Fishing, hiking, gardening, cooking, reading, painting art on gourds, helping the elderly, reading, IT, web design, spiritual readings, self defense, para sailing
Music
Varied interests in music: Sarah Brightman, Barry White, Boys II Men, Enya, Hiroshima, Kitaro, Luther Vandross, Manteca, R. Carkis Nakai, Taliesin Orchestra, Tori, Seal, Kenny G., Michael Bolton, Yanni, Yamamoto Kosei
Movies
Anna and the King
Television
CNN, History, Documentaries, Home Improvement Shows
Books
The Kite Runner
The DaVinci Code
Bible
Inspirational Reading
Heroes
God, Military men/women, family, friends and those that help others.
About me:
As a Native American and a Protector, I offer a safe harbor to the people in my life who count on me to be calm, reasonable, and consistent. People feel safe and secure when they're around you. They notice that I'm dependable and emotionally stable. No one worries that I will lash out at them or be dramatic. My basic rules of conduct are clear: Always do what you say and say what you mean. Passionates have a great capacity to love. In fact, I may have several "great loves" in my lifetime. When I connect with someone it's immediate, intense, and on multiple levels: mental, emotional, and spiritual. I realize that sometimes love can be brief and other times lifelong. So, I try to enjoy love, avoid the urge to control it, and just see where it takes me. Physical chemistry is a key part of the initial spark for me. Although people love to talk about sex, the truth is that most people are afraid of their "wild" side. My mind needs to be captured first. I trust my instincts and know exactly who I find attractive and what turns me on. No matter how nice a man may be, if there's no passion in your first kiss, it's probably not going to work out.
As a gourd artist and spend a lot of time designing new artwork. Please see my professional website:
http://hometown.aol.com/blackjo1234/
Other tibits about me:
•Prefers to be with family and a few close friends
•Enjoys a small dinner party
•Needs "time for artistic" expression
Words that describe me:
•Sympathetic
•Trusting
•Altruistic
•Selfless
•Tenderhearted
•Compassionate
•Straightforward
•Deferential
•Generous
. Fun
. Honest
. Lady
. Smart
Who I'd like to meet: It would take a very special man to capture my heart. First of all, I need an intelligent conservationist, someone that is physically fit, (not more than 30 pounds overweight), no baggage and mentally confident. I'm not a player and won't let you play with my heart or mind. I have lived a single, happy life for a long time. I am secure, confident and happy. My family and friends are close and dear to me. My spiritual beliefs are strong and keep me centered. If you are honest, smart, happy and have respect for all people, (including four legged animals) then we would have a good starting point. If you love to travel with a moment's notice that is great, too. If you have the utmost respect for our military people and what they do to protect us, then you will get noticed more. My son is a Army pilot. If you cook, keep an organized home and enjoy helping others, then we could definitely be friends at best. If you are ready for a committed relationship (in the near future) then please write. If you drink too much, cuss to much, can't express yourself in a gentle manner, expect me to support you financially, or dabble with drugs, please stay away! I prefer to meet in person for coffee or lunch. I don't want to talk on the phone for weeks or send endless emails. A face to face meeting is the only way to see if we have enough in common to develop a friendship for now. Wishing you the best of luck in your search.
"My wish is for the purest hope in you. In praising that which we hold to be true and dear we create a positive image in our minds and hearts which draws out of us our noblest qualities, the qualities of our own enlightened hearts and minds".
