I can see my problem now and the solution is to alter my skeleton.
After spending time looking for something important in waterstones i realised that books for the younglings are a sqillion times more influential, inspirational and intelligent than richard and judy's book club picks.
Milk, milk, lemonade around the corner fudge is made.
im the guy at the side of the club with his phone pressed tightly against his ear so he can listen to a song that has changed his life rather than a 'choon' that changed his choice of drink?