My name is Julie. I am married to my best friend and the greatest guy ever Mike. We have a beautiful 7 year old autistic son named Daron whom we both adore. Both of them make my world complete. I lived in Ohio up until I turned 13, then we moved out here to Washington after my grandpa died to take care of my grandma. She passed away in 2002 right after Daron was born. I have made many friends in this state, some lasted, most didn't. The ones who did though have made my life what it is today. Not to mention the newset friends I have gained this year alone. For them, I am truly grateful. I don't tolerate being disrespected or ignored very well. I treat others with the same respect I get from them. I can't help it of you don't like me, but I won't pretend it doesn't bother me. I have a few TRUE forever friends, several from way back in my Ohio elementary school days (you know who you are) that i haven't seen in years. Thank God for myspace lol. I would be classified an introvert, but I think I can be more outgoing than people believe me to be. I love making new friends, but it's hard for me to make the first move. I have my family. My life is great. What more could I ask for? God has been the one who has given me this happiness. Mike and Daron are my gifts from God. Both came at a time when I needed them the most but I didn't even realize it at the time. I love them with all my heart and thank God everyday for giving them to me. I am thrilled to say that my son is progressing so fast, and is so very very smart. I love watching him learn new things and it amazes me everyday how fascinated he is with math. If only I were that lucky when I was in school...lol. Obviously he takes after his dad in that area. :) Mike is quite the unique character. I can honestly say I have never met ANYONE like him before. He always makes me laugh and I love him so much! mike and the geese
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I feel very strongly about Autism Awareness, but many advocates might be surprised by my views. I don't believe it's an "epidemic" as many people believe. To call it an epidemic implies that it's something bad. I'm also not searching for a cure. I don't think that's what these research organizations should be focusing on. I believe Autism is just a different way of functioning. It may be classified as a disability, and yes, some of the symptoms may cause problems for these individuals to function in our neurotypical society. But honestly, how typical is our society anyway? (There are those who SHOULD be classified as being mentally disabled simply based on their everyday rudeness and selfishness and disregard for fellow humans.) There are so many different types of people with so many types of personalities and abilities that who are we to say what is normal or not? Since Autism is rapidly becoming more recognized throughout the world, it shouldn't come as a shock to anyone to see a child with ASD having a meltdown in a store or freaking out because you talk to them. Do you scowl at someone having a seizure because they're "causing a scene?" Do you send a dirty look to a woman in a wheelchair who is having trouble getting through the checkout line in the store? Or do you tell her to hurry up? No, you don't. Do we push past a guy who is blind and walks with a cane and tell him he needs to watch where he's going? No, we do not. So why do people scowl at a person who won't respond to your conversation or look you in the eye? Why do we feel the need to offer admonitions to a parent who is struggling with her child who can't handle a social situation? What this world needs more than anything is a little patience and understanding. Whether you know the person has a disability or not, we need to exhibit some patience and kindness.
I make t-shirts to sell, a lot of them are for Autism Awareness which is something I obviously feel VERY strongly about. There are lots of different lines you can check out to see if you like them at Jewel's Designs
Words That Inspire
HOPE
Hope is the thing with feathers
that perches in the soul
and sings the tune without the words
and never stops at all.
Sweetest in the gale is heard
and sore must be the storm,
that could abash the little bird
that kept so many warm.
I've heard it in the chillest land
and on the strangest sea
Yet, never in extremity
it asked a crumb of me.
-Emily Dickinson
Tulips
The sun awakes a skylit hue
Of golden rays and azure blue.
The grass is sweet, so richly bold
the earth reaches up to grab ahold.
beneath the lovely northern sky
a splash of color caught my eye.
A patch of beauty, rarely seen
no need to brag or stand and preen.
tulips rich in gold and red,
yellow and purple, stood in a bed,
surrounded by the grass so high
almost unseen by human eye.
Oh how could I have almost missed.
A scene of unexpected bliss?
I bent my head down to behold
the little blooms start to unfold.
never knowing if they’d be seen
they hid amongst the glowing green.
i felt a petal silky soft
then watched the wind hold it aloft.
the sun began it’s slow descent,
as i thought about the day I’d spent
rejoicing in the simple glow
of beauty most will never know.
Oh how I long to lay my head
back down beside that tulip bed.
-Yours Truly, myself
Fire and Ice
Some say the world will end in fire,
Some say in ice.
From what I've tasted of desire
I hold with those who favour fire.
But if it had to perish twice,
I think I know enough of hate
To say that for destruction ice
Is also great
And would suffice.