I love spending time with my amazing, beautiful little girl; spending time with my boyfriend Ben; spending time with our pets; rescuing animals and working with wildlife, working (I'm a horrible workaholic); hanging out with my best friends Julie and Ann; driving around aimlessly enjoying the Wisconsin countryside and city life; taking road trips; going out to dinner/movies/etc; listening to music; going to amusement parks/go-kart tracks/waterparks/etc; meeting new people and having fun...I have a lot of different interests, too varied to mention them all here.
Music
I listen to just about everything -- mostly electronica and hip hop, but pretty much anything that catches my ear. My absolute favorite artist of all-time is Pink...I love her for her personality, her opinions, the depth of her lyrics, her dedication to her causes (especially animals) and her incredible voice. She's beautiful, knows who she is and isn't afraid to stick to her individuality and speak her mind.
Movies
Boondock Saints, Top Gun (I got my Maverick), Full Metal Jacket, Pretty Woman, Fight Club, Trainspotting, 300, V for Vendetta, Jarhead, We Were Soldiers, The Patriot, Good Morning Vietnam, the entire Band of Brothers series, Blackhawk Down, Three Kings, Schindler's List, Enemy at the Gates, The DaVinci Code, Gladiator, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Grease, The Notebook, Troy, Constantine, Dogma, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Forest Gump, all the Pirates of the Caribbean movies, all the Star Wars movies, all the Matrix movies, all the Resident Evil movies, all the Harry Potter movies...just way too many to name. Anything with a sexy Irish or Scottish guy in it is pretty much a guaranteed bet to be on my list. God I love Irish men...*drool* I tend to like action flicks that involve military/war, historical events, sci-fi, or psychological twists. I also like comedies, and yes, the occasional chick movie. I love movies in general.
Television
Sex and the City, Grey's Anatomy, House, CSI, Project Runway, Shear Genius, Family Guy, he Simpsons, Futurama, That 70's Show, I love the 70's/80's on VH1, Jackass, Viva La Bam, Wildboyz, Miami Ink, L.A. Ink, Futureweapons, Weaponology, Nick Cannon's Wild N Out, anything with Dane Cook or Russell Peters, anything on Animal Planet, the Discovery Channel, the History Channel, and the Military Channel. Ah yes, and whatever my daughter watches -- mostly SpongeBob SquarePants, Blues Clues, Wow Wow Wubbzy, and Lazy Town (Magnus Scheving = Sportacus = YUM).
Books
I'm picky about what I read, I get into sci-fi stuff and psychology-related books, as well as books related to animals, wildlife conservation, military stuff, medical/health care, senior care and effects of aging, Alzheimers, dementia, and anything that will benefit me at work. I also try to pick up veterinary books when I can. I do have one dorky admission...I really fell in love with the Harry Potter series. I've read all the books and don't know what to do with myself now that the series has ended. :(
Heroes
Steve Irwin -- My heart broke when the animal world lost him and it still hasn't healed. Anyone who works toward animal conservation and education. My dad, for being the loving, funny, supportive, hard-working man he is -- and for how he has always been there for me, through the good times and the bad. I love him so much. M.G. MacLaren -- the Director of the Challenge Academy...for the years of dedication, hard work, and deep love he has put into making the program a success, and changing the lives of so many teens who had no where else to turn. Anyone that puts their life on the line for their country -- miltary servicemembers and police officers. THANK YOU, to my brothers and sisters, serving both on American soil and abroad.
Hey there, I'm Jen. Below is pretty much everything you need to know about me:
I'm an open book -- there isn't much I won't tell you about myself (obviously). The reason for this is that I don't regret anything in my past, and feel pretty proud of who I am. I don't like wasting time, and I feel that being open with people lets them get to know me up front -- therefore leaving the door open for potential friends and relationships, and weeding out those that aren't compatible.
I like being girly, but also have a tougher side. I get my nails and toes done regularly, I go tanning, I change my hair pretty much every month, I love jewelry, and I hate being dirty/sweaty. BUT I was also in the Army and loved it -- I still pride myself on my marksmanship skills and military knowledge, and still have many enlisted friends.
I'm short -- about 5 feet even. Seriously, I don't even break 5'1" on a good day. I've learned to work around my height though, and can be pretty stubborn in regard to doing things on my own.
I love tattoos and piercings. I used to have 4 piercings before I enlisted in the military, but obviously had to take them out before I left for Basic. I had my labret, tongue, eyebrow, and septum done. Since I got out, I got my labret and tongue redone. I also have 4 tattoos -- a shooting star piece dedicated to my daughter on my upper left arm, "Bushido" on my upper right arm (ask me about this one if you don't know), the Eye of Horus on my right shoulder blade, and "inochi" (Japanese for "life", which is what my daughter's name means) on my left shoulder blade. I have plans for quite a few more.
I love the color pink (obviously). My room is pink, my bathroom is pink, my daughter's room is pink, and most of my clothes are pink. I've been in love with that color, in all its hues and shades, since I was really little. I also like black, but only because they go together so well.
I'm a big spelling and grammar geek, and like to write a lot (which is why I chose to be an Army journalist). I won my school district's spelling bee every year I entered, and got the highest score in my class on the English writing exam (a perfect 800 -- which had never been done before). Typos, misspelled words, and lack of punctuation drive me nuts. I also hate "text speak" or "IM speak". I feel it just encourages the youth of today to be even more lazy and uneducated.
I hate spiders. I mean, I H-A-T-E them. I am deathly afraid of the 8-legged disgusting little things, and will freak out if one gets near me. Yes, I can handle a 15-foot burmese python with no problem, but a pinprick-sized little spider will make me cry. I don't know why, they just do...eww.
Body hair grosses me out. I shave/wax EVERYTHING except my head, and plan to have it all permanently removed at some point in the near future. On guys, aside from the obvious arms and legs, I can tolerate a little bit of chest hair and that sexy little "treasure trail", but everything else has to GO. Ick.
I'm a proud Scorpio, born on the eve of Halloween. I find astrology interesting, and I fit the profile of a Scorpio to a T -- so if you really want to know about me, read this:
I am very skeptical of my looks and my body -- I have been since I was little. I feel pretty self-conscious about myself most of the time, and have trouble taking compliments from people. It's something I'm still trying to work on.
I'm a perfectionist -- but mainly toward myself. I constantly strive to be the best at everything, do as much as I can, and be as independent as possible. I'm very competitive, both against myself and against other people. I am very hard on myself when I fail or don't do something as well as I wanted to. I'm a lot more forgiving toward other people for their mistakes and shortcomings, and generally never say anything to anyone. I generally don't like hurting people's feelings. In situations at work or school, I tend to over-compensate by picking up others' slack or taking over so things get done right. I have a hard time trusting other people to do things correctly, and often overload myself with responsibilities.
I wear my heart on my sleeve and am open about my feelings. I can also be very reserved and sarcastic -- and that tends to be my defense mechanism when I'm afraid of being hurt. I have the deepest fear of getting my heart broken yet again, but often times set myself up for it without realizing it. I am a very dedicated individual; I devote myself to my relationships as well as my friends, and they are an important part of my life -- and I expect the same in return. I make time for them -- so they need to make time for me. I like being affectionate in relationships, and having some constant kind of connection or touch. I can be tough at times, but I am more fragile than I may try to let on.
I suck at being frugal. I pay my bills, take care of my responsibilities, and I make sure my daughter and my pets are always spoiled rotten and have what they need/want. After that, I tend to shop like there's no tomorrow and have a very hard time holding onto money for any given period of time. I do invest in a 403(b) at work though, so I am planning for my retirement.
I'm a HUGE Packer fan, and idolized Brett Favre for years. Aaron Rodgers is a good follow-up to the Favre legacy, but I have yet to buy a new jersey. I just can't give up my #4. I never miss a game, I yell at the TV, and my family has season tickets to Lambeau.
I hate lying, and can't stand people who do it. I am a very honest person, regardless of the fact that it gets me into trouble sometimes. I value integrity deeply, and see it as a sign of respect. I would rather you tell me the truth to my face than hide something or lie about it. That would hurt me worse than just facing the facts.
I love animals, and always have since before I can remember. I grew up with cats and small mammals, as well as rescued wildlife I brought home. Right now I have 5 spoiled, goofy cats; a ball python; and 2 bunnies. My animals are my passion -- I wouldn't be who I am without them.
I used to keep and breed almost a hundred various snakes (mostly ball pythons), but recently had to put down my entire collection after it was devastated by a vicious, incurable respiratory virus. I have put a lot of time and money into funding the research on the virus, being done by the University of Florida, and still continue to seek answers. It is the worst thing I've ever had to go through.
I have a beautiful daughter named Zoe Jeanette who was born April 17th, 2006. She's incredibly intelligent, sarcastic, loving, friendly, good-natured, and loves to make people laugh. She's my world; I couldn't imagine life without her. She's the blood in my veins, the air in my lungs, and the reason I wake up every day.
I'm divorced. I spent 3 1/2 years married to the father of my daughter, but 2 of those were spent on opposite ends of the country/planet due to the military. We grew to be way too different over such a long period apart, so for our daughter's sake, I decided it was time to part ways. We try to get along for the most part, and when his enlistment is up, he plans to be be very active in Zoe's life.
I was honorably discharged from the Army in 2005 due to fractured hips and a fractured vertebra -- which has been a really shitty thing to deal with every day. It makes routine things pretty difficult, but I try to do the best I can.
I currently work at Oakwood Village West caring for seniors with Alzheimers and dementia, and I love what I do. I'm currently going to school to get my degree in social work and become certified as a geriatric case manager. I couldn't imagine doing anything else.
I graduated from the Wisconsin Challenge Academy in 2002 and it's still a big part of my life. I try to help with every class and fundraise as much as possible, help out in whatever capacity they need me, and proudly mentor female cadets who need someone supportive in their lives. I owe them my life in many ways, and every day I strive to hold true to the values they taught us. Discipline, Integrity, Courage, Honor, and Commitment.
My family and friends are my life. My parents (Steve & Irene) are the most supportive and loving people I have ever known, and are very involved in my life. I have 2 younger brothers (Matt & Mike) and 1 older sister (Jess), and love having such wonderful siblings. My boyfriend Ben is the most amazing person I've ever known -- I look forward to every day that we get to spend together. Men like him are rare, and I feel so insanely lucky that we found each other. Everything happens for a reason, and I believe everything I've gone through thus far has led me to him. I love you so much baby. <3 Ann, Julie, Cristal, Beau, Andrew, Lynn, and Heather -- you are all the best friends a girl could ask for. I love all of you with all my heart.
The first song on my playlist is my theme song at the moment -- and as always, my girl Pink came through for me with the perfect one.
Who I'd like to meet: Hands down, I absolutely have to meet Pink someday. She's my girl.
I'm always up for making new friends. Military servicemembers, veterans, cops, animal lovers, CA cadets, old school raver kids from back in the day, music lovers...pretty much anyone with similar interests.
hey mama! hahaha....well to Ben's sister: I'm SORRY!!!!!! (but hey you should be proud of your bro!) lol....and I am quite jealous.....I never got around to Jason's size, but he satisfied me quite well thank you! lol....ahh, but that's well and gone! :-( Hey does Ben have any brothers?!?! HAHAHA. JK. Anyways, I am sooo happy for you! I know what that kind of happiness feels like and it's the greatest thing in the world! I know we StuCo couples were supposed to make it and break the trend, but maybe they are right...marriages from AIT NEVER work out! :-( Owell. I just hope your ex is still apart of Zoe's life......but nonetheless, you look GREAT where you are right now and that's all that matters......so as pink would say...they are tools...and so what....we still got our rock moves!!!!!! :-) love ya bitch.
lmao, you are hilarious. Please think of your brothers package....yea not pretty..and what if my son gets my husbands genetics..... lmao I am totally joking..omg he'd kill me if he saw that joke :)
lmao!! I dont know about proud but I'm pretty sure i'm gonna see those words across his forehead everytime I see him lol thanks! jk. I used to give details w my girlfriends back in the day as well, so I understand lol
oh man, sorry to hear that you are having troubles! I know I dont know the details but keep your head up, Im sure things will work out..they usually seem to. p.s. I saw a comment on your page..stating "how are things with the hung like a horse guy"?? lol oh my...I really wanted to wash my eyes out with bleach LOL
I know right....im putting money away everyday in myh piggy bank for botox and a lift!!! But thanx. Me and clark are doing dinner of you 2 wanna come. Let me know.
i called him to see if he would answer and he did...and then he said we could be friends since they weren't together nemore but that he has too much going on right now to be dealing with a girlfriend and he said we can't hang out right now.. :( soooo I don't know where this leaves us...
We combined our finances a few years ago... I do make a bit more than he does. The next few months are going to determine if the relationship will continue or not.
I am just getting tired of waiting for him t get his shit together (get a new job and go back to school). I am just unsure if he will ever do it and I don't know how much longer I am willing to wait. *sigh*
hey mama, first off, you inspire me to want to get a mohawk! lol :-) soon! hahaha...anyways, im glad you and ben are great! :-) right now im "dating" but no guy comes close...i think i am just trying to fill a void!! :-(
Thats very sweet! He has been waiting all along for someone like you. He is a romantic at heart..something that most 21 year old guys run from, but all he has ever wanted is a long term relationship. That sucks he can't even get a loner for another week! Ugh I know all too well how it is to share a car. my husband and I did it for a couple years when we first bought our house..and I guess we still are..cuz we have one good car and a piece of shit..the piece looks real nice on the outside...but its possessed. Don't ever buy a saab. :( My parents are coming up today to go on our anniversary dinner w us lol. I wanted to come down, but we had to work this morning...oh shit..this is so long lol...should' ve just sent you a msg lol sorry
Thats so nice of you to help him out with your car, very glad he has someone like you. Hopefully he can get it fixed soon. That must have been horrible, your accident. I have been super lucky and never been in a real one. In highschool one time I backed up into my moms truck in the driveway, cuz I hadn't had any sleep..and no one ever parked in the drive way...so I just backed up into the side. LOl she ran out crying. Felt so bad, but it was never registered on my record thankfully. Poor ben however has had quite a few fenderbenders. He has to be careful or he might have probs with his job and/or becoming a cop...cuz i'd assume they want someone with a sumwhat clean record.
hey mama! thanks for hooking chris back up with me!!!! :-) ive missed his friendship!!!!!! soo i really appreciate you doing that for us!!! :-) how are things with the "hung like a horse" guy?!?! hahahaha?!?!?!! i need to find a good man! :-( i want jason back! damnit...if only he would just realize!!!! lol......
actually neither.. I dropped off the side of the horse and landed on my ass/hip (right side). Luckily, I have more muscle than fat because that's what saved me. :)
ohh lol I wouldn't yell at him. Thats his pride and joy!! I feel bad for him, and on my bday to top it off!! He send me a voice mail at work today, I was so worried till I talked to him. Just glad he's ok, a car is a car!
MY FRIEND JEN(LOL) WILL BE COMING WITH TOO IF THATS OK? ITS HER BIRTHDAY ON THE 28TH AND SHE WANTS TO MAYBE GET A TATTOO ALSO! WE BOTH ARE REQUESTING THE 24TH OFF AND WE SHOULD BOTH KNOW BY THE END OF TODAY(WE WORK TOGETHER)SO I WILL LET YOU KNOW WHEN I DO!
What days do you have off of work? Would you have the 24th of October off??? I could come up that day? Let me know. I get a day off with pay for my birthday!!!! =)
OK! So where did you get your tattoos done?? Cuz I want one to cover my old one that I tried to have removed and 1,000 later it's still there!!!!!! But I want a good quality one and I want to get it for my birthday so I was thinking maybe I could come and visit you and we could do something for our birthdays???? let me know mofo! ;)
