Donna & Pat

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  • Donna and Patrick Patterson

  • 28 / Female
  • Liberty, South Carolina, US
  • Last Login: 11/27/2009

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  • General

    I will try just about anything once. I think I'm a pretty outgoing person. I love playing with my kids when I can get the time lately and that makes me feel bad. We've got a newborn at home and he takes so much of our time up but my husband and I try to divide our between all the kids. There is nothing more important to me than my family. I love reading, writing, watching movies or a series on television. I also love to just get out a ride and loafer I can't stand sitting at home all the time.Check out my website and writings.

  • Music

    Depends what kind of mood I'm in really. I like anything from classical to rap there's no telling what you'll hear out of my selection...
  • Movies

    I love period pieces, horror movies and science fiction. If it's considered a strange movie or somewhat morbidly funny in any way I will most likely love it. Movies are my way of escaping reality for a couple hours. My DVD collection is near 300, not counting series DVD's...
  • Television

    Science fiction and drama. I consider myself a funny person but I'm not keen to comedies which is strange. Doctor Who (both old and new) and Supernatural. I might watch that new Stargate: Universe but I'm not sure. I haven't really had too much time to get into a series lately with a newborn and all.
  • Books

    Favorite author is Laurel K. Hamilton and Stephanie Meyer. But as far as the material I love mysteries, romantic drama's, angst and twisted love stories. I love anything about Star Wars too. It's a shame none of the books will ever make it to the big screen.

  • Heroes

    My dad and brother, they've taught me to be tough as nails or be eaten alive. And pretty much anyone that might look up to me it makes me feel good when I'm down.
    Your Hidden Talent
    You have the natural talent of rocking the boat, thwarting the system. And while this may not seem big, it can be. It's people like you who serve as the catalysts to major cultural changes. You're just a bit behind the scenes, so no one really notices.

Details

  • Status: Married
  • Here for: Friends
  • Hometown: Fayetteville, NC
  • Orientation: Straight
  • Body type: 5' 7" / Average
  • Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
  • Religion: Other
  • Zodiac Sign: Virgo
  • Children: Proud parent
  • Smoke / Drink: No / Yes
  • Education: High school
  • Occupation: Full Time Momma!

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  • Donna and Patrick Patterson Concerned about some irresponsible actions but you can't cure stupid...
    Mood: indescribable indescribable
    Posted 1 hour ago
  • Donna and Patrick Patterson Poor Connor can't seem to win for loosin...
    Mood: bummed bummed
    Posted 13 hours ago
  • Donna and Patrick Patterson Happy Thanksgiving! Be thankful for what you have and make sure you have it for the right reasons, not out of selfishness.
    Mood: happy happy
    Posted at 5:21 PM Nov 26
  • Donna and Patrick Patterson Don't understand the behavior of some family members, some self centerness and some being snobby...but we as a family have had a better day.
    Mood: drained drained
    Posted at 2:42 AM Nov 26
  • Donna and Patrick Patterson Had a family member pass away last night, it's awful that the worst in people comes out during times like this, doing my best to help everyone feel better..
    Mood: sympathetic sympathetic
    Posted at 8:57 PM Nov 24

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About me:

Here I am, married with children and that is something I never saw myself accomplishing. I was one of those women that ran around saying "I'm never going to get married and have kids" because quit honestly kids get under my skin and irritate me. I think most people don't have a clue how to raise them and I'm a tough mom I don't tolerate a lot of shit. You have to be tough on kids or they'll grow up being the once in charge and that's not how it is, period. You ever loose control you never get it back you have to show the kid that you're the adult and they're the kid and they should act that way. In a way kids are to be seen not heard till they reach a certain age and it's certainly not till high school in my opinion. Don't get me wrong I love my kids and I know they love me even though I'm tough on them a lot but they know I do it to make them a better person in the end. I don't want my kids to grow up to be selfish brats who expect the world to just give them what they want. I want them to want to earn respect and a place in the world and to respect people and life in general and be grateful for whatever they get in life. Tough love is the only way to go remember that.

If you would have told me 5 or 10 years ago I would be this happy at this point in my life I would have laughed in your face. I have the most wonderful husband and the most terrific boys! We recently just had a baby boy named Connor and we and his brothers just absolutely love him. That's all boys! I told my husband we could try for a little girl one more time but that was it! I told him, "next time knock the balls off son!"

Both my husband Patrick and I went through a lot of hard times to end up where we're at in our lives and both of us agree that it all happened for a reason. I'm very protective of my family and my husband get's treated like shit by a lot of his family but I tell him to just do what he has to do they will get what's coming to them. I for one am eternally grateful for what I have and wouldn't trade it for anything in the universe. What more could I want? I have a husband that cares for my well being and loves me for who I am. We have the most hairbrained boys and things are finally starting to work out for us.

I was raised a tomboy so I like the simpler things in life. My dad was in the military and I was raised with my older brother and cousin, which meant I was constantly being used as the guinea pig. One time they strapped me to a parachute! I'm the type person I have to find a reason to like you not dislike you when I first meet you. That's both a strength and weakness I think. If it's not a casual setting then I'm not comfortable, and when I'm uncomfortable I get defensive and when I get defensive I get mean.

Biggest thing about me is respect and trust. I can't stand liars, thieves or cowards. If you lie, you'll steal. If you steal, you'll lie and guess what, that also means you're a coward at heart. If you can't be truthful to those your close too then who can you be truthful too? If I couldn't sit and talk with my husband about anything then I wouldn't be married to him. If I felt I had to hide even the tiniest thing from him I wouldn't be married to him. If I did spiteful things to my husband I wouldn't be married to him. Point is that if you can't be respectful, trustful and truthful to someone close to you then you trully don't deserve to be happy in the first place. So, if you find yourself feeling like your at a dead end, smothered or sick of someone, look at yourself first.

What do I like to do? I love to get out and just ride and go from place to place. Be with my husband and the boys, my family and friends because when it comes right down to it they've all you've got in the end. But on the same note when you've got your own family you have to realize you can't satisfy and appease those around you all the time. Sometimes you have to say the hell with them and do what is good for you and your family. It's not that you don't love your family or friends any less but it's no longer a priority for you, or your own life will be miserable. And if your family and friends knew better they would realize that and not be bothered.

I'm very laid back I'll talk about anything and it's very, very, very hard to embarass or offend me. Comes with the territory I guess being raised around men my entire life. I think like a guy and I think that intimidates men. Don't get me wrong I'm not butchy or anything but I'm not girly either. I'll get down in the dirt just as fast as a guy but I worry about what I look like too. I'm more comfortable with men than women. Women have this tendancy to stab you in the back, start stupid drama and they are more challenging than any man had time to be! I'm just here to make friends and meet interesting people.



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Who I'd like to meet:

Just laid back, intelligent and open minded people. I absolutely hate closed minded people. If you believe the Moon landings were fake and we're the only creatures in existence, if you don't believe in disciplining your kids or you like Barack Obama...don't bother trying to talk to me you need therapy.

Comments

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  • Oct 5 2009 1:03 AM

    hey girl, hope is alll is well (how your check up go? was the end of sept. right?) & Connor isnt keeping you up nights...Congrats & your welcome for the stuff I wish it could have been more & its ok about the bag, lol...I thought that was funny when you posted it I hope it didnt break while you were carring it.. {{big hugs}}
  • Aug 31 2009 11:00 PM

    CONGRATS!!! I'm sooo excited for you!
  • Aug 31 2009 10:39 PM

    Congrats I know you are so proud
  • Aug 18 2009 9:29 PM

    Congratulations......  Momma!!!   Can't wait to see the pics of him and your family!!!  Love ya!!!! xoxoxo  
  • Aug 17 2009 3:59 PM

  • Aug 12 2009 11:27 PM

    Hey Donna! I'll pray that you aren't overdue. You are going to be a wonderful mom. I'm doing well. No job yet but I'm enjoying my summer. Hope all goes well and keep me informed! Good luck!!
  • Aug 12 2009 7:43 PM

    hey girl, umm all i can say is it hurts but it all is worht it in the end. you will be just fine, you are a strong woman. ill be glad to help you through it!!! call me if you need anything. you can get my number from tasha
  • Aug 2 2009 10:59 PM

    We had our son 7/30/09 Ronnie Dawson Tripp Patterson, hope everything goes good, let me know when yalls
    Baby gets here. Tell Rock i said hey
  • Jul 27 2009 11:41 PM

    You had your little one yet? We still waiting for ours.
  • May 25 2009 2:43 AM

    Hey 2 things where are the prego pics and call your mom and get after her for letting a guy ALMOST kiss her!!!  LMAO!!!!
  • May 6 2009 4:21 AM

    congrats about your baby on the way :-D
  • May 3 2009 10:42 PM

    lol good luck.
  • May 3 2009 3:41 PM

    Lol. I had to get rid of the plain black an white. It was boring. I like beetlejuice!
  • May 3 2009 3:30 PM

    You tell Robert that the baby is coming in Aug. He wants to share his birthday with his Aunt Tasha. Lol.
  • May 2 2009 2:37 AM

    Easley i think
  • May 2 2009 1:29 AM

    That kinda sucks but it'll be worth it in the end. Glad to hear everything is going well for you.
  • May 2 2009 1:22 AM

    You're overheated? Lucky!!! It's freezing here. I can't wait until summer. So hows the pregnancy going? Everything going as planned?
  • May 2 2009 12:54 AM

    Thats cool my wife is due around then to its a boy
  • May 1 2009 1:24 AM

    Gah no thats not good..you wont have anyone to cuddle with and keep you warm..lol if rock would give you a lotion massage after the shower right before bed, that should help you sleep. It always helps me.
  • Apr 29 2009 12:22 AM

    Hey no need to feel like an outsider...we love you!! You'll always be in our hearts!!!
  • Apr 27 2009 7:45 PM

    hey! not much. I heard about the baby! Congrats!!
  • Apr 26 2009 10:37 PM

    Congratulations!!! I'm so excited for you! I'm good as I can be here. Not much going on. I got layed off work so I'm taking a mini vacation haha. I'm so happy that everything is working out for you. You deserve happiness.
  • Apr 11 2009 9:21 PM

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  • Mar 25 2009 1:25 AM

    ♥♥ I OFFICIALLY CLAIM YOU!! TODAY IS CLAIM A SEXY BABE DAY! SEND THIS TO ALL THE PEOPLE YOU THINK ARE SEXY! INCLUDING ME IF U THINK THAT I AM! 3 BACK YOU'RE ALRIGHT, 5 BACK YOU'RE HOT, 7 BACK YOU'RE DAMN SEXY ♥♥
  • Mar 17 2009 5:43 PM

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