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Almost everyone wants to be the lover. And the curt truth is that, in a deep secret way, the state of being beloved is intolerable to many. The beloved fears and hates the lover, and with the best of reasons. For the lover is forever trying to strip bare his beloved.
The lover craves any possible relation with the beloved, even if this experience can cause him only pain.
Carson McCullers.
Ballad of the Sad Cafe
If you do not attain happiness, always remember that you are on the right road, and try not to leave it.
Above all, avoid falsehood, every kind of falsehood, especially falseness to yourself. Watch over your
own deceitfulness and look into it every hour, every minute.
Avoid being scornful, both to others and to yourself. What seems to you bad within you will grow purer from the very fact of your observing it in yourself.
Avoid fear, too, though fear is only the consequence of every sort of falsehood. Never be frightened at your own faint-heartedness in attaining love. Don't be frightened overmuch even at your evil actions.
I am sorry I can say nothing more consoling to you, for love in action is a harsh and dreadful thing compared with love in dreams. Love in dreams is greedy for immediate action, rapidly performed and in the sight of all. People will even give their lives if only the ordeal does
not last long but is soon over, with all looking on and applauding as though on the stage.
But active love is labour and fortitude, and for
some people too, perhaps, a complete science. But I predict that just when you see with horror that in spite of all your efforts you are getting farther from your goal instead of nearer to it — at that very moment I predict that you will reach it and behold clearly the
miraculous power of the Lord who has been all the time loving and mysteriously guiding you."
Fyodor Dostoevsky,
The Brothers Karamazov, Part I, Book II, Chapter 4
Who I'd like to meet:
Janeane Garofalo
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miss you bro, luv you much,Deb and Chuck
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How did the Hootnany go?
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SO when are we hitting up Cafe International?
MISS YOU xoxo
P.s Had the flu really bad, but on the mend now and in need of a drink(s)
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We Love and Miss You!!!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY UNC JON
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I hope you have a lovely day!
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Happy Happy Happy BirthDay Jon!
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Happy B-day uncle Jon from the M.Jacksons
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