The basic problem I have with all of this is that to conclude that a guy must be gay if he wears and looks good in a Speedo is a convenient excuse for heterosexual males to let their fitness levels slide such that they surely will not look good in a Speedo. Further, if a woman somehow ended up with an overweight, unfit guy she can conveniently rationalize this on the basis that the trim fit guys who look good in Speedos must all be gay and therefore unacceptable partners! And if she is married to a fit guy, she can rationalize him covered up in loose fitting board shorts and a big tee shirt as assuring that other dressed that way surely other women will not attempt to compete for his interest. Maybe if she truly believes that she should go ahead and let her guy wear a Speedo if she truly believes that other women who see her guy in a Speedo they will automatically assume that he is gay. But, oddly enough, she might not be secure enough to have other women thinking that she might have somehow (perhaps inadvertently) attached herself to a gay guy, not simply a straight guy who is fit enough and comfortable enough in his own skin to be comfortable wearing a Speedo.
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