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*My philosophy is simple, and I live my life by a few rules that govern my actions and assure my success. There's a reason why some people is just talking about this AND that but ain't doing that and this, 'cause THOSE people don't have any rules… I'm not saying that this works for everyone, but this works for me.
1.) A-B-C: Always Be Closing. If you're talking about some thing, and there's some type of come-up involved (monetary, social, sexual), either you're closing the deal or your just wasting your time. If you ain't talking' to win, you just talking'.
2.) Telling isn't selling and Yappin' won't make it happen: Words can only take you so far, action and the ability to take action is what separates little people that talk about doing BIG things from the those that do the REAL BIG things.
3.) If you can't, know someone that can: Always know someone else who can get you in where you can't get yourself. Networking is the professional term for a hook-up, always have one.
4.) Find an advocate: If you're smalltime, find someone who's big time and make sure they know you and know that you're a good person. Never ask a favor of your advocates, but always grant them favors. They'll always speak highly of you, even when you don't ask them to and their opinion of you will shape others opinions.
5.) If you don't know, find out: People love ignorance, and most of the hardheaded people I know ain't really hardheaded, they just afraid to get the proper information. Smart people get rich everyday from asking questions because true wealth comes from having information to horde.
6.) Pick your battles wisely, but also pick your battlefield wisely: YADAYADA's wanna argue with you, fine, just don't do it on their terms. I tell people all the time that they can't win an argument with a woman, so instead of worrying about which argument you want to win, pick the one you want to lose. the “SHE” argues with me about some thatandthis, I always bring up the fact that she wants a whateva, 'cause I don't mind losing the whateva argument if it means I don't lose the bigger argument.
7.) Find someone's vice and give it to them: People all have a weakness, but a vice is deeper than that, because people hide those. If a dude likes fat girls, but won't tell no one, get him a fat girl, then when he knows that you know his secret, he'll be more inclined to give you what you want when you want it… people are afraid of being exposed, you-know-who's especially, so get the dirt on everyone you know and use it to your advantage.
8.) Never do anything without a plan B and a plan C: Man makes plans and God laughs so if at first you don't succeed, try the other way. people don't understand the value of persistence, even on a statistical level, the more times and ways you try something, the better the odds that it's gonna happen. She ain't tryna hear your game, try a different angle, then try again, and then try again. Eventually she'll break down if you're focused and you learn from your previous mistakes. If you don't have a plan, then you're just working off luck and luck doesn't exist.
9.) Act As If: If you play the role, eventually people will assume that that's who you are. Don't front too hard or else you'll look like a fraud, but if you got swagger and confidence, they won't question you or your claims.
and most importantly
10.) Capitalize off the failures of others: There's a reason why they failed, either they did it wrong and you can do it right, or it can't be done at all and you learn from their futility and move on. Sometimes, people just won't admit that some things just cannot be done then they waste their time trying to prove everyone else wrong. Ohnevermind that, if it looks impossible, it probably is, and that means there's a simpler answer to the problem or way about accomplishing the goal. Don't burn down the barn to get to the hay, figure out what someone else did wrong or right and follow that model. Trailblazers are a basketball team, you follow the proven path and get proven results.
NOW WITH ALL THAT SAID, you can understand how i move which in turn is how I shoot.
Not for the glance but for the stare….
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