drawing, reading, fishing, chating, art stuff, and dark hair women-dont ask me why-i just like drawing them,painting them-i must have been one in another life i guess.
Music
Da club is where it,s at- if you can dance to it,fuck too it or drink to it -I like it...
Movies
lots of-Underworld,Mr and Mrs Smith, Any given Sunday,saw1,2,3-o brother where art thou,kill bill, Crash, Hellboy, black hawk down, xmen,porn-oooh yeah and the list keep going....
Television
I tend to like a lot of scfi-shit, or in your face drama-csi,hero,mtv,vhs,fx,BET,MTV
About me: I’m important. So are other people, especially if they are in trouble. I have a tender heart, but I know how to establish and keep personal boundaries. I'm empathetic and compassionate, but I also believe that it's best if people solve their own problems and learn to take care of themselves, if they are able.
I’m deeply moved by the needs of others, but you know that if you don't take good care of yourself, you'll wind up being of no use to anyone. So mine's is a thoughtful compassion. I strive to be fair and sensible, taking care of others while also taking care of MYself.
When someone really is in trouble, I like to collaborate with them toward a solution; they do their part, I do mine. I consider carefully, and respond in a sensible way; they do their part, and together I move through the difficulty.
I seldom act impulsively; rather, when a problem arises, you take your time to think through the situation. This contemplative quality usually means that I'll arrive at a diplomatic solution, one that's fair for the other person and also fair to ME. It's frequently a win/win situation.
Negative Reactions- Others May Have Toward me
For people who are ruled by tender-hearted compassion, i'm more diplomatic response to problems might seem too cool, too focused on fairness and not filled enough with sympathy and selflessness.
For them, when someone's life is on fire, what is needed is not collaboration but rescue. And the person who experiences their life on fire may resent the time you take to contemplate. "I need you, and I need you NOW! This isn't about fairness, it's about the fire." "All deliberate speed" may seem too deliberate and not fast enough, either to the more compassionate or to people in genuine trouble.
At the other end of the spectrum of compassion, those who believe people should take care of themselves may find even my thoughtful sympathies too soft. They expect people, themselves included, to work their own way out of trouble. They are convinced that the helping hand you lend just fosters dependence and is not good for the development of character, either in me or in the person I assist.
thoughtful compassion for others and its compliment in the sensible ways you take good care of yourself.
Those whom I help will appreciate the way I leave them with their dignity by expecting them to collaborate in their own rescue. Those who are more tender-hearted will find in you a balance they lack; when they've run out of energy because they fail to take good care of themselves, I will still have enough compassion left to lift others out of trouble.
Even the tough-hearted, those who believe people should solve their own problems, might come to admire my tenderness which they don't find in themselves. So the people I help will be grateful, and the people who see my balance between self and others will admire me. Certainly, balanced is not bad thing....
LAST WORDS
Work hard, play hard-and like ET said-be good.
I enjoy interacting with others-it's somein I am good at. but mostly am looking to make friends, chat a bit-I have a great love for the human body, art,comics,scfi, fantasy stuff, pool halls ,and gettin twisted ... -I love to draw, paint and or watch a
great movie or get into deep deep discussion about the world at large but my greatest interest is working out-AND CROTCH ROCKETS-GOT TA GET ME ONE- milk does do a body good-and the gym is my master.. Iam a vet so no bad mouthing any man or woman who did their thing for uncle Sam. But the goverment is alway fair game.
And lately sex is my game-got ta slow my roll too much is not a good thing-o hell that,s a lie-I is Lovein it.
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