NoMan Pan

About me:

Above everything and anything else in life, I am a father to my son. That is the most important thing to me and that is the most important thing to my son. Who and what I am is good people lookin' to meet good people....I am also living with HIV so if my body modifications and my status do not bother you please add me as a friend if interested. I am NOT a devil worshiper...I AM a spiritual person but DO NOT have ties with any form or organized religion. Having been born into and raised in the Catholic faith I have chosen to break away from the "rule" of that religion and I enjoy the teachings of Chinese Philosophy, namely The I Ching. I love and accept people from all walks of live and from all spritual beliefs and faiths...though I am not a follower of Catholocism, I still love many of the teachings which are near and dear to my heart and I love Gregorian Chants. Having left corporate life after twenty six years due to my HIV illness, I am following my dream of living life as an artist...I paint and write poetry and presently am a full time student at The Art Institute of Pittsburgh Online Division, majoring in Media Arts & Animation, taking all my courses in an asynchronous classroom where I enjoy meeting and interacting with fellow students from all over the Unites States. My son and I are very close and we share a very special relationship. I recently lost my best friend of thirty years and partner of twenty years, Mark on New Years Day 2009; my life simply would not be the same without having met him in 1979 when I was about to turn nineteen. It is to Mark that I owe my eternal gratitude and love for his guidance and love for me and though my life now has a big void without him I know he is still watching over me now as he did for many a year. I am happy for the friends I have and I look forward to meeting and making new friends. I have been a guest on The Ricki Lake Show, featured on Ripley's Believe It Or Not and also in the Documentary moive "Modify". I love my body modifications; horns and my forehead and ridged brow implants with over seventy piercings, and I consider myself to be a work in progress with more mods planned. Thank you for visiting me and Welcome....To Oblivion! ~ NoMan Pan