Anthony Garcia

Sometimes I get people asking me why im celibate. They often come to their own conclusions that I can see written across their faces. People think im either gay, or just scared of sex. Neither of which are true (sorry gay dudes out there).
The truth of it is, celibacy has been a conscious choice for me as of November, over six months now. I decided it was the right decision for me for a number of reasons, and since then I have not had any regrets about it. of course I still have the same urges as a normal guy, I just choose to not let those urges define who I am as a person anymore. Do you know what extents a guy will go to for sex? He’ll bend his morals, sell his friends out, lie to anyone and everyone he’s got to for it. it can be extremely addicting on both a physical and mental level. People act out so many feelings other than love with sex, ugly, angry feelings, I know because that used to be me too. it is a relationship ender, a brain killer, conversation ender, raw, primitive action.
Being celibate makes me feel good, it makes me feel like im in control of my body and actions, im not a puppet dancing on a string, waiting for a nut. It allows me to see girls as more than just a sum of their components. They aren’t just tits and asses that happen to have brains anymore, they are intelligent people with great personalities and stellar qualities.
Im an amazing person with a personality and stellar qualities. I can be appreciated for my mind, my persona, aura, who I am, not judged by how good I can operate my penis. Men in general tend to think with their penis. They react with more passion when something makes their dick hard, its just how we are made. We get hard for a reason, we’ve just lost sight of everything else that we’re made for.
Don't get me wrong, sex can be amazing, a great release of stress and aggression, on the other hand, celibacy frees your mind, and reminds you that you are a whole and complete person.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask. I am an open book.