Peggy Boles

About me:

I’m a 57 year old grandmother, and I'm good at it :) I'm employed full time as a College Coordinator for a great Nursing College in Memphis, Tennessee and I really love my job. I work Monday-Friday on the 3rd shift. Spend my week-ends either grand mothering, painting, reading or just knocking around shopping or crafting. I have a Paralegal Certificate, 2 years of Criminal Justice Courses that I don't use. Was licensed Cosmologist for years, held State Instructors License in same and decided that wasn't for me. Completed Medical Assistant Program years ago and that too wasn't for me :), guess I'll figure out what I want to do when I grow up. That being said, I'm self supportive, pretty happy with where/who I am and what I do. I'm not looking for a long term, drama filled relationship. I had what I thought was the perfect marriage and was shocked to find that I could be so blind. After 20 years of being the loving, loyal and supporting wife I found myself left for a 20 year old who had/has the morals and appearance of a pig and the intelligence/IQ of a 7 year old. She also lasted less than a month! Who would have thunk it :) I did not react to the above situation in a giving manner! However, as both of the low lives are still among the living I suppose I could have reacted worse. I now find myself here because some of my students said I had to "get a life". I'm just a really uncomplicated person who is here to enjoy new friends, but that's all I look for here. If others have left you damaged and doubtful of your value, don't even stop, because I could write a book on that topic. I didn't lie, cheat, fuss or nag and I was still replaced. In short, it happens....get over it. If someone has cheated on you and hurt you, I am sorry it happened, it wasn't me. I don't care to hear about it or hold your hand while you whine. I too trusted 110%; could not believe how sallow and useless he was or that I didn't'/wouldn't see it. He was finally man enough to fess up and leave me :) I am now thankful for that, but I sure wasn't anywhere near thankful when it happened. Time heals, as well as reveals. I don't require being taken care of (since) I do that quite well on my own. I'm not stupid (so) I don't need direction for every move I make, and I will revolt, should you show signs of attempting to rule. I am opinionated and not shy about being so. I believe in everyone having the right to speak their mind on topics but that does not mean I must agree with you or that I will. I am, however, able to agree to disagree. Hope to find friends that just want to have a good time (without) baggage.