About me:

If you missed the Nightline Debate I was on, along with Craig Gross, Ron Jeremy and Monique Alexander,

Click Here to See It: The Nightline ABC Debate, Filmed at Yale University

For 9 years I was a Christian-hating porn producer. That changed on September 25th, 2006, the day I surrendered my life to the God who created me. I've written a little bit about that . My life has definitely changed a lot since that day.

I've done my share of complaining about the Church. I've seen a lot of hypocrisy and self-righteousness. I've heard and witnessed a lot of horrible things done in the name of Jesus. But a wise woman pointed out to me that being judgmental of the judgmental is still... judgmental. That realization changed my perspective. It's my goal to love everyone without judgment: Christian, Muslim, Atheist... REALLY love them. It's not my place to judge. Nor is it yours.

"Instead of complaining," I tell myself, "Why not get out there and DO something?!" And that is what I intend to do. Right now I've been fortunate enough to be asked to speak all over the country, in front of thousands upon thousands of people. And I hope God continues to use my story to bring hope and positive changes to the lives of some of those who hear what I have to say.

I believe that only love and education, not legislation, can change hearts. I believe the church needs to stop trying to legislate morality and start acting more like Jesus. "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone" applies to all of us. And since none of us are spotless, let's leave the judging to someone who is, mmm'kay? Let's stop trying to scare people into heaven and just love everyone. Sound like a plan?

And to those who have been hurt by the Church:
For what it's worth, I am sorry. Those of us who claim to be Christians really need to start acting more "Christ Like" (which is what that word "Christian" is supposed to mean). We should love you, regardless of who you are or what you've done. I doubt I'll be able to live up to such a huge calling either, but feel free to call me on it when I don't. I definitely WANT to be Jesus in skin as often as possible to as many as possible.

But please don't forget that God and those who claim to represent Him are not one and the same. God loves you. There is NOTHING you could ever do to make Him love you any less. Nothing.

I write (a LOT) on my website: DonnysRamblings.com (check it out, and leave a comment)


The Chico News & Review recently wrote an article about me. Click here to read it online.



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