About me: Hey peoples, My name is Topher and i will readily admit I am "different". I have very eclectic tastes in music and in life. I'm into Martial Arts, Yoga, Meditation, and walking. I love to just walk around this city and enjoy nature. I like dancing as Aerobics and dance around my room. I do Bellydance and Chinese Fan Dance but also some salsa. I'm an avid reader love to read all sorts of things from the Metaphysical to Therotical Physics. I'm a practicing Pagan and it's a very important part of my life. I collect swords. Someone with similiar interests as me (or semi similiar) would be cool. If any of this interests you please contact me at thocool81@hotmail.com, on aim as funboycurly or check out my myspace at www.myspace.com/faeboydc. Sincerly, Topher
Who I'd like to meet: I came up with my list of what I'm looking for in a guy. It's all personality and interests based since my physical intersts vary widely.
It's a rather intersting and lenthy list
1.someone who is accepting of who I am
2.doesn't try to change me, but helps me grow
3.Masculine; yet sensitive especially towards feelings/emotions, acts of kindness and objects of cuteness
4.similiar interests
5.unique and self intersted in matters of fashion i.e. no label whores (kilt, sarong and skirt wearers a plus)
6.openminded towards paganism, psychic affairs and the paranormal
7.eclectic interests in music, movies and books
8.self labeled nerd, geek or dork
9.confident but not cocky
10.takes care of himself (eats well exercises)
11.nonsmoker(exceptions can be made), social drinker and non-drug user (exceptions will not be made)
12.Likes animals and small children (over 5 they get annoying)
13.physically affectionate including in public
14.traditional romantic but not attached to roles (i.e. willing to give and receive flowers and be object of attention)
15.out to friends and family
16.wise for his age; but gives into moments of silliness
17.not mainstream (i.e. doesn't necessarily believe in labels whether it be scence based or gay stuff like that)
18.gives me shivers in bed (you figure that out)
19.enjoys a variety of activities
20.enjoys cooking, winetasting and mixolgy
21.open to discovery
22.proud and not jealous that others may find his man attractive
23.understands the Savage Garden song quote "I believe trust is more important than monogamy" and that love is not a limited resource but the more you give the more you receive.
Hmm I put this list up as guideline and I eneded up meeting the man that fit all of it. Nick baby, I'm so happy to have you. you make me a better man! Love you.
Hey topher! Very handsome new profile picture...and also a nice picture in the Washington Post Magazine today!!!! I miss you! hope all is well and Circa is as exciting as always!
Hi Topher! Thanks for the add. We are friends on tribe.net too. Do you have MSN Messenger or YahooMessenger? If yes, please, add me. My id is lughson@hotmail.com Blessings from Brazil!
