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This has been added to this page to bring awareness to the problem of homelessness and the barrier that it creates for those trying to escape violence

85% of Women in homeless shelters are escaping violence in the home. . There are others that are simply just not wanted by their families or friends. Some are simply discarded like a piece of trash, while others are turned away because of fear or ignorance. Many of these stories do not turn out good. 18, year old, mentally disabled Chester,  had been abused and starved for years on end. When the state refused "food stamp" benefits to Chester's parents he was discarded as if he were nothing. He was put on a bus by himself in search of his "real" father. Chester died shortly after arriving in FL from his stomach rupturing and kidney failure. Chester's story would not be here if some compassionate people had not taken him in and gotten him medical attention.

Most of these people just simply vanish and rarely does anyone even care enough to wonder what happened to them. Most domestic violence shelter's are only temporary solutions and do not address the long term needs that a victim of violence has to rebuild their lives. In an "offender" based criminal justice system, rarely is any attention whatsoever given to address the needs of the victim. Because our society tends to view the victims of domestic violence as somehow culpable or weak, the problem is ignored. Some of these people die in our streets, some to turn a life of crime, as violence is the only thing that they have ever been shown or experienced, still other's retreat to a life of isolation with unaddressed poverty that affects them and their children. These are the stories of the homeless dying, homeless living, those that turned to a life a crime and those whose needs were never addressed. If they have not perished, some of these may turn into the criminal that in the future MAY BE AT YOUR DOORSTEP! The next time that you see a homeless person or someone that is living in a manner that does not seem "normal" ie. without sewage or water maybe you should ask yourself  if your indifference could possibly contribute to the crimes that person may have to committ in order to survive. The next time that you donate "canned beets" to your local food pantry, maybe you could pick up a can of beef stew instead. Many people escaping violence simply do not have the support systems that they need within their world. DO NOT ASSUME that there are social agencies to take care of everything because there simply are not or are not enough to address the many, many needs that it takes to rebuild a life that has suffered years of violence. I have but one suggestion as you contemplate these words, ask yourself, if it were me or my child what would I want someone to do.

Things people do not consider with the problem of homelessness:

1. an address to place on a job application

2. a shower to get to a job

3. has this person recently eaten

4. does this person have a toothbrush to brush their teeth for a job interview or to go to work

If you know someone that has been sleeping in their car, THEY ARE HOMELESS. If you know someone that does not know from one day to the next where they will sleep that night, THEY ARE HOMELESS. If you know someone that lives without basic human necessities, search of water or lack of sewage, THIS IS POVERTY! Get a grip, these people don't just go away. Many of them have been forgotten about and thrown away. You can do something, your church can do something and SHOULD DO SOMETHING. Sometimes these people have jobs, but cannot afford one moment away from work, lest their fragile existences fall completely apart. Ask yourself and consider what you could do. Ask yourself and consider, what would I do if that were me? Instead of spending your lunch hour watching a soap opera, maybe you could make a phone call for a person like this and see if you could get a case worker involved to help them. I ask you to consider....what would you do? Some are junkies, they are sick, some are ill or mentally disabled, some are victims of crime that have had no resources with which to build their lives. In the richest country in the world, people are more concerned with the next airing of "American Idol" than they are with being their brother's keeper. If you ignore the problem it will not go away and it may one day become your problem.

 http://www.myspace.com/angelwings_181 for Chesters Story of domestic abuse, starvation and homelessness

Compassion is a

SENSE OF SHARED SUFFERING,

most often combined with a

DESIRE TO ALLEVIATE OR REDUCE SUCH SUFFERING;

to show special kindness to those who suffer. Thus compassion is essentially

EMPATHY, though with a more ACTIVE SLANT

 in that the compassionate person will seek to actually

AID THOSE THEY FEEL COMPASSION FOR.

Compassionate acts are those which take into account the suffering of others and

ATTEMPT TO ALLEVIATE THAT SUFFERING AS IF IT WERE ONE'S OWN.

Compassion is a type of behavior which seeks to

BENEFIT OTHERS BY REDUCING THEIR SUFFERING.
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On August 28, 1996, Carrie Culberson vanished without a trace. Her, then boyfriend, Vincent Doan, was later convicted of murdering Carrie Culberson. To this day, Vincent still has not revealed the whereabouts of Carrie's remains. This is Vincents "last stand holdout" .. over Carrie Culberson. Carrie's family won a civil suit in Blanchester, Ohio against the police department regarding their mishandling of part of the investigation. Carrie's case is remarkable in that a conviction was achieved although Carrie's body was not recovered. There have been several other indictments in regards to Carrie's case.

Carrie was a tender, 22 years old at the time of her death. Many persons are still seeking the remains of Carrie Culberson so she can be put to rest. Please refer to all of the information on Carrie's website. The website is fairly detailed and informative regarding Carrie's case and the ongoing search for her remains. This case can be quite helpful to prosecutor's and investigators in regard to proceeding on a murder charge without a body. It also is encouraging that the family won their civil suit against the police department regarding the improper handling of Carrie's remains, in that law enforcement should be held held accountable for securing of crime scenes, proper investigation's, etc.

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If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!

 

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National Media Contact Information  
  If you are trying to circulate a missing or murdered person's information, often times it's very important to get it to go national. Below is a list of addresses, emails and websites that are affiliated with the national level. I recommend sending letters and emails to each of these at least once every two weeks until you receive a responce. You may change the format of the letters each time so that once it's opened by the agency, they do not recognize it from the last few attempts. This way the letter is read and it is given a chance
***Please note that some contacts only have an online email or comment form***
 
CBS Television Network
60 Minutes Producer
524 W 57th St Fl 3,
New York, NY 10019-2924
email: audsvcs@cbs.com
    America's Most Wanted
PO Box CRIME TV
Washington, DC 20016-9126
email: comments@AMW.com
 
 
The Montel Williams Show
433 West 53rd St.
New York, NY 10019
email: v_services@montelshow.com
    On the Record with Greta
Email Only: ontherecord@foxnews.com
 
   
  MSNBC Investigates
MSNBC TV
One MSNBC Plaza
Secaucus, N.J. 07094
Email: msnbcinvestigates@MSNBC.com
 
  48 Hours
524 West 57th St.
New York, New York 10019
Email: 48hours@cbsnews.com
   
 
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New York, New York 10112
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147 Columbus Avenue
New York, NY 10023
Email: netaudr@abc.com
  Story Suggestions Dateline NBC
30 Rockefeller Plaza Room 510
New York, New York 10112
email: dateline@nbc.com
   
 
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47 W 66th St,
New York, NY 10023-6201
Email : 2020@abc.com
  The Today Show
Polly Powell, Senior Broadcast Producer,
30 Rockefeller Plaza Rm. 374E
New York, NY 10112
Email: today@nbc.com
   
   
 
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This site is to give a voice to those whose voices were taken from them. Everyday many, many people lose their lives to Domestic Violence. They are not added to the statistics due to "lack of evidence", poor investigative processes, etc. Although they are listed as "homicides" or "missing", the fact remains that they have not been given their proper status, therefore creating and harboring ignorance and indifference in a society where Domestic Violence has reached epidemic proportions. This site is designed to give the Lost & Dead the appropriate voice that EVERY life deserves!

My hope is to collect as many photo's and stories as I can from families that have survived this senseless tragedy. This site is Three-Fold:

 1) Send pictures, news articles, emails and letters regarding your LOST loved one that remains unsolved.

2) Send pictures, news articles, emails and letters regarding those that were listed as a Homicide, but the case remains unsolved or the courts "lack evidence" to prosecute.

3) If their was a homicide resulting in a conviction, I also want those pictures, news articles, email and letters.

 This site is not simply a memorial site. Although, we honor the victims and their families this site is being built and tracked in hopes of taking actual numbers & photos to our government and demanding stronger laws, better investigations & to provide real numbers and faces to this epidemic problem that our government must face and do something about. This site also is to call those living with this crime to action. If you are in an abusive relationship or have recently left, the pictures and stories here are realities meant to Save Your Life. ***For anyone that contributes, I offer my deepest sympathy for your loss. My hopes are to bring something beautiful to rise from the ashes of your suffering and grief. Do not let your loved ones death be in vain, their voice is crying from the grave. Tell your story it just may SAVE SOMEONE'S LIFE.*** *********************************************************** If you know of someone that does not have internet access, please encourage them to mail there story to: P.O. Box 23 Lexington, GA  30648*******************************************************

I also would like to collect a SAFETY PIN for each life lost and not listed for what it is. I think it would make a huge impact on Congress to take them a trunk or truck load full of SAFETY PINS that each represent a LIFE LOST TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.  Let's show our daughters, mothers, grandmothers & sisters that they were & are someone by making EACH LIFE COUNT!

 

 
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the link below is for families & friends of murder victims

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Parents of Murdered Children

for the families and friend of those that have died by violence

 

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Nicole Sinkule, Sept. 20, 1980 - Oct. 16, 2005.

Police responded to a domestic call at Nicole's apartment the evening of October 16th, 2005 and did not remove Eric Nathaniel "Nate" Marum from Nicoles Oceanside apartment. Three Hours later Nicole was  beat to death with a hammer. She suffered 13 deadly blows. Eric Marum faces sentencing on Feb. 2, 2007.

Nicoles family would like victim impact statements as to why Eric should spend the rest of his life behind bars.

Nicole's family has created "The Nicole Sinkule Foundation to be a "voice" against two social ills that appear to have factored in their daughter's death ---- domestic violence and the suspected killer's methamphetamine use. They said they also hope the foundation will bring changes to a law enforcement system they believe failed them." (from article in NCTimes.Com by



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The people that this site is about! Each of them had a life that was cut short by another person and will never get to become whomever God meant for them to be.********************* Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting Angela murdered June 4, 1999 in Wyandot County, Ohio. Her car was set on fire with her in it to destroy the evidence. The case was never prosecuted. She was 30 years old and left behind 2 daughters. Her murderer walks free!********************************************************************************************************************** New Page 1

On, April 4, 2004 Margarita
Casillo was found in her Elmwood Park, Illinois home
naked. She was found lying on her hallway floor with seven needle stab marks to her heart of her chest. She had multiple bruising on her both of her forearms, the shins of her knees and across her back.
Her current partner was the last
person to see her alive. He had been overheard by
neighbors next door threatening to kill her. This was just three days before her body was found.

The coroner ruled her death as
"undetermined." (click on Margarita's picture to see her story as told to me by her daughter Susana)

 

Linda Anne Regan preceeded her i

Linda Anne Regan preceeded her in death on Memorial Day 2001. She was found with her car in park on University Drive in the Plantations of Florida. She was parked west
bound in an east bound lane. The coroner marked the cause of death as "Blunt Chest Trauma. "

The last person to see her alive was a neighbor. The neighbor saw her leaving with her "live in boyfriend" in his father's white car. The same car she was found in. Following them was a young brunette with a red car.

He came back with her.


Linda Anne Regan
7/27/76 - 5/28/01

NO PROSECUTION, NO CONVICTION HER KILLER WALKS FREE

(click on Linda Anne's Picture for full story as told to me by her sister Susana)

Tina Martindale

Tina Martindale,

In March, a Kane County coroner's jury deliberated for more than an hour -- much longer than normal for an inquest -- before ruling Tina's death a homicide.

Though the Aurora Police Department is investigating the case, no one has been arrested.

(click on Tina's picture to read her story)

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Gina Marie Lupson-Holden-Young, June 1, 1967-June 9, 1993
Shaun Edward Lupson-Holden, December 1, 1989-June 9, 1993
Joshua Lee Lupson-Young, November 10, 1992-June 9, 1993

Wednesday June 9, 1993 Gina's  husband poured gasoline in the living room, up the stairs, and right into Gina's bedroom, lit a match, and walked away — walked away with not a burn on his body; walked away with no carbon monoxide in his lungs; walked away while Gina, Shaun and Joshua died in the inferno. (click on Gina's picture for full story - her husband was sentenced to three consecutive life sentences)

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On October 22, 2000, Claire Joyce Tempongko was brutally murdered by her ex-boyfriend, Tari Ramirez. Ramirez stabbed Claire to death in her home in front of her two young children. Ramirez is still at large. (click on Claire's picture to read the full story - her murder is at large and a picture is posted in the link)

 

Berna Samara Judge Ellington, Cameron Noah and Christian Caleb Ellington

Died May 17, 2006. All three were beaten to death with a hammer by Berna's husband and the twins father, Clayton Ellington. (click on Berna's picture for story)

On Dec. 26, 2006, after 27 years of marriage, Steve Donald killed his wife then himself. Just 4 days prior Annette had convinced a judge to lift a "stay away" order on Steve. In one final attempt to save her marriage, Annette paid the ultimate price & so did Steve. Left behind were their children and grandchildren. Please see Annette's "MY SPACE", told by her old friend, Irish Rose or you can refer to her full story on the web by clicking here.

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Ashley Marie Scott died of Blunt Force Head Trauma on Thanksgiving Day 2006, at the hands of her husband. She was a school teacher and admired by all of her students. Husband let her stay in the garage for several hours with injuries prior to calling 911. One of Mrs. Scott's students told me that she died of her injuries later at the hospital. To see Mrs. Scott's full story to date (as I know it) CLICK HERE.

On February 21

On February 21, 2005, 20 year old, Evelynn Grace Smith died of stab wounds. She was murdered in a bathtub, then placed on a bed. Her killer folded her arms across her chest and then laid a Spanish language bible on her. Her killer, at first, claimed that the two had a suicide pact, but it was later determined that there was no way that Evelynn could have inflicted the wounds that she had upon herself. Investigators learned about some sort of domestic violence report between Smith and Trejo-Ramirez in North Carolina but hadn't obtained any details. Fernando Trejo-Ramirez, 19, has been charged with second-degree murder. Click Here to see Evelynn Grace Smith's story as told by her mom's friend, Francine.

Rebecca Caldwell, her story as told by her sister:

around 4am on the morning of september 18, 00', rebecca was getting stoned. her ex, ben, was getting drunk. he had, earlier in the day, argued his way through her door demanding a place to crash. she, being rebecca, allowed his entry. the arguments grew grew and grew, like the devil's erection, until ben saw fit to strangle rebecca til her eye popped out of socket, til she bit off most of her own tongue, til she never breathed again.
poor ben panicked, spending the next day and a half in rebecca's one bedroom apartment, drinking and smoking and god knows what else, as her body grew cold and stiff. the blood stains on her bed had long since dried when ben saw fit to call the proper authorities on his white trash self. rebecca's family had to make do with a closed casket ceremony. eventually, ben was found guilty and sentenced to life behind bars, where his meals would forever be provided, and he would never again have to sweat a utility bill. To vist Rebecca's MySpace Click Here. Rebecca had two outstanding warrants on Ben at the time of her death. The authorities in Louisville say that they were not "obligated" to serve warrants. The family still pursues justice for Rebecca.
 

Tynesha Stewart went MISSING on March 15, 2007. She was missing for over a week. Her family and a local activists did not give up and ultimately got a confession from her Ex-Boyfriend who had strangled her and placed body in a dumpster. There are some lessons to be learned here and I hope that you will read Tynesha Stewarts FULL STORY.

On January 2, 2007 two intruder's  broke into the home of Merced Costilla, where Brenda Greenwood and her baby were staying. Merced Costilla was shot in the stomach, Brenda Greenwood was shot multiple times and her daughter, Reya had also been shot. Brenda died later at the hospital, however Reya (her baby) survived with wounds from the gunshot(s) to her arm, lung and neck. Approximately one week earlier, Brenda had filed a protective order against Reya's father, Jaime Casillas. At the hospital, the victims identified one of the shooter's as Jaime Casillas. Casillas had previous convictions for domestic battery in 2005 and 2000 according to prosecutorsJaime Casillas currently awaits trial. For further information regarding Brenda Greenwood visit the full story at wordpress or you can visit her sister Holly at http://www.myspace.com/hollygarzao. Holly currently seeks custody of her niece, Reya.

 

Tracey Sigman, 28 years old, was beat to death by her husband, in her home on May 1, 1994. Her 11 year old daughter Megan, and 15 year old brother were also present the day that this happened. Tracey had 42 multiple bruise over her body, 6 abrasions to her head, hair was missing from her right temple. Her 9th rib was also broken and her sternum broke and cut a one and half inch gash into her heart. Her spouse, Megan's father, only spent 10 years in prison for this violent death, in the presence of two minors. Although his daughter showed up at his parole board hearing, he was released from prison. Tracey's brother lives in the same town as this man and has to encounter him on occasion. Megan, the daughter states that he was VERY abusive to both her and her mother. Megan spent years being understandably angry (probably an understatement), however later tried to establish contact with her father. He never responded to Megan. Megan's story of her feelings surrounding all of these events are blogged in a story called: "Letters from Megan, Homicide through the Eye's of a child", Insights into the feelings and life experience of the children that bear witness to domestic violence, abuse and homicide. To visit Megan's MySpace, click on her mom's (Tracey's) picture. To read Megan's story of what domestic violence is like through the eyes of a child, click anywhere on the highlighted text.
 

 

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Sandra Kay Travis has been missing from Mayfield, Kentucky since July 31, 2005.  Her daughter, who lives in Illinois was not aware of the extent of the abuse that her mother suffered, until after her mother went "missing". Mrs. Travis' daughter has since learned that a lot of victims of Domestic Abuse "keep it to themselves". Mrs. Travis, daughter has been told that Sandra Kay's husband, Bobby Travis, is a person of interest in the case, by the Sheriff’s Department in  the presiding jurisdiction.     

 

When you ask Sandra Kay Travis' daughter, "what do you think has happened to your mom?" She will readily tell you 
that she believes that her mother was murdered! She has sound reasons for this belief. 
 
Below is a series of correspondence between myself and the daughter of Sandra Kay Travis. You will see why Bobby 
Travis, should be investigated,  which has YET to take place in a manner in which the family members are satisfied with.
There are also "key" pieces of evidence that I have omitted from this document as they may or may not be applicable. 
I neither want to alert Mr. Travis, if indeed, he is responsible for whatever happened to Sandra Kay Travis, nor do I 
want to compromise these items (possible physical evidence) if they indeed do hold "answers" to certain physical 
evidence relating to the disappearance of Sandra Kay Travis. 
 
 
Below is some of the correspondence between myself and the victims’ daughter. As I usually do, certain items will be 
underlined or put in a Bold font as I believe that they are pertinent to this case. This is the story of the disappearance of 
Sandra Kay Travis, 58 years old, a mother and grandmother. When her daughter speaks of her, you can hear the 
resentment in her voice at feeling like her mother's case has been ignored in the media. She states,
 
 
“My mom was not a pretty young blond, a beautiful pregnant woman, a high profile celebrity that went missing, but 
she was a 58 year old mother and grandmother.  She was a beautiful, caring, loving person; she was a living, 
breathing human being, who happened to have nothing.  Does that mean she is not worthy of being found??”
 
 
Sandra Kay Travis story as told by her daughter.
 
 My mother at the time she went missing was not employed, not because she didn't want to work, but because her husband 
would disable the car and she could not get out to look for a job. I know this because the last time I talked to her was a week 
before she went missing.  We talked about her putting in applications and she said she was unable to because the car wasn't 
running and so I told her to ask her husband to take her in to town, she relayed the message to him without response.  
 
It wasn't until after she disappeared that I found out that her husband would take parts from the car so that she could not leave 
and he did this quite often. I don't believe my mom knew this. Most days she would not even get out of her pajamas, this has 
been confirmed by many of her friends that I spoke to. Her husband physically, verbally, emotionally and psychologically abused 
her throughout their 25 year marriage.
 
 The last time I spoke to my mother was July 24, 2005. I called to tell her thank you for the card she sent me for my birthday on 
July 22, 2005.  On August 17th I received a phone call from the mother of my mom's husband.  She said that Bobby Travis, my 
mom's husband, had told their family that my mom had gone up to Illinois to stay with me for a couple of weeks and 
that I had just called and told him that she DIED in her sleep on my couch. (Note: he later changes this story) He also 
told them that the body would stay in Illinois because she was going to be buried with the rest of her family there.  
 
His family decided to call us to find out where they could send flowers for the funeral. It is my belief that my mom's husband was 
unaware that my mother had given his family my phone number in case of an emergency.  I believe that Bobby Travis thought that 
they would have no way to contact us and find out the truth.  He was wrong.  I immediately told the family that everything Bobby 
Travis told them was a lie and that I was going to call the sheriff's department to have them go to the home to find out what was 
going on.  
 
I tried to call both my mom's home and her cell phone and I received no answer. I then called the sheriff's department and 
explained the story to them. Their first response was "are you sure someone isn't playing a joke on you?"  I told them this was not 
a joke and I want a deputy sent to the home to check on my mother's well being. 
 
  An hour later the deputy called me back to tell me that he made contact with Bobby Travis, and that he had now 
changed his story. He now says that he was too embarrassed to tell his family that his wife really left him for another 
man, so instead he told them that she died. He said a truck driver with an 18 wheeler drove down their small
country road and picked up my mother at their home and left with her and no one has seen or heard from her since.  He said he 
would have called to let us know that she left, but that she took all the phone numbers with her. 
 
(Notice that in the above statement, he changes his story after contact is made by the local police department and what 
a convenient response that he came back with. Of course, his explanation regarding his wife’s disappearance was not 
the same as his original, but you will find out later that this could very well be just another misled direction on the part 
of Bobby Travis. Keep in mind also, that it is common in abuser's to discredit the victim. While his story changing is not 
indicative of his guilt or innocence in any responsibility in the disappearance of his wife, it does ring true, of the typical 
response of an abuser and he has ALREADY lied once! Read on and make up your own mind to see if you "buy" his 
second story)
 
 
Now this is coming from a man who I later found out had been having an affair with another woman for several month's before 
my mom went missing.  My mother, just days before she went missing, had found out about the affair and had told her 
husband that she wanted a divorce and was going to take her half of what she was entitled to. 
 
(If you know anything at all about control and abuse, this previous statement is probably sending up "red flags" galore. 
She recently found out that her abusive husband of 25 years has been having an affair. She tells him that she is leaving 
and intends to get her half of what she is entitled to. Of Course, for the abuser, this always means a LOSS OF 
CONTROL and since they believe that they are entitled to everything and all decisions regarding the relationship 
ultimately are his to make, her behavior would be completely unacceptable to him in this situation...)
 
 
The deputy told me there was nothing he could do because my mom was an adult and she was free to leave if she wanted to.  
Same old song and dance whenever an adult goes missing.
 
His family, in the beginning, believed that he was involved and filed a missing persons report.  A search was done by cadaver 
dogs on the property and the sheriff's department "walked" through the house. 
 
I was never notified they were doing a search, I heard it from a third party.  They never talked to any neighbors or family 
members.  If they had, they would have found that a neighbor my investigator had talked to had been sitting outside with her 
daughter on an evening around the time my mom went missing and heard what she says were "screams of a woman 
being tortured." 
 
(WITNESS, WITNESS, WITNESS..THE AUTHOR interjecting  AGAIN) 
 
She did not call the police as she did not have a phone and was too scared to go down to my mom's home.  
 
The mother of Bobby Travis also demanded that he tell her what he did with my mother and 
he told her "she's dead and she isn't coming back."  This was overheard by his sister and 
brother-in-law as well. However, they are now denying this information and are protecting and covering up for him.  There are 
some members of his family that still do believe he killed her. They are however being harassed by Bobby Travis and those that 
are covering for him.
 
The investigator that helped me with my mom's case sent an 18 page report of evidence to the sheriff's department and they have 
never responded.  We also, in person, took the 18 page report plus more to the Commonwealth attorney because we wanted to 
try and get a grand jury investigation.  This attorney says he does not see enough evidence and is not pursuing the investigation. 
 
(HERE IS THE PART WHERE I OMITTED THE PHYSICAL EVIDENCE; I HOPE THAT THE APPROPRIATE PEOPLE 
SEE THIS SO THEY WILL KNOW, OUT LOUD, THAT THERE IS THE POSSIBILITY OF PHYSICAL EVIDENCE 
REGARDING THE DISAPPEARANCE OF SANDRA KAY TRAVIS!) 
 
We also found physical evidence, ************OMITTED, OMITTED, OMITTED*****The sheriff's department has never 
checked out  these items. We then talked to the Kentucky Bureau of Investigation and all they said is "what do you want us to do?"  
I even sent the sheriff a letter asking them to turn the case over to the Kentucky State Police and they have never responded to 
my request.  Bobby Travis is a person of interest in her disappearance, this per the sheriff's department.
 
PART II
 
When I first heard of the possibility of Mrs. Travis leaving her husband for another man and that being a possibility in 
her disappearance, I asked her daughter why she so strongly believed that this could not possibly be the case and why 
she so strongly suspected foul play on the part of Bobby Travis. This was Mrs. Travis' daughters reply to that 
question:  
 
You know at first when he said she left him for another man, I thought well maybe she did.  He did give a name of the truck 
driver she left with and that is what made it almost possible.  I thought why would he not just say she left with another man.  
Why would he make up a name??  Still, again why would he lie and tell his family that she died.  He must have really been 
sure she would never come back and that is why I don't believe the truck driver story.  If she left with someone, it is 
always possible for her to come back.  If he said she died, he then knew for sure she wouldn't 
come back
					

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Hi my friend haven't heard from you in a while,
How have you been doing?
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Oct 7 2009 4:10 AM

YOU GUYS ARE IN MY PRAYERS!!!!   FOR ALL YOUR LIFE, MAY THE LORD
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CHRIST!!!!!!

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Oct 7 2009 1:00 AM

I went to the Silent Witness Ceremony at the SC state house today.  I brought the mother Sallie Brunson for the murder of her daughter Angela Anderson
of Criminal Domestic Violence.  She was one of the 32 SC that were murdered by their intimate partner/husband/wife.  26 were females, 6 were males.
I will post pics soon and new blog.
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"I think the biggest disease the world suffers from in this day and age is
the disease of people feeling unloved"
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(Sorry this isn't personalized to every individual,
I'm sending this out to EVERYONE on the site)
While I'm in the process of doing some 'friend cleaning' see blog, I thought
it might be a good time to ask those of you who *want* to be here to
subscribe to my blog if you haven't already. Not at all necessary to
not being deleted, Just thought I might as well get it all done at
once, since the process is  going to take some time. It may also be a
good time for those who don't really support the PTSD cause and/or don't want to see pictures or
comments like this to just go ahead and delete, cuz I can't run this site afraid of
who I can send what comments to. I mean if you want to delete the
comment, but keep me/the site/the cause, that's fine. I just want it to be
abundantly clear, if it isn't already, this is and will remain an MJ
judgment/hate free site. You don't have to like him....just keep the
hate elsewhere. Thanks, I appreciate your understanding and patience
during this transitional time.
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Jul 21 2009 10:33 PM

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May 21 2009 7:54 PM

Have a wonderful Memorial Weekend.  Safe and healthy.

 

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Apr 22 2009 6:33 PM

Dear family and friends,
We recieved this information and we need everyone's help to insure that he rots as long as legally possible!!!

Just an FYI – Pritchard is coming up for a parole hearing on 05-20-2009.

You can go to this website and oppose: http://www.dppps.sc.gov/oppose_parole.html

James Pritchard
His SCDC # is 00331038

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