If you are reading this,
I guess you are wondering what this is all about.
Is it a joke or is it some kind of cryptic advertisement or something?
I'm sad to say it's not. It's none of the above. It's just my way of getting my own back at the B*stard who I have devoted most of my adult life to, only to find out he is a piece of lying cheating scum!
If you live somewhere around Birmingham you may know me as Jane Doe. I am the lady who has been emailing Caroline at Brmb to ask for advice about my husband.
If you haven't, be warned girls, ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS! A few months ago I suspected my 'dearest' other half was having an affair. New clothes, new habits, trips away.. I thought I was being paranoid, he MADE me feel I was being paranoid. But it turns out womens instinct is a great thing!!! I was right! The b**tard HAS been having an affair!!!! And what's worse is the person he has been seeing behind my back is someone I THOUGHT WAS ONE OF MY DEAREST FRIENDS!!!!...... I even trusted her with my suspicions about him, and she offered me advice!! Can you believe that? She f****** offered to 'help' me... More like manipulate me to suit her own agenda!!!!!!!......
If you know her, or you are reading this - this is for you 'Shelley'... that's what he calls you doesn't he?..... Well, you can have him. He's all yours, you deserve him.. You deserve each other.. and despite the fact you have betrayed me and ripped away everything that is precious to me, I know that I AM THE ONE THAT IS BETTER OFF!! Because I am the one that can hold my head high wherever I go, knowing that I am a decent person who doesn't need people like you in my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't bother phoning, don't bother calling around, as far as I am concerned neither of you exist!
TO ANYONE WHO HAS EVER GONE THROUGH BEING LIED TO AND CHEATED ON............
They say revenge is sweet, it doesn't feel sweet, it feels great to no longer be the little paranoid woman at home, and finally be able to take control of my own life again................
2007 update: To all you who have sent kind words - thankyou. Life is going on.. (as you said it would)..I have started divorce proceedings, we are now civil, for the children's sake... I have no interest in if he is still with her.. so to all who have asked.. I don't know.. and nor do I know if it has dropped off :)...