intellectual, artistic, musical, literary, emotional and sexual passion! Listening, caring, respecting, affirming and accepting. Playful adventursomeness. Being passionately present without clinging to attachments (whether they be thoughts, words, feelings or deeds).
Music
Pretty eclectic taste... Classical, Jazz, R&B, Blues, Show tunes, Rock 'n Roll, Avante Garde, Opera, folk, Some New Age & Electronic Music, "World" music )Hearts of Space, Echos, etc., Some metal, rap, hip hop, etc.
Movies
Foreign Films that come to light in the foreign film festival circuit, (Federico Felini, Ingmar Bergman, Abbas Kiarostami, Fred Zimmerman, David Lean, Akira Kurosawa, Stanley Kubrick, François Truffaut, Woody Allen, Luis Mandoki (and screenplay writer Oscar Torres), Alejandro González Iñárritu, Magid Magidi, Massimo Troisi and so on)
Arts films, like Rivers and Tides, ... I enjoy some of the TCM classics; I also enjoy biographical movies like The Namesake (Mira Nair).
Television
I hardly watch TV, but when I find myself in front of one that's already turned on... I like Charlie Rose, M.A.S.H. re-runs, ...Northern Exposure is pretty good!
Books
A wide variety: Philosophy, religion, nonviolence, science and nature, history and political analysis, economics, art and music history, biographies, fiction, classic literature, poetry, short stories, and more
Heroes
Mahatma Ghandi, Martin Luther King, Desmond Tutu, Nelson Mandella, Malcom X, W.E.B. Duboise, Cornell West, Noam Chomsky, Howard Zinn, Marcus Borg, John Dominick Crossan, Saint Bebedict, Heather Boyle, Other fat acceptance promoters, & many, many more...
About me: I am a well-educated man who enjoys cultural & outdoor activities. I volunteer time for community work & am concerned about increasing social & economic justice locally and globally. I enjoy domestic and international travel. I love the ocean, the mountains, the crisp autumn leaves of New Hampshire, the enchanting desert color of New Mexico.
I value living a simple life. I am well read, enjoy nature, science, literature, music, theatre and the arts.
I appreciate women who value intelligence, interesting conversation, wry humor, community concern, living a simple lifestyle, independence; may want a life partner but is open to friendship leading to intimacy and life-long partnership.
I love many varieties of live and recorded music and I enjoy dancing, poetry, theater, art, cooking, photography, woodworking & much more.
I pretty much handle my own auto mechanics and PC maintenance & repair issues. I thought Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance was right on!
I enjoy passionate, intimate sexual encounter. I'm sexually creative & adventuresome; I love to learn how you enjoy being erotically stimulated to peak sexual arousal.
I hope you find me to be authentic, a person of integrity, caring, respectful, appreciative, non-judgmental, passionate, assertive, open-minded, unconventional, intuitive, sensual & a good listener; I hope you are, too.
Although I'm not religious in the usual sense of the word, I have developed a profound awareness of & appreciation for existentially grounded spiritual insight through meditation, contemplation, reading, reflection & conversation.
I can be funny- I can be deep; I try to be aware of my gifts & share them with others; I try to be aware of my shortcomings & heal what wounds may lie beneath them. I encourage you, likewise, to live a kind, gentle, authentic, compassionately examined life.
Imagine how the world would be if everyone in it had clean air to breathe, clean water to drink, good food to eat, a simple, comfortable home, caring, loving relationships, & plenty of hot, erotic sex! Imagine if everyone could be tender & vulnerable with each other!
What if everyone realized that we are not constrained by regrets of the past but are utterly free to create a life of whatever possibility we choose- that we are free to forgive ourselves & others- that we are free to right the wrongs of our past? How fine to work to create the political will to live in such a world!
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Who I'd like to meet: I'm looking for a woman or women to meet a variety of possibilities. We can see what unfolds as we go along. Ultimately I would like to have a life partner who is smart, emotionally intelligent, kind, loving, fat, self-accepting, unconventional, sensual, erotic, sexually passionate, well-read, politically left wing, and so on.
You get it that "fat" is not a four letter word! I hope you are intuitive and sensual, salaciously erotic, sexually passionate and adventuresome; maybe you even enjoy showing off your soft, lushy, sexy bod! At any rate, you take great pleasure in my being a fat admirer and you love your fat as much as I do.
You love it that I'm culinarily adept and enjoy cooking good, delicious food for us. Maybe you only want to get involved with someone who is open to commitment right now. Or maybe you'd prefer to explore your lover's full range of being. Maybe you are open to polyamorous encounters. I'm not necessarily seeking this- but I'm not closed to the possibility. Basically I have a pretty open mind.
I suppose the level of commitment we desire to make toward each other depends on a variety of parameters- some of which may include how we encounter each other, what hopes, dreams and desires we each are present to at some particular time. What do we each feel comfortable with... do we naturally engage in plenty of open, frank, friendly communication? Do we each feel confident that we each will be able to discern what level of openness and commitment feels right to us?
In my mind, the main thing is to be open, honest, affirming, respectful and caring with ourselves and each other. I would want each of us to refrain from put-downs, judgments, criticisms, jealousies or outbursts of anger or other forms of verbal, physical or cognitive violence. If we are truly open with each other, we can be gentle with each other and always tell where we stand with each other.
We don't necessarily have to plumb the depths of psychic understanding with each other. But if violence of any form arises, I think it's time to work on healing whatever underlying wounds might be discovered. If neither the will, courage or trust arises to engage in such work- maybe it would be best to part ways. Please enjoy good conversation, have a compassionate heart and freely and authentically, speak your heart and mind.
I'm looking for a woman who is well rounded- in all & the best senses of the word! Do you want to fall in love again? Let's explore possibilities.
May whatever erotic desire effervesces in each effulgent moment bear unique fruit in unfettered rolls in the hay- untainted by guilt or restraint. ... Oh, to enjoy life's simple, sensual pleasures including sensual touch and massage, flowers and incense, eating lusciously delicious food, good music, literature, poetry, theater, art, cinema, nature, &c. with a sublimely humorous appreciation for the absurd and the ridiculous... but not a slave to caustic or sarcastic wit.
Oh yes, and one more crucial element: making special time to be with each other within the context of our work and other social commitments. I’m looking for an ostensibly open, frightfully fun, easy going, possibly polyamorous laid back friendship & plenty of delicious physicality with a salaciously soft, pleasingly plump audaciously ample -fabulously fat- woman like you who’s looking for a man of similar passion and disposition.
I’m looking for a juicy fat woman who is truly comfortable with her fabulously fat curvylicious body- a ,true woman who loves her soft, sexy folds of fat and who feels like they have nothing to hide and nothing to lose. I find such women to be the quintessence of feminine pulchritude!
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