"I remember sitting in class learning about the statistics of sexual assault towards women... one in three. I remember looking around at all the girls in my class, feeling sorry for a good percentage of them, but I forgot about me. "
Kids Help Line is Australia's only free, confidential and anonymous, 24-hour telephone and online counselling service specifically for young people aged between five and 25.
(This is a free service available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week from anywhere in Australia).
Important Phone Numbers (Australia only):
National Help Lines: Kids Help Line (if you are under 25) - 1800 55 1800 Lifeline - 13 11 14 Child Protection and Family Crisis Service - 1800 656 463 Sexual Assault Help Line: 1800 010 120 (7am to 11pm) Laurel House counselling service in Maroochydore 5443 4711 (9am to 5pm) Website, Reach Out! - http://www.reachout.com.au
Helping others out and letting them know that they are not alone in what they go through, that there are other people out there who understand and can relate to things they've been through and who care about them and what they go through.
Did you know that every 2 minutes there is a adult woman raped in this country. Every day 365 days a year over 1,800 women are raped. While reading this page approximately 5 women were raped.
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Anything really that is inspiring and inspirational i love and will sing all day too. But it’s always changing ;o)
Characteristics of Victims:
Violated, No power/control over one’s life, No choice, Sad soul, Unhealthy, Joyless, Withdrawn, Lack of self worth, Bad dresser, Irresponsible, Depressed, Fearful, Lack of security, Complainer, ‘Can’t’ syndrome, Angry, Passive, ‘No Care’ attitude, Extreme anxiety, “I am a failure”, “I attract misery”.
Characteristics of Survivors:
Empowered, Nurturing of self, Responsible for self; actions/choice, Committed to self, Motivated, Balanced, Not agitated or anxious, Trusting the self, Happy/genuine, Love of the self, Resilient, Calm, Healed, Clarity of mind, Self belief, Courageous, Free, Willpower, Strength, Experiences both thoughts and feelings.
To encourage all women to report rape should it happen to them.
It is best to report rape within the first 72 hours (three days),
but it is never too late to report rape.
Reasons to Report Rape
1) Reporting rape and seeing your rapist stand trial and be put in prison could be crucial
in your journey of healing.
2) Since most rapists are repeat offenders, it is important to get as many as possible off the streets
so more women don't endure the same trauma.
?Reading gives you the ability to reach higher ground . . . I ? anything that is a true story
Heroes
All the brave men and women serving in our military and all those people who are out there fighting in life and overcoming everyday tragedies and trying to make something of themselves, who don't let anything stop them from achieving their goals and dreams because they believe in themselves.
"From every wound there is a scar, and every scar tells a story. A story that says, I survived."
Who I am, My name is Cassieopia, I’m her Breaking the silence and Making a difference for all of us who have been sexual abused in the harsh world! I have been in this harsh, amazing world for 20 years. I have done some great things and met some amazing people but have also lived some things that bring you crashing back down to earth. I like to make the most of things. I don't want to die yet! Well I’m her to Break the silence and Make a difference! I have been through sexual abuse myself and understand that it is VERY REAL, and that there just is not enough help out there for young people that need it. Sometimes talking to someone that understands is a very important part of overcoming our pain, or even just to get us through the day. Every single day, childhood sexual abuse is running rampant, yet it’s the best-kept secret in our nation today yet young women all over the world are being abused, it needs to stop and we need to stand up and say what is happing we need to Break the Silence and Make a difference to this harsh world…
You can email me with any question you may have @:
Feel free to message me anytime about anything, I don't mind for I am always here to listen. I keep everything confidential. I believe that we can all make a difference in the lives of others and that we can rise above the obstacles in our lives. If we just fight together, then we can overcome anything. Also we can be a light to others who are trapped in dark places in their own lives.
Want to know what I’ve been throw in this Harsh world??
I went through a lot of emotional, physical, psychological and sexual abuse-from my parents. I was sexual, emotional and physical abuse by my father for many years, but now he is in jail which has saved me because it got to a point in which he was wanting to kill me but bad luck for him because I beat him in the nick of time by speaking out…on the other hand I was psychological abuse by my mum for at least 7 years of my life but I left her at 13 and lived with my Mum’s, Mum who had me for 9 months and then I went to my father’s mother for 13 months, and with in all this time my family didn’t even know what was going .. I end up in foster care because my father was going to kill me and I have just left foster care because I’m now eighteen. I had to deal with things alone because I had no one to turn to during those times. No one to reach out a hand to me and tell me it was all going to be ok. My goal in life is to help others out who are facing difficult times and have gone through hard times in life. No one should have to go through things alone. I want to help others fight the obstacles in their life and be successful. I just want others to know that they are not alone, that there are others out there who understand and can relate to what they are facing. Life holds a lot of opportunities. But we must be willing to go through the open door and follow our destiny. There is a reason why each of us is here and we all have a special calling and purpose in life. I want to help people get past those barriers in life and help them break free from the pain they feel.
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Child Protection - Tips
What is abuse?
Child Abuse may be one or a mixture of physical, emotional, sexual abuse or neglect:
Emotional Abuse
is when a child is deprived of love, affection and attention or when an adult continually speaks to a child in a negative or hurtful way and makes them feel worthless. Abusive behaviours include excessive yelling, unreasonable demands, excessive criticism, belittling, teasing, ignoring, humiliating, demeaning punishment, witnessing domestic violence or holding back praise or affection.
Neglect
is occurring when an parent or carer fails to provide a child with the basic needs such as love, food, shelter, adequate supervision and medical care.
Physical Abuse
is when an adult or older person deliberately injures a child such as bruising, burning, shaking, beating, scalding or other physical injury.
Sexual Abuse
is occurring when an adult (or someone bigger or older than a child) involves a child in sexual activity by using his or her power over the child, or talking advantage of a child's trust. Often tricks, bribes or threats and sometimes physical force are used to make a child participate in the activity. Child sexual abuse is not just intercourse, it includes a wide range of activities including voyeurism, exhibitionism, touching or fondling of sexual body parts, oral sex and intercourse.
If you or a friend is being abused like this, it is wrong and not your fault. Child abuse is always wrong and never the fault of the child.
How can I stay safe?
Identify the people that you trust most in the world. This might be Mum, Dad, Grandad, Grandma, your teacher, you're aunty or uncle, brother or sister. There are other people you may feel you can trust such as policemen/women, your parents' friends, your friends' parents or a counsellor.
Talk to someone you trust. If you are feeling scared, sad or confused about anything, talk to a trusted adult.
Keep on telling. Keep on telling different people if your problem is not being fixed. Keep telling someone until you feel safe.
Know that your body belongs to you. No one can touch any part of your body in a way that makes you feel scared, angry, sad or confused. This includes your private parts. It is okay to tell someone to stop if they are touching you in a way that hurts or that you are not comfortable with.
Trust your feelings. Listen carefully to what your body tells you about being touched and watch out for any warning feelings that you might need help.
Know the difference between SAFE and UNSAFE touching. Some touching is friendly, loving or helpful such as hugging Mum or Dad, holding hands with a friend, play wrestling with your brother or giving your sister a shoulder massage.
Unsafe touching is when someone:
touches you when you do not want them to
touches you in a sexy way
touches you in a way that you feel uncomfortable, confused or scared
if the touching is hurting you.
If you are unsure in anyway about SAFE and UNSAFE touching, talk to a trusted adult.
What if I am being abused?
Child abuse is wrong and never the fault of the young person. If you or a friend is being abused, you need to tell and keep telling until someone listens.
Someone may have tried to make you feel ashamed or guilty for what has happened. You are not to blame for something they have done wrong. It is not your fault.
Don't believe them if they say something bad will happen to your or your family if you tell.
It is an unsafe secret and it is okay to tell someone to keep yourself safe.
Nothing is so awful that it can't be talked about.
If you are not sure then listen to your body and your feelings.
How do I tell someone or report abuse?
Identify someone that you trust to tell.
Tell a trusted adult who can keep you safe help you to stop the abuse.
It may be very difficult, painful or scary for you to tell and it may be hard for you to find the right words to explain. Take your time and try to explain how you have been hurt. Lots of kids find talking face-to-face very difficult so you might find it easier to write it down, make a phone call, send an email or to draw a picture.
If the person hurting you is someone in your family, you may feel safe if you tell someone outside your family first ? such as your teacher or a counsellor.
You can try phoning Kids Help Line counselor?s there open 24 hours a day on (1800 55 1800) or access counsellors through email and web counselling by clicking here
Keep telling until someone believes you. Keep telling until you feel safe.
What if someone I know is being abused?
If a friend tells you that abuse is happening or you suspect they are being abused:
Believe your friend.
Offer support.
Try not to appear shocked.
Encourage them to tell an adult they trust and let them know you will go with them is they want.
Don't keep it to yourself ? tell a trusted adult. It is an unsafe secret. It is important that your friend is made safe and that the abuse does not continue to happen.
Help your friend to keep on telling until they are safe.
I'd like to meet people who are hurting, in pain because of what someone else has done to them that should never have been; people who need encouragement and support; people who just need to be loved for who they are, without any strings attatched or any conditions put upon them; people who are genuine and sincere and care about others; people who aren't afraid to express their feelings.
I'd like to meet others who have been told they have "disorders" and are struggling to find themselves. people with borderline personality disorder, dissociative identity disorder, people who are suicidal, and everything inbetween.... because i, too, am one of them.
People who like to laugh and aren't afraid to express their true selves, no matter how silly and childlike they appear.
I'd like to meet people who have come through the trauma of their abuse and have arrived on the "other side" of Truth.
I'd Love to meet you some day! ;o)
Our of all the Celebrities out there the two most favret would have to be Oprah Winfrey and P!nk I would love to meet them in person as they are people that I admire the most of all of the celebrities out there! It world mean a lot to me to meet them some day.
• 39% of us reported our rape/sexual abuse.
• 51% of us are involved in self harm.
• 63% of us became involved in self harm following their rape/sexual abuse.
• 29% of us are CURRENTLY seeing a professional of some kind in regards to your rape/sexual abuse.
• Half of us were seeing a professional following our abuse but are no longer seeing them.
• 92% of us have flashbacks or nightmares.
• 47% of us feared pregnancy; however, only 7 became pregnant (however, some had multiple pregnancies/children from their rape.)
• 18% of the pregnancies resulted in either a miscarriage or abortion.
• 33% of us were under the age of 8. 12% were under 12 years old. 10% of us were 14 & 15.
Walk away Walk away Walk away From gods who demand thoughtless obedience Walk away From pettiness that will make you petty Walk away From anger that will eat your insides Walk away From abuse which steals your soul Walk away Gaining strength with each stride Walk away Alone, arm-in-arm or in tandem Walk away Yet do not run away in fear Walk away You, first among equals Walk away Holding head high Walk away Now
Sending TRUCKLOADS of Love your way....let us ALL stand tall and confident... let us all value our selves as much as the Universe values each of us... let us LOVE with safety.... Let Us Love....
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