About me:
I am an International Dominatrix and Fem Dom DVD manufacturer/producer with a degree in video production from Carnegie Mellon University. I have been in business since 1994. My company MIB Productions (and later BossDVD.Com) was the first of it's genre to make a DVD, and we have perfected the craft with professional replication in high definition.
Ranked number one on yahoo in the business section for "dominatrix", I make extreme FemDom films with other important Dominant Female professionals in My field. Life style submissives, slaves, and masochists are featured for accuracy. A gamut of subjects are explored. The line of nearly 200 films can best be described as Fem Dom Dominance and submission rather than fetish or bondage, though those elements are incorporated as well.
There is a FREE 10 minute trailer in my Yahoo group. Message me for an invitation to join if I know you, and it will be approved!
Best,
Irene
Who I'd like to meet: Scenes I enjoy and participate in include Bondage and Discipline, CP, Fetish, and SM. I have an autoclave. For a complete listing of my interests, visit my personal site and take a look at the FAQ page!.
I got into BDSM because of my unusual sex drive. Long before I actually knew what "the scene" was, I was being approached by people to "do" things to them which involved role play, restriction, kinky games and head space. In college my performance art experiments, videos, sculptures, and paintings began to take on the SM themes that were echoing in my personal relationships. Though unconsciously aware of the fact that many of the relationships I was involved in had D/S components at the time, I consciously chose S/M and D/S as artistic subject matters. In my mid twenties the urge to explore the dark side more intensely became impossible to resist, so I eventually embarked on a professional S/M career partly out of excitement, fear of the unknown, power gratification, and boredom with the employment choices I had made. I needed a vocation, an obsession and a lifestyle, not a "job".
There is nothing that turns me on as much as doing this. I started in 1994 and I am still at it today. It certainly has not been the easiest thing I have done in my life, in fact it has been one of the most difficult but I have never been one to appreciate things that are too easy. The first studio I had was an experiment. I had no equipment. I did not know what I was doing. A lot of people called me. Instead of pretending that I knew how to be a professional dominant, I decided to be honest and asked people what they wanted and then told them what interested me and what I could do with them. If the fit seemed right over the phone, I would then meet them off site for a further discussion. If things seemed good over coffee, then I would set up an appointment to play. In this way, I learned from the people who buy this service. They were very kind to me and I had a lot of positive experiences early on when I was a novice. I tried everything (both sides of the coin) and kept an open mind while doing so, and eventually I learned about what I wanted to become good at. The first few years I experimented a lot, and I have some very positive memories.
I don't give generic rules to follow that are not specific to individuals. From reading this far, I am sure you have surmised that I am strong enough to give you what you need without compromising myself. I am an extremely kinky woman with an open mind. I am very comfortable "leading" in my D/S relationships. You will get a small amount of freedom in that you will get to make the decision about when you are ready to come to the studio, but once you are in it you are mine. There will be no escape and you will undergo every trial and tribulation that you and I have negotiated.
I keep a pretty full schedule, so if your scene is important to you, allow ample time to plan it properly. The more you anticipate, the better it will be for you!
Any humiliation you get from me will be entirely consensual and pre negotiated. I won't dominate you over on the phone or be rude to you and call that domination. "Man bashing" is not domination. Likewise, I will appreciate you resisting the urge to project passive aggressive behavior towards me. If you want me to be your Domina, you will have treat me right. We will treat each other with respect. During the session we will be Mistress/slave, Top/bottom, Sadist/masochist ect, but before and after the session we are people who both happen to both be interested in Ds. Our common interest has made it possible for us to meet and share an intense experience.
I do not think that dominance is better than submission. Like the head and tail of a coin they are opposite things that compliment each other and in some ways they are very similar.
I have a fascination with female supremacy and other extreme forms of domination (I am fascinated by the sexual mind), and these I study and occasionally practice consensually with like minded individuals.
My repertoire is fairly honed from years of practice, so know that I am very good at the following: Predicament bondage, transgender play, corporal scenarios, rubber fetishism, leather fetishism, foot boot and shoe fetishism, role play involving military costumes and interrogation, yourself as my urinal and/or spittoon and/or foot rest, objectification, trample/smother, electro play, and various kinds of suspension. There are many other areas of play I find interesting also. You should ask me if I find interest in yours.
I own an entire wardrobe of custom costumes. My first fetish was towards boots and I later gravitated towards rubber. I enjoy everything I wear and get along well with fetishists.
The actual domination will start when you arrive at my doorstep and it will end when we both decide it will end. I will be light and pleasant towards you after we play. Do not visit me to feel bad about yourself later. I want you to have a creative, erotic, cathartic, psychotherapeutic and stress reducing experience. I view myself as a "sexual energy worker" and your energy and mine will meet, co-mingle, dance, act out repressed fantasies, and set off sparks. If we have great chemistry then you can expect fireworks. I will engage the higher levels of your psychosexual libido. Certain activities may be carried out for the purpose of your desired humiliation, however when the sum of the total experience is reflected upon it will have been more about a cathartic release in which taboos have been explored in ritualistic fashion then a demonstration of base sexual acts.
It is important to treat the things you want to play around with reverence and respect. Everything is a matter of presentation and perception. Your scene will be presented in a building that has been renovated into a fantasy Ds parlor.
My films came out of a desire to record the different energies that make up Irene Boss and her play partners. The films are meant as extreme depictions of the various alter egos that come together to form the personality known as Irene Boss. They generally do not represent what goes on in a professional domination session. They exist on their own as individual artistic female dominant fantasy tableau which are memories frozen in time via DVD and my website. I won't expect you to submit to the same extreme activities outlined in my films. I do not film or photograph private sessions unless you ask. I will not ask you.
What you and I do will be negotiated and it will be possible for you to talk to me before each session. I will take my time in conversing with you to set up your appointment to make sure that it will be the right fit.
I do not wish to partake in a session that I would not find enjoyment in, nor would I want you to.
