You can't always please anybody to like you & accept you as a friend not 'til they know who you really are. Some people tend to be faked on you, they'll smile at you, they'll talk to you but behind it they all talking trash about you. It’s so sad when you find out later that your so-called friend is not being real to you. A lot of people
still don’t know what the meaning of friendship is; they will only realize that the person who’s been helping them all this time is important not ‘till they’re gone. Making new friends is not that complicated but looking for a true is just hard to find. Be very picky on choosing friends; don’t just give your trust right away. Ive learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. Ive learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. Ive learned it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. Ive learned that is not what you have in you life, but who you have in your life. Ive learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life. Ive learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides. Ive learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. Ive learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. Ive learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it. Ive learned that true friendship continues to grow,even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love. Ive learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. Ive learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated. Ive learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. Ive learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean that they don't love each other.And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do. Ive learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever. Ive learned that there are many ways of falling and staying in love. Ive learned that people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon. Ive learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one. Ive learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you. Ive learned that its a lot easier to react then it is to think. Ive learned that our backgrounds and circumstances may influenced who we are, but we are responsible for ourselves. Ive learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't. Ive learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by someone else. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. Ive learned making a living is not the some as making a life. Ive learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best of time. Ive learned that your life can be changed in a matter of minutes by people who don't even know you. Ive learned that its taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. Ive learned that mental stimulation is the way to a persons heart. Ive learned that just because your not together now doesn't mean it wasn't meant to be. Now is just not your time. Ive learned that a boy loves a thousand different girls, but a man loves ONE GIRL in a thousand different ways. Ive learned that letting go of something allows you to learn if you ever had it in the first place. Ive learned that the worst day of your life, will teach you more than the best day of your life. Ive learned that a guy will not go out of his way to make you happy if u don't do the same for him. Ive learned that everyone you love in your life will make you cry at one time or another. Ive learned good friends can make you laugh without even trying. Ive learned people will try to change you all your life, but the one person who doesn't try, will change you the most. Ive learned that one person can change your life drastically Ive learned that waiting, really pays off. Ive learned that I still have a lot to learn...
-mosang
