When it comes to anything and everything really, change is inevitable. Slight or significant, better or worse, it doesn't matter. At different times in our life, different things in our life need some revamping because of the pure monotany of it. You have to reaccess and do something about it. Otherwise, it gets either stagnant or changes from other sources outside your own.
I know I'm being as vague as possible but I'm actually getting to the point which is rare. Like having a job for example. You work there for months, then years, you get to a point were you can't progress any further and then what? You got to change it up somehow, either do more or different things, go to something new completely.....to each there own. You get a house, you make it just the way you want and then years go by and you got to update. (Well, you don't have to but then your shit's outdated).
In relationships, you got to be more creative since we live in the expected monogamous society where you find a mate, latch on and go through your whole life with that person. After a while......long while, it's not as easy to go on to something new. You've made a commitment to that person and yada yada.....The hard thing is to keep coming up with shit that's different to liven it up.
What if by default, you're not all that creative and either is the other person. That can turn it to a sorry route of 'same ole same ole' and stuck in a plateau for a good while. Don't get me wrong, you can always breakup and move on but really, even if you find your soulmate and you're super compatible in every way, there will be a time that the honeymoon is over.
Back to my point, when it come to anything, over time... things will change. It's best if you have control over it. In order to do that though, you make the initiative, put forth the effort and try to create change for the better. If you go into uncharted territory, who knows the outcome.....could be bad, could be good. Just make sure you try.
A friend of mine (whom you know) showed me this quote a few years ago and I've adopted it into my life. It is by far my favorite quote.........
"Some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity...." -Gilda Radner
I absolutely believe in this quote and live by it. No matter the situation or circumstances that I'm going through. This quote relates to all aspects of my life.
I know exactly what your talking about.........I've made significant changes in my life over the past few years and especially this past month. Although changes can be scary and unknowing. They can also bring out the best in you. Challenging you to overcome your worries and distress and make it into something positive and energetic. I believe patience is key to change. Change can never happen over night and if your patient enough you'll see results in the change. It'll get frustrating and sickening at times when you don't see results come as fast as you like. But no one ever said that dreams come true over night. Stay determined, keep your eye on the prize and never, never give up on full filling your aspirations. You and only you control your own destiny so it's up to you how you route it. Life is to short to worry about the what if this happens and what if.......who the fuck cares? Carpe diem!
Hug you, kiss you, miss you, absolutely fucken LOVE you!
enlightened
A friend of mine (whom you know) showed me this quote a few years ago and I've adopted it into my life. It is by far my favorite quote.........
"Some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next. Delicious ambiguity...." -Gilda Radner
I absolutely believe in this quote and live by it. No matter the situation or circumstances that I'm going through. This quote relates to all aspects of my life.
I know exactly what your talking about.........I've made significant changes in my life over the past few years and especially this past month. Although changes can be scary and unknowing. They can also bring out the best in you. Challenging you to overcome your worries and distress and make it into something positive and energetic. I believe patience is key to change. Change can never happen over night and if your patient enough you'll see results in the change. It'll get frustrating and sickening at times when you don't see results come as fast as you like. But no one ever said that dreams come true over night. Stay determined, keep your eye on the prize and never, never give up on full filling your aspirations. You and only you control your own destiny so it's up to you how you route it. Life is to short to worry about the what if this happens and what if.......who the fuck cares? Carpe diem!
Hug you, kiss you, miss you, absolutely fucken LOVE you!
~BFF