Leony Soenjoto

hi, i'm leony :) currently still on the journey on figuring out what love really is, how it feels like, and most importantly, how to love others the right way. some people simply define love by expressing their emotions to the one they love by feeling like they have butterflies in their stomachs when they're around them. but i personally think love begins with some random people out there that you would least expect to come into your life. like that girl or boy at work or school who always gets on your nerves but what would you do if you saw them cry? or what would you do if they needed your help after you found out they were talking crap behind your back? your next act is up to you and will determine how you define your love for others. if you can't love the most random people you meet in your life, how will you ever be successful on loving that special someone whom you want to spend the rest of your life with?

heck, that's what i know and learned. it's easy to say and more difficult to put the words into real actions. call me a hypocrite, but aren't we all? we seem to judge others without realizing it ourselves that we are not perfect, either. what matters is how much we are willing to stop being selfish and start putting ourselves in other people's shoes to focus on their needs instead of our own.