Ryan McGhee

About me:

I figure it's time for me to update this seeing as a lot has changed for me. I'm gonna give you a basic rundown on me. 1)I'm 30, going on 31 (but if you read the details on me up in the upper left there you knew the age thing already) 2)IF YOU'RE A LADY WHO IS CHECKING OUT MY PROFILE BECAUSE YOU GOT A FRIEND REQUEST FROM ME, it's because I saw your profile and decided that I would like to get to know YOU better. IF you are taking one look at my picture and saying "oh hell no" then let me clue you in on a little something...you making a judgement on me based on my looks...yeah, it's not MY loss. Take care, bye bye then. 3)IF YOU'RE STILL HERE AND READING ON....thank you, most people would be put off by my attitude that if you don't know me it's not my loss. I genuinely like to think that I'm a decent person and that I'm interesting once you get to know me. Yes I know I'm a bit of what Gabriel Iglesias (my favorite comedian) would probably call "Fluffy" I dunno. I personally think it makes me better at giving out hugs. But if you wanted to judge me based on my looks, feel free to close out this page and go somewhere else, I'll wait... 4)Now that those people are gone, let me tell you a little more about me, I grew up in a very conservative Christian home, went to a Christian college, so yeah I have some morals and values. That said, I'm not easily offended but if I am, you'll know about it, trust me, I'll be more than happy to let you know about it. 5)I try my best not to let stress get to me, yet again though, stress is a constant in everybody's life, and I cope with it by either writing, or playing Xbox or PS2. I have a DVR for a reason. I would think that if I had a lady friend or girlfriend or fiance' living with me she would understand, if I come home stressed from work, the DVR is there for a reason, just let me play a little Xbox or if you wanna try relieving my stress by other methods yourself, you're welcome to do so. 6)I've always characterized myself as more of a relationship type. I'm not the kind of guy who will screw on the first date. Point of fact, if I can't see myself with you on a permanent basis, you're probably not going to get any from me. Sorry, that's just the way it goes, I'm not trying to permanently connect myself to you by way of the possibility of a kid unless I feel I could be with you forever. It's nothing against you, just I've seen it happen too many times where two people are tied together forever because they have a kid yet they can't stand each other. 7)Go easy on me, I'm not a timid spirit by any stretch, but if you start to stress me out, or if you try to brow beat me or guilt trip me into anything, you'll find out that lurking just beneath the surface of my existence is an asshole who likes to come out and can and will probably say anything to shut you up and get you to stop. 8)As an addendum to #7, I don't have a brain/mouth filter that works very well. I say what I think probably a lot more than I should, and it gets me in trouble. That being said, if you want to know the meaning behind anything I say, ask me, I'd like to think I'm one of the more open and honest people you'll ever meet, and I do my best NOT to pull punches, because honestly if I did that I feel it would be a disservice to a friend. I'll add more as I think of it, but this is the basis for dealing with me, if you wanna know more, I have AIM, Yahoo, and MSN, or you can drop me a line on here. Take care.