NOT COUNT ON WAS I HAD NUMB.7 WHICH MADE IT EASIER FOR ME TO MOVE ON,AND GAVE ME HOPE THAT I WOULD SEE MY OTHER KIDS AGAIN,AND AFTER 7YRS. I HAVE 2 BACK HOME,AND HAVE SEEN THE OLDEST ONE WHICH MAKES THREE THAT I HAVE SEEN.....I ONLY HAVE MY YOUNGER THREE THAT MY EX=ABUSER IN TEXAS HAS THAT HAVE YET TO SEE,AGAIN. BUT I DON'T KNOW IF THAT DAY WILL EVER COME BUT I CAN PRAY IT DOES AND HOLD HOPE.
LAYOUT:
Who I'd like to meet: people who are layed back,non abusers,people who don't drink,smoke,drugs,etc...ones that know how to control there anger...I HAVE MET A WONDERFUL GUY,I'M JUST AT THIS TIME NOT SURE IF HE'S THE ONE I WILL BE WITH FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE,TIME WILL TELL....HE STILL HAS ALOT TO PROVE: ALOT TO SHOW ME,AND TO SHOW ME THAT HE IS READY TO BE MY MAN COMPLETELY NOT PART TIME....SO TIME WILL TELL ALL!!!
MY THREE YOUNGER BOYS THAT I LOST TO MY EX-ABUSER IN TEXAS...JAMES,TIMOTHY,MATTHEW READ...ONLASKA TEXAS.
