The very purpose of existence is to reconcile the glowing opinion we have of ourselves with the appalling things that other people think about us. (Quentin Crisp)
Female
101 years old
Reston, Virginia
United States
"To keep the heart unwrinkled, to be hopeful, kindly, cheerful, reverent ~ that is to triumph over old age."
~ Thomas B. Aldrich
"Let a joy keep you. Reach out your hands and take it when it runs by." ~Carl Sandburg..
"... joy and sorrow are inseparable. . . together they come and when one sits alone with you . . . remember that the other is asleep upon your bed." ~Kahlil Gibran
A man should hear a little music, read a little poetry, and see a fine picture every day of his life, in order that worldly cares may not obliterate the sense of the beautiful which God has implanted in the human soul. ~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
In my mind's eye, this glorious horse and I are heading...
...down this country road toward home after our morning run. So be it!
ESSENTIAL TO LIFE ARE: Good friends and family, spiritual nourishment, acoustic music, concerts, gratitude, sailing, live music, fun, more music, mountains, books, kids, water, nature, did I mention music, exercise, photography, horses, writing, exuberance, great minds, funny people, youthful folks of all ages, and of course, music!
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." ~ Mark Twain
Don't underestimate me, bud!
Music
I'm addicted to it, but you'll not catch me trying to beat the habit! Music has been my addiction since early childhood, and I've seen no damage from it yet, nor has it led to other addictions (oh wait, unless you count my addiction to LIVE ACOUSTIC MUSIC developed later in life. These days, I could never get too much Kathy Mattea or Krista Detor, or Carrie Newcomer. I'm still discovering artists I had somehow missed before joining myspace, such as the wonderful Patty Griffin, and the many emerging new acoustic artists.
One of the best things about MySpace is the discovery of independent acoustic vocalists, musicians, songwriters, and the people who love them! My spirit is continually nourished through this music, connecting with others who share this passion, and experiencing concerts, especially those in small venues catering to people who are truly there for the music. So much talent, so many good people!
Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life. ~Arnold “Red” Auerbach
Music is the vernacular of the human soul. ~Geoffrey Latham
I think I should have no other mortal wants, if I could always have plenty of music. It seems to infuse strength into my limbs and ideas into my brain. Life seems to go on without effort, when I am filled with music. ~George Eliot
Movies
To Kill A Mockingbird, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Fried Green Tomatoes, GWTW, Dead Poets Society, Birdcage, Good Will Hunting, Postcards from the Edge (great book, too, by Carrie Fisher), SILKWOOD, anything with the incredible Meryl Streep, Katharine Hepburn, Audrey Hepburn, Cary Grant, Kurt Russell, Cher, Goldie Hawn, Robin Williams, great actors of all time.
It is by the goodness of God that in our country we have those three unspeakably precious things: freedom of speech, freedom of conscience, and the prudence never to practice either. ~Mark Twain
Television
WVU Mountaineer football!
Books
I may have emerged from the womb with a book in my hands (and a prehistoric stereo headset on)! Have always been a voracious reader and lover of books. Have read tons of fiction, covered all of Willa Cather's works as a child, wanted to BE her! Currently engaged with biographies: have read several on JFK and Robert Kennedy (can't wait to see the movie Bobby!), recently read a fabulous book on Neil Armstrong. Enjoy tomes on spirituality, philosophy, the human condition, and good fiction.
Heroes
My lifetime hero is my beloved big brother Paul. In childhood, his love was unconditional, he made me feel that I mattered in the world, he would never let me down. In adulthood, even in discovering that he was human and thus not entirely perfect ;~), he was always the point of reference against which other men were measured, the guiding light, the opinion that most mattered, the one I considered the smartest human alive, the one who always listened thoughtfully and communicated gently, the one I could count on, the one for whom I never lost respect, the big brother whose life had blossomed and flourished as husband to a beautiful lady inside and out, who adored him, and children who grew up knowing, just as I had, that he was the one they could always turn to, whose love and respect would always be theirs to cherish.
My everyday heroes are folks who live each day with passion, integrity, and an open heart. I'm encountering such people more and more often these days, thus realizing they've been around all along. What a beautiful and inspiring thing for which to be thankful!
PAUL AND ME
MY MOM EVA IN JUNE '65
MY SWEET SISTER SHARON
MY SIS AGAIN
MY BRUVER TOM & MY TONY
MY BELOVED GRANDBOY T.J. AT 4
MY MISCHIEF-MAKER AMANDA ON HER 4TH BIRTHDAY
MY AMANDA AT 5
MY DANIELLE AT 2
MY DANIELLE AT 7
HIGH SCHOOL GIRLFRIENDS
Willa's Details
Status:
Single
Here for:
Networking, Serious Relationships, Friends
Orientation:
Straight
Hometown:
CROSS LANES, WEST VIRGINIA
Body type:
5' 5"
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Zodiac Sign:
Leo
Children:
Proud parent
Occupation:
Editing, Webmaster, Doer of All Things
Willa's Schools
Nitro High School
Nitro, WV
Graduated: 1966
Student status: Alumni
Major: Literacy in Waterskiing
Minor: Zen of Motorcycle Riding
Clubs: Friday Night Football & Sock Hoppin'; Super Girlfriend Secret Language Club; Future Fifties Cybertrend Leaders of America
1963 to 1966
Willa's Companies
National Association of Schools of Music Reston, Virginia US Projects Associate
1928 to present
Willa read Kelley Martin's "Top 20" list voted by listeners of Acoustic Pie Radio and is thrilled that KRISTA DETOR occupying THREE spots for Nov! COOL! Posted at 3:03 PM Dec 2 view more
Hope is the ability to hear the music of the future. Faith is having the courage to dance to it today.
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"Do not be discouraged by the storms you must endure; The heart is better wakened when the mind is made unsure; For all that has been poisoned, it's your heart that keeps you pure; Do not be dissuaded from your dream" ~Doug Lang
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I am a kind of paranoiac in reverse. I suspect people of plotting to make me happy.
Do yourself a favor...decide to look at the world through the eyes of a joyful child...be present in the moment and see all the life, the beauty, the joy, the love. Open your heart, be grateful, feel the joy, let it wash over you like a spring rain. Marvel as opportunities for more beautiful moments multiply in proportion to your joy and gratitude! Give it away...there's more! ~Willa
The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails. ~William Arthur Ward
The dreamer dreams of sails to adjust! ~Willa Jean Shaffer, Dreamer
For any newcomers to this page, Krista Detor is my favorite among all the superb singer-songwriters I love so much...and that's saying a LOT! Krista is an incredibly creative, prolific songwriter whose voice, lyrics, melodies, and piano playing blend themselves effortlessly into a spellbinding story, a masterpiece painting, a work of stunning beauty. There is, quite simply, no one like her. You can hear some live concert videos on YouTube, and if you'd like to attend a live concert (the BEST way to hear Krista), check out her schedule.
KATHY MATTEA is another favorite. I play her music often at home and see her live every chance I get. Kathy never fails to lift my spirits--her passion and her exuberance are contagious! Go visit her on myspace (myspace.com/kathymattea) and check out her amazing Grammy-nominated "COAL" CD there or on her beautifully updated website at mattea.com.
Below is one of my favorites among Kathy's older music videos: 'STANDING KNEE-DEEP IN A RIVER (DYING OF THIRST)' and just beneath that is a link to the phenomenal music video of READY FOR THE STORM with Kathy Mattea and Dougie MacLean, the BBC version on YouTube.
If you've never seen Kathy Mattea in concert, I highly recommend that you do so whenever you have a chance. Here's a video that shows what Kathy is doing now...and what she is doing now is positively stunning!
KATHY MATTEA 2008: RED-WINGED BLACKBIRD
KATHY MATTEA 1992: STANDING KNEE-DEEP IN A RIVER (DYING OF THIRST) KATHY MATTEA with Dougie MacLean READY FOR THE STORM http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wv4Wpychxh8 ___________________
I know you believe that you understood what you think I said, but I am not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.
"God forbid that I should go to any heaven where there are no horses."
Robert Bontine Cunninghame Graham
CHRONOLOGY (and the DOB on my driver's license) paint me the color of an aging baby boomer, but my spirit puzzles over this. The years apparently roared on past when I wasn't paying attention, but I'm just the same as ever ... on the inside! My spirit is of the opinion that it has a sizable stash of energy and many more years ahead to play and enjoy the boundless joys life has to offer! There's more music to be heard, more photos to be taken, more people to love, more of myself to give, much more to learn, more hugs to be shared, more fun to be had ... AND I'm such a KID!
CHEERS!
My kind of loyalty was loyalty to one's country, not to its institutions or
its officeholders. ~Mark Twain, author and humorist (1835-1910)
Who I'd like to meet: YOU! Where've you been?
How I would love to have met my grandparents, and their parents, and theirs...
Would love to have known my uncle Paul Emerson Shaffer, pictured, who died at 19, many years before I came along.
And wouldn't it just be wonderful to meet larger-than-life folks we've admired or have been inspired and influenced by, such as Mother Teresa, Gandhi, Benjamin Franklin, Martin Luther King, Jr., John and Robert F. Kennedy, Mark Twain, Thoreau, Tolstoy ... and have a chance to meet all the intelligent, wise, lovely, courageous, good people past and present, famous or your next-door neighbor's aunt Betty!
I would like to meet, talk with, and gaze into the eyes of every child. I would like to meet every brilliant songwriter and musician whose mind bends mine.
I hope to meet as many folks as I can from whom I can learn more about the human condition and in so knowing, I might be a better person.
Those I long most to meet again in another realm: my amazing Mom, who died when I was just 18, but she left me with a lifetime's worth of inspiration and awe; my brother, who gave us the length of years we could reasonably expect, but it was not enough, it could never be enough. I hope to be reunited, too, with my grandson's mama, Kim, who was taken before her time, at the tender age of 25.
And, please God, if there is a reunion for me in heaven, let it include the one who claimed me as his life partner, even though I did not make it easy for him, who drew out the best woman in me, gently dismantled my "brick wall," gave me unconditional love, and changed me forever: Steve. God bless him.
STEVEN L. MOORE April 3, 1955 ~ January 2, 1994
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Music was my refuge. I could crawl into the space between the notes and curl my back to loneliness.
~ Maya Angelou ___________________________
Praise loudly, blame softly. ~ Catherine the Great ___________________________
Evil is like a shadow ... it has no real substance of its own, it is simply a lack of light. You cannot cause a shadow to disappear by trying to fight it, stamp on it, railing against it, or any other form of emotional or physical resistance. In order to cause a shadow to disappear, you must shine light on it.
Ruby Jane Article in New York Times!! http://mediadecoder.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/09/26/who-do-these-guys-think-they-are/ AND Check out the new pictures and video! Let me know what you think! Ruby Jane
Thanks, Willa! The day itself wasn't so spectacular since I spent most of it at work and it was a day filled with technology problems, but I spent the holiday weekend with Dad and will see Jenn this coming weekend, so there have been and will be reasons to celebrate. Hope you're doing well and surviving the busy start to fall!
Happy Birthday! I hope yours was as good as mine. I bought DVDs of the Transatlantic Sessions from Scotland. They won't play in the DVD player but they play on the computer. Kathy Mattea, Dougie MacLean, Emmylou Harris, Guy Clark, Jerry Douglas, Tim O'Brien, Mark O'Connor and the list goes on and on. Check it out on YouTube.
Hey Willa! Thanks for the note. Yes, summer seems to fly by faster and faster each year, at least for me. I think of you when my fall insanity starts at work because I know you have yours, too. And yes, the Kathy Mattea concert with Dad was truly special. He still can't believe he actually saw her perform in person and then got to meet her. :-) Hope we'll cross paths sometime this winter with two of our most favorites releasing new albums. Love to you and yours.
Hello, it's me, Ruby Jane.To those who don't know me, I am a 14 year old fiddler, songwriter. I have some songs posted that are fresh out of the studio. Let me know if you like the new songs..be one of the first to hear, even before they are released!Thanks! new videos too! Ruby Jane
We have'nt spoken in a while, but you as a friend are still in my memories as a beautiful person. I wish you on this Mother's day everything that will be good for you and more. Let this day be beautiful in all ways.
Its been forever since I've been in touch... Shame on me... I hope things are great for you now that you're back home! I promise a long email to get you caught up on things! Take care and have a wonderful Easter.<br /><br />Rossie
Hi Willa,
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<br />It's been awhile since I dropped by, but I thought of you today and thought I'd say hello. Hope you are well and happy and enjoying life....
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<br />Arlene Faith
Haha. Thank you Granny. I just bought it about two weeks ago. I love it. And im really sorry to hear about your wreck but its good to know that you're ok. I love you very much too and i hope i get to see you soon!
Older than dirt, huh? Nah -- you're too lovely for that, both inside and out. Hope you had a spectacular birthday and are enjoying your time with Sharon! Hugs and smiles to you both. :-)
Oh Willa you and yours are certainly going through the wars.. hopefully all is well with sis now and the road to recovery is a very short road..cul de sac even:)