communication is the key to everything. Psychologists get on their patients level to bring down their defenses and make them feel more comfortable. Reasoning for peace between countries to great discussions, nothing ever happened over night It happened over a decade of time, but it takes communication and understanding. It doesn't matter who was right or wrong, it's time to meet at a middle point where your opinions are heard, but there opinions are also validated as well. It must not be easy to raise a sibling in that situation, it must not be easy to let them go, and it must not be easy to watch them make mistakes. Fear can consume everything if you let it, understanding is the only way in