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Here are the three girls (each can be found in the Top Friends):

Miss Judi Sunshine

Since I was a little girl, I knew I’d be the one married at 18, ideally with seven kids, and we’d all live happily ever after. It was just what I wanted. It didn’t happen, but at 28, I married my boyfriend of three years. Seven months later, he bolted. My dreams, my love, my identity — it was all gone. The only thing I’d ever wanted, I wasn’t strong enough to keep. FAIL. And for the first time in my life, I was absent of hope. It was sad and weird, but when I told my mother that night five years ago this month, I felt comforted. I said it defiantly. My hope was gone, but things felt easier without it. Number. Better. But my mother told me she had enough hope for the both of us, and also made me promise not to hurt myself. So, no option of numbness. This was gonna hurt like a bitch. And it did. For a very long time.But I held onto that sliver of borrowed hope until it grew stronger and became my own again, to the point where it grew so bright and beautiful, I can barely stand it sometimes. I’m far from being happy at all times. I have bright highs and dark lows, and try to ride it like a wave. But I’m here. And I can say with certainty that I am so grateful that I got kicked out of the driver’s seat of my life. It made me stronger. I’m happy now just with love in my life and strength in my heart. And there is nothing I want more than to share with others that hope that I was given in 2004. Thank you so much to N!COLE and Shauna for doing something that I hope will help...hope!


Miss Shauna Frost

I am Shauna Frost for the purposes of Ask3Girls. If I had to choose a life motto, it would be something like “been there, done that, or know someone who has.” I’m the old one (the age on the profile page is correct) whose years of practical experience coupled with professional experience gives me a perspective on a lot of life’s curve balls as well as home runs. I have worked retail, waited tables, and tended bar as well as directed a family violence and sexual assault institute, and worked as the editor of a small town newspaper while a single mom raising my children and putting myself through school, going back at 39. I’m a no BS kind of person but do have a sarcastic, dry quirky sense of humor. I teach rhetoric, composition, and literature at a small mid-west college. Glad to meet all of you and looking forward to all of the questions. Let the questions begin!


Miss N!COLE

Many of you know that there are many sides to me. I am often discredited because of my age, and that drives me crazy. When I find people that appreciate me for me, and don’t look down on my age, I know I’ve found a true friend. I am growing into adulthood in a crazy time in our history and facing issues many didn’t have to face at my age. I am a thinker by nature, and I love to study psychology. I view every opportunity as an opportunity to learn, even if it’s just observing people at a bar. I was in a serious relationship for six years, and was about to get married when I realized that wasn’t what I wanted for my life at that time. After that ended, I went a little crazy, and I have experienced a lot. I have heard every pick up line in the book, and every excuse in the book. I am strong in my opinions, but open to others. I don’t believe in sugar coating things, and although the truth can sometimes hurt, it’s what you need to hear.


So we are the 3 girls of Ask3Girls.


We will take any question you throw our way, about whatever topic, from male or female. Don’t be shy, but be ready to hear our perspective, even if it may hurt.