Raymond Thornberg

About me:

LOOKING FOR A SWEET GUY WITH A HEART AND THAT HAS A SOUL............. What up every body names Raymond my friend call me RAY...I am 38 years old some say I still look in my mid-20's thank god aging sucks...LOL,5'11", 150 pounds cut, Slim swimmers build, light brown hair, hazel green eyes, part Native American (Cheokee) and French, Your average mixed white boy...LOL...I am single at this time in my life and working on me...But I am still prospecting...To those that have read this far thank you means the world to me...To all my friends that are in my life now thank you all vary much for caring and loving me for me...To all my friends on myspace thank you for being there as well...For I am here as a friend, as a brother, as family, as a teacher, as a leader, and above all as a MENTOR...to those who need a person to talk to...For I have been on my own sice I was 16 years old and journeyed across the U.S.A. and helped many through out my life...I know I have experienced more than most people ever would in 5 life time...I love making friends and having real ones that care in my life it means the world to me...And who know I might find that right person to be in a serious relationship someday...The type of person I am well...a real nice easy going laid back guy...some say I got this ZIN thing going on...I don't get mad whats the point its a big waste of energy and it get you no ware...I get upset at times but I just brush it off and keep on going about life...After all anger toward family, friends, and others just leads to resentment and bitterness and some time hate toward one another...Were there's no need for that much negative energy to be directed at the ones you love that we all have in our lives...In this day and age real friends and family that truely care about us and love us for who we are is the hardest thing to come by now days...To simply be excepted and loved is the hardest thing to find from others that cross our path in life that become real good friends...The other thing about me is I live by a stern code of conduct and honor...Your every day Moral Values...The way people should treat people...With Respect and Kindness...The way you wish to be treated...I don't like to fight in any way shape or form...nor mental, emotional, or physical abuse from family, friends, or other people...I simply don't like DRAMA...If you can't talk to me and give respect then whats the point...and I never have a public conflict with family, friends, or other people in a public places...All fighting does in public is cause a scene that's unnecessary and it goes back to anger which leads to bitterness, resentment, and hate toward the people we love in our lives most...For me I'm a communicator and if your not willing as a mature person to talk out a problem and come to a reasonable conclusion that works for the both of us then whats the point of even talking if people are just going to fight...I love communication it has gotten me a lot farther in my life to calm myself down and talk out my problems with another that works for the both us...I communicate that's part who I am...After all when two people lash out at one another most of the time say thing they didn't mean and regret they said them after...Always remember mean vindictive thing in the moments of anger will always scare the hearts of the ones you love most dear and sometimes are hard to forgive after the pain has been done...Speaking of words A man or women who can't keep there word has no honor...Even if you have nothing left but you can stick to your word you give somebody...Then you have honor were other don't...which in turn will give you respect from those that know you are a man or women who holds up to there word when given to another...For I am that kind of man when I give you my word you could take it to the bank...This I have held as one of my major character values as a man and it also has gotten me farther in life as one...For my word is my badge of honor I can truly say with pride that is one thing I shall always have...The other fine quality I have as a person is I ware my heart on my sleeve...My great acts of kindness to others have been remembered by many through out my life...I also value Freedom...For freedom is one of the greatest gifts I have ever had and valued in my life...The other value I have as a person is I'm honest...I don't lie I found through out my life it has been best to tell the truth...being honest and truthful with others has always got me farther in my life as well...Any way I don't make a vary good liar...Other good quality I have as a man is I have gone out of my way and made sacrifices in my life for others who help themselves... After all my friends are still like a family to me..The type of people I look for to be in my life as friends are Friends who pick each other up and help one another in these hard times. Friend who talk and be real with one another..Friend who stand up say we will be ok...To stand together and give support just to say we care...Spread the LOVE around as one family..For we as gay/lesbian/BI society and as one gay/lesbian/BI community TO TAKE STAND AS ONE UNITED FAMILY..After all our government doesn't care any more it's up to us to care for one another now if there's going to be any hope for the future... You know friends it took me a long time to know what it means to be Gay/Bi and who I am..To feel comfortable in my own skin..To love myself..I feel good to feel good about myself and knowing I'm a good friend..For it feels great to be a Gay/Bi man and being a loving real friend of one family. For this is who I am as a person to say I'm Gay/Bi and Proud that I'm Gay/Bi to be part of a family that will always love me..So to all my friends out there and ones that want to be my friend thank you for loving me as real friends..Above all as ONE FAMILY UNITED AS ONE........ I'm SINGLE/ interested in long term relationship with someone; after all times not slowing down. So all my friends out there if your interested I'll try anything right now...and to any of my friends that have friends you may think that might need a real man with a heart then pass me along and drop me a email folks...So any one want to hang and go out or just a chill an party with some new friends thats cool too knowing money is tight as hell for all of us then hit me with an Email and we'll exchange phone numbers cool my peps. Love you all and keep in touch. Thanks Take Care I Love You All Your Friend Always RAYRAY:) AKA:PHARAOH I love people. Knowing new people and making them as real friends makes me happy. I live to be free and theres nothing like freedom. The only thing is its hard as hell to meet people that one can trust as friends here. I like to dance its about the only true freedom left that we can express our selves.The thing I hate most is time. Time never slows down and theres never enough time. When it has come down to people I care about as my friend it seems I have always managed to find the time for them. I love my friend vary much for they are the only thing I have that comes close to a real family. So if any one is in need of a real friend then drop me line by Email cool hope to hear from you yours RAY AKA: PHARAOH