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email ~~~ debbiemontville@yahoo.com

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I just returned home to Miami, and while I am still settling in and "taking care of business", I am soooo thrilled to be home. I miss my friends in Ft. Smith, but they are just a phone call away.

I am a very spiritual person, however I am not necessarily what one would consider religious. Over the years, I have seen how THE WORD has been manipulated and how, in my opinion it is open to the interpretation of the one reading it. I am very comfortable in my relationship with the Lord, and THAT is what matters. I do have to admit that part of my return home also included returning to my church home.

I am extremely independent and have my share of somewhat negative traits. I have many wonderful qualities also. It takes a long time to let people get close enough to me to see them, and even then I still hold back most of the time. In the meantime, they often see a hard shell and turn away.

I am very much a girly girl. I love wearing pretty, sexy clothes. I also love getting all dressed up in a gown, heels, gloves, etc...(snap back to reality)... Lately I feel like I have become "frumpy". The sad thing is when driving or hanging around the house it is a lot easier and honestly more comfortable, to put on sweats or a nightgown (and believe me neither of these helps the figure any).

I have a very high self esteem though at times it gets pierced by my insecurities. I try to look at these and figure out how to change them. Some I can do on my own and if my friends don't see what's going on (usually they do), I will ask for and appreciate their help.

I am generally very happy being single, and am very protective of my heart, soul and space, but there are times when it is disheartening that I don't have a special someone in my life. When the Lord feels I am ready, He will send him to me.

This is going to sound bad, and I don't care. If you LOOK at me, and don't like what you see, then I say that is your problem, not mine. If you are one who bases your opinions of others on what they look like, then you have even deeper issues than I ever could have. Sure when we are looking for a mate, there are things we look at and for. But are we going to turn wonderful people away from our lives because they don't fit our cookie cutter image. For example I am physically attracted to athletic men, I won't deny that, but do I turn my back on meeting people who aren't athletic? No, first of all this is the internet, and you don't always get what you see. Secondly, though there may not be a physical attraction with someone, that doesn't mean there isn't a deeper more meaningful psychological attraction. Personally as much as I would like to meet my "perfect" mate... I love, cherish and treasure my PERFECT FRIENDS.

I find it amazing that these social networking sites can bring family and friends back together and introduce total strangers who share common interests.

The people on my friends list are, for the most part, people I actually know (family, classmates, co-workers, etc...) and those people who share a common bond or interest. I look forward to the day when we meet in person as several of you have already become friends on a deeper level.

I would like to meet people who have many of the same interests I have, yet have interests that are different, so that we can experience new things with each other.

One day the Lord will bring my soul mate to me and he will be someone to share the pleasures in life, someone who enjoys quiet time together and rowdy time with friends. Someone who enjoys the ocean, dancing, dining, theatre, carnivals, travel and cruising. Someone to laugh and cry with. Someone who is comfortable wearng a suit and tie and doesn't think jeans and a tee shirt are dressing up.

Most of my photos and albums are for my friends only, but often people want to know who they are talking to. So, to placate their insecurities, the following picture grid are a few pics of me, and a few pics that are special to me.