Cabaret shows lol, some are like music and comedy in one. Hangin' around and partying with friends at the bar. Shooting pool, better when it's at someone's house. And you have to throw the occasional camping trip in there, un-disturbed nature is so beautiful. Things I would like to do again would be horse-back riding, but I don't have one :( and sailing but I don't have a boat either :( I would of course love to travel the world but I'm not independently wealthy or such... maybe someday... too bad it has to be that way. I guess I could include human nature... figuring out what makes people tick and why.
Music
Just about all types really, it depends on the song. I appreciate good music. I have favorites and usually they're songs that have a message, a meaning. But, some I like just 'cause they get you movin'. I like some hip-hop, reggae, dance, techno (I've been a daft punk fan since they first came out in the U.S. 10 years ago when noone at the record stores even heard of them), but I guess mostly alternative/hard rock. I'm not really into country... well more like really not into country... sorry cowboys, I didn't grow up with it. But, I do like a few country songs... a few.
Movies
Breakfast club (it's a classic), The Saint, Dogma, The Village, Sixth Sense, The Others, Total Recall, The Stand, The Matrix trilogy, Enemy of the State, What women want, The Birdcage... etc. etc. There's a few... I'd need to go down a list of like 30 yrs of movies.
Television
I don't watch much TV. When I do, it's usually like the weather channel LOL, or discovery, history... you know, the nerd stuff. Even still I don't take what I see on TV too seriously. I tend to argue the shows, it can be amusing in a nerdy kinda way. Reality shows annoy me, it's not "reality"... if there's a camera and you know you're gonna be on TV then your acting, even if you're not trying to. I also don't get into senseless, mindless violence kinda shows... then again there's how much in the news and on the history channel.
Books
I usually only read non-fiction. Mostly, like researching things I want to know answers to. So, I rarely read anything cover to cover. I read nerd stuff. LOL
Heroes
LOL, most people wouldn't know a real one if they tripped over one.
About me: READ BEFORE YOU EMAIL!!! I'm a TG (trans-gendered) If you don't know what that is visit Michele's enlightening page (top right, top friends)for clarification. I may as well start out being honest and open about it, not looking to "surprise" people. lol Although, it sucks I have to start this way and use labels and such because I am a person first not just some label. _________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________I am NOT looking for an on-line boy-friend. I will NOT send you "sexy" pics!!! And, I will NOT meet you for some "secret interlude"!!! I'm not like that. Although, I don't mind the compliments, of course. But, I don't add guys usually as friends... unless u fit the criteria. I do have guys as friends I talk to but I'm extremely picky when it comes to men. I only like men that are smart, funny, sensual, gorgeous and have a body like a 20 yr. old athlete (and can prove it) and no money does not make up for any of it (it's nice but your money is not what I want). I know I barely have a chance meeting a man like that. And, please don't get offended if you hit on me and I don't respond to your e-mail... for one I get alot and two I hate having to turn you down, it makes me feel like a bitch. I am not here to meet men per se. There are many places I can go to meet one in person... I may even tell you where if you fit the criteria, and you're nice enough lol. I'll be honest, I'm more interested in the feminine figure like you are... I would prefer a really hot T-gurl to a guy. If I'm not interested pushing me is not going to make me want you, only the opposite, like despise the disrespect.
__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________Ok... About me: Classy yet sassy... usually sweet and considerate of others and their feelings, unless you step on mine. I try to be fair, like the whole "do unto others" thing. I can be witty and sarcastic and quick to come back. If I care about someone, I'm compasionate and genuine and if it's someone I'm physically involved with then I'm passionate, sensual and get a kick out of their pleasure.
Mostly I'm pretty level, with a calm demeanor but I can be extreme though. I can be dramatic and silly, or serious and stoic. I can be a sexy cuddly sweetheart... but if I'm crossed or betrayed I can be a meeaan bitch... lol but now, I usually just don't care enough and might just walk away all-together. I don't really have time or patience for games. If you try to play me, you lose me. The best way to avoid it is having the respect to be open and honest. I can handle the truth alot better than being lied to and finding out later... it just kills the bond.
I am fairly opinionated and I tend to share it but, it is my opinion, an idea that is mine, and my opinion can change depending on my understanding. I share it, I do not force it, we are all entitled to opinion it is simply voicing perspective. And, our perspectives are as different as the combinations of experiences in peoples' lives.
Although I'm open-minded and consider other perspectves and possibilities, I am kind of cynnical and skeptical about many things and people. There are many people out there just trying to live and let live, but alot of people are only out for themselves and their immediate gratification. Basically, full of $^!#. They con and manipulate people to get what they want, and it shows.
Everyone is selfish to some extent, we have to be it's a survival instinct. It's not that we are it's how fairly we deal with and handle others. Yet so many pass judgements and sentences on eachother without ever even hearing the other side... without caring to. But would we want to be treated the way we treat others? In our fears and insecurities we all live in "glass-houses" if we want to admit it or not... so, put down the stones.
I feel we are what we make of ourselves as people... and I don't mean financially. I am trying to improve myself, like a work in progress, and I won't be done until I'm dead. I am always looking to make myself better than I am now. Better, quicker, smarter, stronger (mentally, emotionally, and physically), a more all around capable person.
I feel when you stop trying, when you stop caring, you are not living... just meerly existing. Ironically, I watch people search for more ways to make life "easier" and try to pass responsiblity and blame off on others... learning nill from their lives. Even more ironically is that many idolize people that are that way, and call them their heros. Aren't they more like the villians? Maybe we should re-consider why we idolize the people we call heros. LOL and if you actually read all of this I'm impressed... there will be a quiz later LMAO
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Below are some of my friends and inspirations... some are both. My friends inspire me to be me. _______________________________________________________________
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Who I'd like to meet: I'm looking for accepting, fun, interesting people... I'm looking to meet girls or T-gUrls and maybe very select guys that are easy to get along with and not into added drama, life dishes out enough. Mostly I seek positive and feminine friends to spend my time with. I prefer to associate with people that are open-minded, free-thinking, sensitive to their consciences and others, mentally strong and emotionally stable. People that experience and consider life not sit blankly and watch "programming" all day. People that care and have respect for themselves and others. People that can pass the quiz LOL I'm joking... or am I?
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