"If you help enough People to get what they want
You will have all that you want"
Zig Zigler
Hi my name is Nir Cohen the founder and author of the D.T.B.M System
welcome and Thank you for visiting my space :-)
It’s been now twenty seven years since I began investing extra energy in my self growth in 4 main areas of my life:
1. Increasing my knowledge in different interests I’ve had
2. Inspiring myself mentally
3. Improving my physical appearance
4. Becoming a more inspirational human being.
I experienced some interesting insights while going through this process which I hope will inspire you.
But first...
I would like you to know more about me...
I was born in Israel as the youngest of a family of five children. When I was 5 my father passed away. From that day on, my mom became the single provider for our family. I watched her crying in the kitchen the day my father died, and witnessed her picking herself up from such a hart breaking experience as she supported the rest of the family.
"Take the trash out of your head, the trash is anything that keeping you from the only thing that matter, This Moment Here"
At the tender age of 5… I learned the meaning of focus, determination and that I could over come anything. After all I just lost the most important man in my life.
Failure and Success
I grew up in a neighborhood where there were wealthy families and families that struggled financially. Unfortunately, we were one of those families that struggled. When I was 7, I can remember looking around and wondering why some people were successful and some people failed. At that moment something was planted in my subconscious… “When I have kids, I will make sure that they have all the financial security… even if it killed me.”.
I had Decided to excel in everything I did, and set out to acquire all the skills needed to Do so. Nothing was impossible. From the age of 7-18, everything I set my mind to, I accomplished. Everything! I excelled in sports, academics, business and my family life by implementing my D.B.D.H (decide, belive, do, have).
Then one day I got the call…
Decisions
Our Decisions Today determine our Future....
At the age of 18 like the rest of the Israelis I had 3 options
1. Join the army or
2. Join the army or
3. Join the army
So you guessed right………. I joined the army for a ride that ended after 10 years. In those years I was an officer in the infantry, commanding 40 soldiers, and after a bit more then 3 years I DECIDED to BE a pilot so I asked to be transferred to the Air Force, after a lot of DOING I had the privilege of serving as an air force pilot. That was one of the best time periods in my life, HAVING a fat secured income and a garneted place in the hall of fame in my culture.
After I meet and married my beautiful wife Keren, that lead me to the next big Decision to move to California with no connections, no family nor friends to start with. It was just me and my beautiful bride. We moved into a small studio apartment (and when I say small…I mean small! It was a180 square foot apartment) in the Van Nuns area and I desperately needed to pull myself up by my boot straps. Foreseeing a trend in the marketplace I Decided to open my own business as a builder and investor.
At that time I was first exposed to the multi level marketing concept, witch at first it didn’t looked like the right business model for me and my wife, my construction business was booming. After investing time in learning it we decided to join. While building my day time business I worked on my MLM enterprise with great excitement and believe but after few months and some success my head just hit the wall. As hard as I worked the results in the MLM business did not improved I knew I didn't had the skills but I kept on going, I found myself as a member of the MLM grainer Club.
"Success is the ability to go from failure to failure in the same level of motivation" - Winston Churchill
Minwhile my day business just kept on growing, up to a phase that I found my self with more jobs one man (me)could handle so I started to regect job ( do you believe how stupid of me just saying no to 100% secure profiuit …)
Change
The ability to change is one of the main keys to success
In the end of 2006, the real estate business in California and all the US went in to a stop. And with the rest I started to feel the pain of cutting back in my life style.
My ego was in the way and I didn’t listen to my inner voice and I came to understand one of my greatest lessons –
"You can swim upstream for a while but eventually you will get weary and be carried away in the direction of the stream" - Randy Schroeder
Then about 16 months ago I found my vehicle to success - my own gold mine. I started again excited but again after short success I hit the same wall for few months so, again I decided to look for a better way and learned this lesson
There is a limit to what one can do,there are endless opportunities to create by a group work
I found my mentor and I found Web 2.0 and as they say since then my life just changed and I can say I’m living in a fairy tail with new top quality prospects coming in at an endless stream to learn and join my this business opportunity I’m glad to say I’m part of it.
If you want to learn more about what I’m doing to generate
Free leads call Me Direct At: 310-895-3391
But don’t wait because this opportunity gets smaller and smaller as the days go by.
If you’d like to learn about my business that experienced a 900% growth in the last 2.5 years, a written patent and wining endless awards across the board.
Call Me Direct NOW at: 310-895-3391
Again I would like to thank you for giving me the opportunity to share my story with you
I can be your mentor to your personal success if you just DECIDE....
People I’d like to meet:
Positive, loving, bright, sincere, original, outgoing, spiritual, fun loving, business minded, go-getters, type A personalities, teachable and trainable, network marketers, people with a large circle of influence, intelligent people who recognize a great opportunity when they see one, people who are serious and want to dramatically change the quality of their life mentally, physically, financially, emotionally or spiritually.
BTW- if you're just stopping by to say hello and chat, leave me a message and I'd be happy to make your acquaintance over the internet.
Peace and Blessings!
Another year has magically went by and several things have come and gone. Friendships have grown and some of faded over our many journeys this year. 1/5 of my friends have taken the time this year to reach out and say hello. Actually less than 1/5 but close enough for point taken. Out of our life if 1/5 of the people we meet become friends how many friends would we have over the years. Thank you for being part of 1/5 my friend. May your holidays be great and 2009 treat you well in the year to come. Be selfish this year and take the time to be around people that you enjoy and that are good for you. Stand up and take a stand when you feel the need to and make decisions even if they may not be the right. This year take time to develop yourself and don't spend so much time wondering what other people are doing. Allow them to be who they are and enjoy the fact that you don't have to live their life just live your own. Love more people so you are not so consumed with a few people. Love is meant to be shared and not withheld from people.
Whats up, Hope you having a nice day, keep working hard, keep smiling keep doing your best to be the best. May the force be with you and I wish you all the peace, love and happiness in the entire universe. Have a great day, morning or afternoon.Check out my video if you like thanks. http://the-spiderwebsystem. com
Thank you for extending your Friendship with me. A friend is a Gift you give Yourself, so Thank You for the Gift :)
I look forward to chatting with you and sharing tips and ideas to help each other out.
"You can achieve anything you want in life if you have the courage to dream it, the intelligence to make a realistic plan, and the will to see that plan through to the end." - Sidney A. Friedman
I appreciate you extending your circle friends to me on MySpace.
Look forward to sharing with you thoughts and ideas that could help both of us in networking. I always say two heads are better than one in finding answers to questions
"The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn." -- Alvin Toffler
Keith Winter, "If you are not willing to risk the unusual, you will have to settle for the ordinary."
Stopping by to say hello and say thanks. Have you ever had one of those weeks that life likes to challenge you at every turn? Well this has been one of them for me. Computer decided to act the something from the terminator series and did not like human interaction and it was like life was saying slow down and focus.
So lets slow down and focus. Do you believe that we attract what we focus on? If so what have you been focusing on things you want or are you putting a lot of thought into stuff you don't want to have. Just by being more aware of what we spend our time thinking about can show us where we are heading at times. Of course you could just say we have to live in this world that the media has created for you and you have to experience everyone's pain that you see and be that martar. I am a little more selfish I guess because I like experiencing everyones joy instead. Nice thing about life is you have a choice so it is up to you.
What are You when you think about it? Is that all you are or are you more my friend? Make a list of what you are and take your time creating it. Then go back and ask yourself tomorrow is this still everything you are or are you more today.
The person that limits who you are the most is you. I have found that people are more than what they give themself credit for being. We accept the idea that this is who we are and start making excuses that allow us to stay in one place.
Today you are perfect and you represent who you are in all honesty and perfection. Embrace who you are and be proud of it and also realize that you will be much more as well. You are not the same person that you were 5 years ago. Tomorrow, you can be more than what you ever imagined if you allow yourself to be. The question is will you accept the learnings and use them to grow or are you comfortable being who you think you are today?
Either way it is fine, because in the end you are the one that determines who and what you are. It is always in your control, even when you pretend that someone else made you do something. You still choose to have them be the excuse. I wonder what you will learn this week to allow you to become that person tomorrow. Maybe you already have learned it and started to change. Only you will know in the end when it is right for you.
Have a fantastic week and thanks for being my friend. You help me to stay on track and I appreciate your friendship.
Many times we spend our life not paying attention to how we operate. Take a minute and ask yourself what state of mind do you spend most of your day in. Do you look for the positive things in life to happen or are you creating a lot of journeys down negative roads? Your body responds to the journeys that you create even when they never come true. Take a minute and think about what kind of experiences you are living that never come true and ask yourself if you would like to change that.
My favorite two words are "What IF" as long as you use them to create fun and excitement. By simply asking yourself "What IF" you can allow your mental state to change. If you practice it enough you can change how you respond and react to any situation.
We are blessed with so many abilities and the only limits we have are the ones the we place upon ourselves. Your life can be anything you want it to be and if you play "What IF" enough you can actually teach your subconscious what choices to make because you rehearsed them enough in your fantastic mind.
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