Brian Heacox

About me:

Life gives us an opportunity to love, and love gives us an opportunity to live...
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My name is Brian, I'm a writer, poet, civil servant, engineer, film producer, actor, hustler, philosopher, strip-club bouncer, comedian, Gemini(couldn't guess that, huh?), cable TV technician, Inventory Supervisor, manager, facilitator (related to prostitution, like pimping with less headaches), silver-tongued devil, and a hopeless romantic. I have no tattoos at the moment, but I have some planned for later this year. I have six piercings, My ears, tongue, nipples, and an Ampallang. I plan to get an Apadravya as well this year, making it a Holy Cross, but my fiancee says she won't let me. I love her so much, she's my heart, my world, my everything. I'm a bit nuts, goofy and at times just plain retarded, but I do it all for a laugh and if you giggle, my job is done. I'll talk about anything, from political views to sexual positions, I just don't care, I'm a Gemini and don't see anything under the sun as taboo...

My philosphy is simple, yet still extremely complex and hard for many to follow, "If you cannot say what's in your heart, I don't care what's on your mind." I believe that people who cut their emotions off, refuse to accept and follow them, aren't worth the time it takes to learn their names. While it sounds simple enough to say "Understand and own your own feelings and we can have an intelligent discourse." Many people find it hard to do so, to reach inside themselves and pull out their emotions, feelings and most profound thoughts, to expose their deepest secrets to the world and hope for a bit of understanding instead of ridicule. But I'll tell you all now, if you are true to yourself, its easy to be truthful with others...