Until the Violence Ends

Warning signs of a potentially abusive relationship;
•Jealousy of other people – won’t let the victim talk to other people; will accuse the victim of cheating
•Controlling behavior – picking out the victim’s clothing; asking her/him to carry a pager or cell phone so that s/he can always be found
•Unrealistic expectations – expecting her/him to be the perfect girl/boyfriend; “If you loved me, you’d….”
•Isolation from friends and family – always wanting to be with the victim; not allowing her/him to go out with her/his friends; telling the victim that s/he is too close to her/his family
•Blames others for problems – never accepts responsibility; “The teacher hates me, that’s why I got an ‘F,’” even if the abuser didn’t study for the test.
•Hypersensitivity – easily insulted.
•Verbal abuse – calling the victim names; saying the victim is stupid
•Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde – sudden mood changes
•Past battering/ any force during an argument – including grabbing the victim; not allowing her/him to leave

As a Domestic Violence Advocate for 15+ years I have seen the effects of abuse on our nations young people. I would like to relay information and contacts for National and Local Agencies that can answer questions, provide information and referral for anyone who is in need or who knows someone that may be in an abusive relationship.

Knowledge is Power; Silence is a Weapon.

I am here on a referral basis. Please feel free to use any of the links that are provided for more in depth information.

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