Shila

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  • Shila

  • 38 / Female
  • London, East, UK
  • Last Login: 7/28/2009

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    Domestic violence Too often the crime of domestic violence is hidden away, but we are determined to bring it out into the open and address its root causes. What is meant by 'domestic violence'? Domestic violence is any incident of threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between adults who are or have been in a relationship together, or between family members, regardless of gender or sexuality. Facts & figures Although domestic violence is chronically under reported, research estimates it: * accounts for 16% of all violent crime * will affect 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men in their lifetime * 77% of victims of domestic violence are women * has more repeat victims than any other crime (on average there will have been 35 assaults before a victim calls the police) * on average, two women are killed every week by a current or former male partner * one incident of domestic violence is reported to the police every minute (Source: Crime in England and Wales 2006/07 report) Whatever form it takes, domestic violence is rarely a one-off incident. More usually it's a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviour through which the abuser seeks power over their victim. Domestic violence occurs across society, regardless of age, gender, race, sexuality, wealth and geography. The figures show, however, that it consists mainly of violence by men against women. Victims of domestic violence suffer on many levels - health, housing, education - and lose the freedom to live their lives how they want, and without fear. We aim to support victims of domestic violence with a range of new measures What we're doing about domestic violence We have invested £14 million into tackling the problem of domestic violence and have developed a Domestic Violence National Action Plan. Domestic Violence National Action Plan Domestic Violence: A national report (new window) sets out our progress so far in tackling the crime. It also details the Domestic Violence National Action Plan proposals to further improve support for victims and bring more perpetrators to justice. Lessons Learned from Domestic Violence Enforcement Campaigns 2006 draws from the experiences of 19 police forces trying innovative techniques over a four-month period in 2006. Their successes and failures form guidelines for police, local authorities and support groups. New laws to increase protection from domestic violence The Domestic Violence, Crime and Victims Act 2004 was introduced to increase the protection, support and rights of victims and witnesses. It also gives the police and other agencies the tools to get to the heart of domestic violence crimes. The Act is a key part of our aim of putting victims at the heart of the criminal justice system. How you can get help If you are a victim of domestic violence, or are a concerned friend or relative, you can get the help and support you need. Domestic violence helplines The following helplines can offer you practical help and advice including: * emergency refuge accommodation * safety planning and advice * translation facilities if you have difficulty communicating in English English National Domestic Violence helpline 0808 2000 247 Northern Ireland Women's Aid 24 Hour Domestic Violence Helpline 028 9033 1818 Scottish Domestic Abuse Helpline 0800 027 1234 Wales Domestic Abuse Helpline 0808 80 10 800 www.wdah.org Male Advice & Enquiry Line 0845 064 6800 The Dyn Wales/Dyn Cymru Helpline 0808 801 0321 www.homeoffice.gov.uk/crime-victims/reducing-crime/domestic-violence
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    Any but not horror movies
  • Television

    Oprah Winfrey Show and many soaps, Eastenders, Coronation Street, Emmerdale etc
  • Books

    Virginia Andrew's series, Roots, True life MyHotComments
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    Stay strong and focussed but slow to judge and quick to understand. Be open to love and soon it'll find its way to you!
  • Heroes

    Oprah Winfrey, Maya Angelo, Erin Brockvinch, Survivors of Domestic Violence. WHO I'D LIKE TO MEET Oh... where do I start? Everyone!People who have gone through challenges and made it in the end; people who love life and live it to its fullest. I'd also like to meet those who had been rejected and feel worthless, people who have had to struggle with acceptance and self esteem, those who have suffered abuse. Psychologists, Domestic Violence representatives or advocates, educationists, Oprah Winfrey. MESSAGE TO YOU ALL!!! Did you know that no one deserves to be beaten or run down? Believe me... you are special, sadly tough unless you pick up yourself and begin to appreciate yourselves, then no one would. But how? many may ask. This is why I'd like to meet you. I'd like to hear those burning questions that you struggle with. Peace! Check this Link out, order your copy of Duplicity at http://www.trafford.com/06-3032 For all my friends who cares about me,show some love and post my URL on your site for your friends to see, help promote my book, thank you!

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  • Status: In a Relationship
  • Here for: Networking, Friends
  • Orientation: Straight
  • Ethnicity: Black / African descent
  • Religion: Christian - other
  • Zodiac Sign: Gemini
  • Children: Proud parent
  • Smoke / Drink: No / No
  • Education: Grad / professional school
  • Occupation: Writer

Schools

  • University of East London

    • Dagenham, United Kingdom
    • Graduated: 2002
    • Student status: Alumni
    • Degree: Bachelor's Degree
    • Major: Human Resource Management
    • Minor: Business Administration
    • Clubs: none
    1998 to 2002

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ABOUT DUPLICITY A beautifully written and remarkable novel packed with unforgettable characters, emotional dept and insight; it is a story that would move you, make you cry, cringe and laugh; it is set against the background of a disciplined lifestyle of the twenty first century. Shila Amos’s enthralling novel is a story of an innocent young woman’s journey from a carefree life into a complicated relationship when she meets a man that would change her life forever. Sylvia falls in love with Patrick within a few weeks of meeting him whilst taking a walk, she finds him to be very humble and sensitive as she discovers that his job is very delicate, caring for vulnerable people. His sensitive nature draws them even closer and they become inseparable. They get married and her life is filled with magical events being wined and dined. Is this real? A few months into her marriage she realises that Patrick could face deportation unless his status is updated by the home office; and if that was not enough, there were more than just the two of them in the marriage. Madam Lucy, “the mother-in-law” is like a pain in the neck. Is she just being an over protective mum not willing to let her son go or is there more to it? Bewildered Sylvia watches her safe and happy world come apart. Patrick finally obtains right to remain in the United Kingdom on grounds of marriage to a British citizen, suddenly a new personality emerges… the change is devastating to Sylvia who struggles to come to terms with this new man he’d become, she also discovers that he is a fully grown mummy’s boy and a sex addict. How far would he go to satisfy his addiction? Desperate for answers she starts a wild search and comes across some disturbing truth that would change her life forever. Torn by his addiction and violent outbursts, she shuts her family out and turns to her in-laws. Why? Could this be the end of her misery? DUPLICITY is now available at amazon.com, amazon.co.uk, amazon.de, amazon.fr, amazon.ca, barnesandnobble.com, WHsmith, Waterstone book stores, your local libraries in US, Canada, Europe and UK. Product description: 410 pages, Perfect bound, catalogue no. 06-3032, ISBN 1-4251-1273-0 Retail price: US$29.99, C$34.49, EUR23.38, £15.50

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