David Wagner

thank you for the friend request, I am truly honored to be one of your friends on my space, like so many others have said I also have gone through a drunk driving accident and lost someone very close to me. Keep doing what you are doing, I love to hope that within all of us you WILL make a difference.

Billie www.myspace.com/jamierae00

Good Afternoon.
We have been Myspace Friends for a while now but, I never actually took the time to look over your profile until now.
WOW- what a work that you are doing.
You are in my prayers-
Jamie

I read your story-what an amazing testimony! Your a strong man-I could not even imagine! But God is good and he never gives us more than we can handle-and even though things may be hard, there is a reason for it! I am encouraged by you! Thanks for finding me!

Hey David! I just wanted to let you know that after reading your profile I got a little teary eyed... I'm so sorry for your loss. I know that you will open many eyes including mine about getting behind the wheel after just having a drink. Thank you for sharing your story... Take care Ang

www.myspace.com/pureecstasy

I think what your doing is massive :) I am sorry to hear about ur loss sometimes it takes a tragedy with one...to touch many others..... to bring out the realization. xoxo a*

www.myspace.com/ashleyhlauren

I have no idea how long you have been one of my "friends" but for some reason I felt isnspired to read your "about me". Let's just say you have truly brought me to tears and you will now be added into my prayers. Thanks for being open and honest and sharing your story. Much love always, ~AL~

You are truly doing an amazing thing and allthough I have never driven drunk myself, when I was 19 I was moving out of my apartment and into a new one, it was late at night and I was dropping my prior roomate off at her new residence. Long story short as I was heading up to her street we were stopped by police who informed us that we couldn't enter the street due to a fatal motorcycle/car accident. Once the police realized where we were headed and that there was no way for us to go around they let us through. As I drove by I saw a body bag on the street and that could shake anyone up for some reason not known in that moment I lost it! I dropped my girlfriend off we tried to console eachother for a few minutes and k headed back home. I called my best friend in the middle of the night (which I had never done before) since she lived in that neighborhood as well. She took it suprisingly hard as well. On my way to work the next day she called me hysterical telling me that the accident and body bag I saw and passed was one of our close friends that we had both grown up with and saw a few days prior. He was never one that drank much if ever. While driving his motorcycle home from another one of our friends house he was hit and killed by a 16 year old drunk driver joy riding with his buddy. This young mans mother was the president of MADD- mothers against drunk driving. This young man showed little to no remorse and ended up getting the full sentence. That experience hit me with incredible impact, I cannot even begin to imagine what life has been like for you. Please just know that no matter what you truly have found a new friend and I will be here for whatever your needs might be evenif it's just an ear. God bless David! ~AL~

www.myspace.com/paulmoran1111

MY FRIENDS MOM WAS KILLED BY A DRUNK DRIVER.I NEED A FAVOR Good afternoon to all my Friends!
I must ask a favor from all of you please join his site His name is David Wagner he is on a mission I support as well.
We all can all relate to,Let's stick together and support a positive good cause.
HE IS ON MY TOP FRIENDS ,CLICK FROM THERE TO JOIN HIS SITE.
KINGZVILLE ENTERPRISES
Thank you all.. and have wonderfull weekend! Always KEEP SMILING!
Paul MoRAN

www.myspace.com/dawnrenee

Thank you so much sharing. I'm glad that you have found a way to honor your mom, while building a way for others to connect and become more aware of such tragedies. That connection is what heals all. Bringing it forward and talking about it will help many. I wish you luck and peace. I know your mom would be so proud of you.

All the best,
Dawn Renee www.myspace.com/thatnilla

Wow! I actually took time out today to read your profile. To see someone that has taken a suffering and placed it into a cause is amazing. Maybe I say this because it's what I did or maybe I say this because God places people like you on this Earth to help influence the lives of others. You have such an outstanding idea and I am more than willing to spend your message to the entire world. Take Care and God Bless.

www.myspace.com/juliet5381

My cousin was hit by a drunk driver. She was in a coma for 9 months and she suffered severe brain damage and will need a care giver for the rest of her life. Your fighting a good cause and I am someone who never drives drunk and I'd be glad to pass along your messages.

www.myspace.com/cindymeitle

I went out for happy hour yesterday and made two people take a ride with me and leave their vehicles at the bar, I'm proud of that. I hadn't had a drink the last four hours before we left the place, I know better.

www.myspace.com/katiemack

What a brave and beautiful soul you are! I'm so sorry for your loss and proud of your positivity and light in the face of such tragedy. You are an inspiration and I know you will continue to make a difference in the world. xoxo

www.myspace.com/wildcherry6969

I am very sorry for your loss. It is a blessing that you are out there advocating, and trying to get people to think about drinking and driving. Just almost two years ago, right down the block from my apartment, a young girl was driving to her highschool graduation party...here in ashland, oregon, when she was hit by some young men, who were drunk and speeding; they lost control over their vehicle and plowed right into hers...she was killed on impact. It was devistating...however, the young men lived... There is a reith that still hangs, with flowers, and they are replaced with new ones ever so often. It is a a constant reminder to those who choose to obey the rules of the rode, as a well as a deturasnt for those who think that it's ok to drive drunk..or buzzed. I lost my own mom almost 3 years ago from cancer...my dad died in 2003, just after I reunited with him after 12 years...it was my first and last christmas, that I had spent with my dad, when he passed away two weeks later from a massive heartattack. I was a foster child since I was 10...i grew up in the system...with no family and no parents...only my younger brother and I remained together. So needless to say...I only met my mother for a short time before she to passed away. She was never in my life, because she was in and out of Psycho wards for most of it...yet it was my mother...no matter how crazy she was, it was hard for me to lose her all over again. I admire your strenghth, and your ability to cope through it by helping others. we all endure through many different tragedies, and through these, strength can be found to lead and to teach others...

www.myspace.com/andytoots

I took a good look at your profile, and I must say, it gave me the biggest lump in my throat.. because I can relate to yer story. I can't say I know how it feels to lose a parent, because mine are still around.. but I did lose a cousin that I was best friends with.. His car was hit head on by a drunk driver. In my opinion, the emotional pain surpasses any kind of physical pain there is. So I commend you fer taking such a tough situation and putting it towards giving back to the world. I don't know you, but i can already tell that you are an amazing person. We need more people like you in this world.

www.myspace.com/kikix3

Hey I just want to say that i think its great your doing something about drinking and driving.. Recently about 3 days ago 7 kids that i went to school with got in a car accident.. The driver died and she was only 17, but they were all drunk and the survivors are all in the hospital. Personally I think that it is very stupid to drink and drive and i would never do it because i wouldnt want to risk my own life let alone someone elses. Im very sorry to hear about your mother, whoever the driver was will get theirs one day, but keep up the good work and hopefully your word will get out about drinking and driving.. you have my support.

-kirstin

www.myspace.com/hopelesslyawaitingtheday

I wanted to let you know that I think what you are doing is an amazing thing. For you to have the strength to go on after that tragedy is utterly amazing because if that ever happened to me I don't know what I would do because I can't live without mine. You're truly my hero for what you are doing. It's amazing how one person can inspire so many =] But anyways you are amazing and I know that you're mom is looking down at you saying "Yep, that's my boy. That's my amazing son" <3 God bless you <3

Hi... I have to say that I am picky on who goes on to my top friends list. I added you because I know exactly what you mean.. I think you're actually an angel if you really think about it... YOU ARE TRYING TO SAVE LIVES!!! I wish you the best and you will be blessed my friends, TMF will work out and be successful, because you have faith in god and like you said.. GOD IS GOOD!!!! I can vouch to that x's 10, with out him, WE ARE NOTHING!! Im not a preacher or anything, I have faith and am happy that such a young man is doing such a wonderful thing. Later on, Many people should learn to thank you, because youre trying to save lives.. Anyways.. Enuff of me.. Hope you have a great blessed and prosperous year!

GOOD LUCK!!!! Mission in life is to start "The Mother Factor" a Non-Profit organization to help with Drunk Driving.

"The Ego is the worst Confidence Trickster" Dr. Yoav Dattilo, Ph.D.

"The Ego hides in the last place you would ever look." Dr. Peter Fonagy, Ph.D.

"The need for people to protect there own ego's knows no bounds." Andrew Samuels, Ph.D.

"In religion the Ego manafest itself as the Devil." Dr. Deepack Chopra, M.D.

Your greatest enemy in this world in my Opinion is your own Ego!!!!!!!

Let me first start by saying that I am really glad that you wrote me back. I don't know what happened between you and your family, hopefully one day you will trust me enough to tell me. But I think that I have a vague idea of how you feel. I watched the videos that you have on your myspace. I know that I didn't know your mother and that losing Julie is not the same as you losing your mother but on one of the videos you said that people keep telling you to just get over it and move on and how that is hard for you. Trust me I know exactly how you feel when it comes to that. If I had a dime for every time that I've heard that since Julie was killed I would be a rich woman. I know that some of our family members have moved on with their lives and don't think about what happened but I just can't. I don't know if it's because she was taken so young or that the guy that killed her has a record and should not have been driving and to my knowledge nothing has been done yet, no charges filed nothing. That upsets me that everyone in our family is just going on with their lives as though it didn't happen. I'm sorry but I just can't do that, I feel as though I have to do something to honor her memory and for the last 5 months I have sat around my house every day trying to think of something but constantly coming up empty and losing my mind because of it. When I first saw the Myspace for The Mother Factor I wasn't quite sure what it was all about, but then I watched the videos and now I get it. David, I think that what you are trying to do is INCREDIBLE. I think that if something like this had been in place years ago then maybe your mother and Julie would not have been killed. I don't know if the guy that killed Julie was drunk or not but he has a record of driving drunk, driving with a controlled substance and driving with a suspended lisence. I haven't heard anything on the investigation lately but if you ask me considering the area of town that he was in and the time of morning that he killed Julie and the speed that he was going he was probably leaving a party where he had been drinking. Anyway I'm not sure what I can do but I would like to get involved with what you are trying to do and help you out in anyway that I can. On some of the videos you said that you were having trouble finding investors. I have 2 friends that have a lot of connections. I hope that you won't be upset but I have already called both of them and explained what you are trying to do and asked if there was anyway that they could help. One of them said that most of the people that he knows will not be able to touch anything unless it is already a not for profit company but he told me that once I talk to you and get more information from you to call him and he will help us out anyway that he can. The other one sounded really interested in what you are doing and said that he will call me tomorrow to talk more about it. I know that you are on a road trip right now but please give me a call as soon as you can so we can talk some more about The Mother Factor and our lives up to this point. I know that we have not seen each other probably since Danny's wedding but David I have to admit that the have been many many times since then that I have thought about you and Charlie, more so you than Charlie. Why you? Because the last memory that I have of you is at Danny's wedding when he was dancing with Carla and it was shortly after your mom had been killed. You and I were sitting at the table and you just sat there crying, finally getting up and walking out. I waited a few minutes and then went after you and we just sat there in the lobby of the hotel not saying a word and just hugging each other. At the time I had no clue what you were going through I only know that it hurt me to see my cousin hurt so much and not knowing what I could do to help. Julie was not my mother or my sister but I always thought of her as my little sister as I'm sure much of our cousins did, but after she was killed and I somewhat got my brain back together the first thing that I said to myself was "Now I know how David felt." I hope that you are not mad at me for bringing that up, but I brought that up to say this. I gather from your email and your videos that you are not getting the support from your family that you feel you should with The Mother Factor, and that is very upsetting and the reason that you will never talk to them again. I want to again offer my help and support to you not only as your cousin but also as someone who has gone through something similar to you and wants to do something to make our loved one proud and something to honor their memory. I'm not sure if you want my help or what you would have in mind for me if you do, but I would like to be a daily part The Mother Factor. Anyway I think that I have taken up enough of your time for now as I am sure that you are very busy. So I'll close by saying that I support you 110% and I love you with all my heart. Please call me.

I miss you and love you.

April 407-247-3627