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Hey. Been writing the longest bulletin comment ever. There wasn't room for it, and when I wanted to continue in a second comment box, it said "Access denied". Stupid. Anyway, so the rest comes here:



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...stereotypes and prejudice and the way they come into play in so many contexts. My sister lets her little son paint his toenails, and I love that. You know?... To sum it up, I agree with you in this, and I commend your attitude.

3) Another thing I enjoyed reading was the paragraph about women's reactions to an entire history of suppression. Yes, it's natural. And yes, that doesn't mean that those reactions can't go too far, so to speak, and be unhealthy for the women themselves as well as unreasonable toward their surroundings. Hopefully, a balance will be acchieved before too long. The important thing is to respect and follow your own nature while considering other people's feelings and treating them with just as much respect. That's not always easy, but one must strive to do it. On a different note: You write "IF indeed women have lost their minds" - WTF??? You allow for the possibility of that being true??? If that's not generalizing, what is? Ha. You may not have thought about it, but while blaming your friend for generalizing, you yourself do exactly the same. You write about women as an entity most of the way through your text. Respectfully, perhaps, but then again not. Again, each person is one person. Only the biology of gender and the status that they've inarguably held throughout history as a 'group' is general. Women act and react as individuals - not all are hurt and angry - as a result of history or otherwise. SO, add a 'some' to the first line in this paragraph of mine: 'SOME women's reactions'. The reason why I didn't write 'some' is

is that it was sort of a quote (of your words). That said, there IS oc a tendency. It IS a widespread phenomenon - resulting in a general movement (feminism) and a historical development. I grant you that.

4) I think your 'toilet paper' paragraph is really weird. Who says that, if there comes a time when there's no difference between female and male psychology, it will result in women losing men's respect??? Where did you get THAT idea??? Again, it's a person's core that warrants respect, not their gender (or place on the aforementioned continuum). Another thing: I don't believe that there will ever come such a time. I know I talk about the continuum, but still I believe that biology DOES govern much of a person's psychology. That doesn't mean that women simply have female psyches or men simply masculine, but there are overwhelming tendencies. Most people will be at the end of the spectre in SOME of their mental/emotional features. I think. And that fact is caused by biology, at least in part. I think. :) ... If it seems as if I'm contradicting myself, it's because I don't express myself precisely enough. My opinion is solid. Or maybe not. Hahahah. I feel convinced in these matters, but maybe I'm fooling myself.

5) It's funny to me that you say that women are SPECIAL. There are only two genders - they're special in relation to men. And men are special in relation to women. It's difficult to phrase this, but... 'special' is defined as an exception to a rule or the norm, isn't it? Then how can one half of the world's population be called 'special'? :)  Also, when it comes down to it, everybody is special in that everybody is unique. I know that sounds like the opposite of what I just wrote, but it isn't. Every single person is a minority, you know? One in about 7 billion. :) I know that your choice of the word 'special&

is your way of expressing your respect, which is highly commendable, but think about it.

6) Nobody is more concerned about my sex life than I am. Is that because I have no foolish friends, I wonder? ;)

7) I would be perfectly happy to get to know you without all the games. ;)

8) Hey, is having sex with many different persons necessarily a bad thing? It isn't in my eyes. (Guess where I belong in the statistics, hehehe.) It's about the way you approach each 'partner', what your motivations are, how you treat the person, and how you treat yourself. Having lots of sex with different people does soooo not have to be about disrespecting yourself. It CAN be, but it certainly isn't always. "Give it up" - oh, honestly! So shame on you, Marque. Heeheehee. I basically disapprove of the term 'slut'. And, the classic question, why isn't there a similar word for men who act the same?

23748) The karma thing... Maybe the law of attraction - in the spiritual, 'cosmic' sense - is real. Or maybe it's more of a question of psychology. I believe that people tend to be attracted to people they somehow need in order to get what they need - whether in an unhealthy way or a healthy way. Sometimes it's about the subconscious knowing what the person needs to work on, and sometimes it's about fulfilling your 'bad' needs. I think. About your friend meeting awful women... He may suck at seeing the good in people, seeing only what he wants or somehow needs to see. He may be totally unreasonable - who says others don't consider those very women great people? It's been seen before - and then some! You only hear his version... Maybe he just hates them blindly for hurting or 'bothering' him - or simply for being different than him. Also, when you EXPECT someone or something to be terrible, you often make them so - call

it forth in them by your own attitude.

93485) Women should be worshipped? So should men if anyone should!!! What's the difference? We aren't goddesses any more than men are gods. Your attitude is beautiful, but it's silly. Heheh. :)

108480928) Thank you.

74329420941) You're a f*cking catch, Marque. ;)  Don't doubt yourself - at least when it comes to these matters.

I think that's it. Ample, huh? By far my longest comment ever. Boy, do I feel accomplished now. I almost never have the energy to present my views on anything complicated. Hope you duely appreciate it. :D