S Dot Walker

CHECK OUT ZIGGAZAGGAPRODUCTIONS.COM/FORUM SIGN UP AND IF YOU NEED ADVICE OR WOULD LIKE AN HONEST OPINION OR HAVE AN OPINION ON WHAT I SHOULD WRITE ABOUT SPEAK UP! HERE IS JUST AN EXAMPLE OF THE GREAT ADVICE YOU WILL BE GIVEN: As women men say that "women run the world and have all the power". Well ladies how do we feel about this statement? To me its just like a child saying "I love broccoli I could eat it all day". Its something that is unusual but not impossible! Ladies it is all about placing energy in the right scenarios in life. If we put just as much energy in our goals and aspirations like we do our relationships, friendships, emotions, nails, gossiping, hair and shopping we would all be millionaires. Most men that are driven have success because they can hold off on particular luxuries and hide emotions. Men say we rule the world but then refuse to hand us the opportunity. Is this wrong? Of course not! Women we are so used to things being handed to us, but you know why? Because it was never a chairman position or record label that was handed to us! Just a nice dinner, some shopping or a car. Look at the bigger picture! Is that really an accomplishment? not in anyway. We are living in a man's world but we have the upper hand to push the envelope. Ladies, men especially in the music industry look at their jobs as a grind and a lot of times their main priority is stability and maintaining. No one in this state of mind is going to meet you randomly and give you the world because you are pretty, nice, and have a bomb personality. There are literally a million other women with the same description. 1. They do not owe you anything. 2. Their well off so you are not the only woman to think you could share that lifestyle with them. 3. They grinded for that position, why just hand it to you when you do not have the same drive? 4. Men respect women with a grind as well The most attractive trait to a man is for women to try to be as self sufficient as possible. Have your own goals and even if it isn't taking over the world as long as their your own personal goals you are truely trying to reach. They don't need you to have a mansion, but pay your own bills and maintain your credit. You don't need a jaguar, just be able to pay your note, gas, oil changes. This may seem funny but some women do feel that a man should do this all especially in the beginning just to be cool with them. Men would love to support you if they got it because it wouldn't be an empty investment. Making a man feel as if you are his responsibility to have the finer things in life isn't fair to them. We are given life to live, learn and love. Ladies never look for a man to be your happiness or stability. Have a man around to add to your happiness and support your stability by being stable himself. This will only make life more enjoyable and the rewards that much more sweeter. And you can focus on love and trust, not money and material things.