As a top... Hearing someone beg me for just a little more as I look into their eyes and see just how exquisitely close to their outer edge of endurance they are...
then taking them just that one step closer and feeling the heat and energy that we generate there together while sharing erotic energy, deep connection, and breath. Whew!
I also enjoy and crave submitting in the moment to an equally skilled and powerful dominant man that intuitively understands how to take me to my edges and can handle the kind of intense energy and passion that I enjoy playing with. Intensity that opens you completely .. disolving the ego and laying you bare and vulnerable ... yet powerful in that vulnerability. And I adore complete and total transparent honesty. :)
As both a dominant and as a submissive / masochist.. I always crave intense and extraordinary experiences with like minded equals.
I have very eclectic tastes in music and place high value on its use in setting the mood and background sound track to a scene.
Some of my current favorite artists to scene and make love to include: Evanescense, Rasa, Dead Can Dance, Delerium, Anugama, and Rusted Root!
Movies
Too many to list off hand .. but "The Secret" and "What the Bleep do we Know" immediately come to mind. Hmm sappy movies like "Pay it Forward" make me happy. Perhaps I will add more another time.
I also have quite "a thing" for Johnny Depp and own well over a dozen of his. ..
Television
I honestly do not watch much TV although I do enjoy catching "House" when I am home and remember to flip the tube on. Generally, I can find far more entertaining things to do in the evening that "veg" in front of the "tube".
Books
Many and varied interests here as well.. perhaps I will give more details another time but a few on my current favorite authors are David Deida, Deepak Chopra, Don Miguel Ruiz, Wayne Dyer and Esther & Jerry Hicks.
I also have a vast "kink library" and collect books on massage techniques and tantric sex as well.
Heroes
My 4 year old God daughter ... she reminds me that we generally take life far too seriously than is good for us.
Enjoy it while you can and dance and play and be as joyous as you can possibly stand to be! (and then some)
About me: Notice- I don't check this page anymore .. if you are kinky look for me on Fetlife .. if you aren't we have notheing to talk about anyway .. be well! SS
I am a lifestyle switch, BDSM educator, professional dominant and "Sacred Intimate" with many years of experience in a wide array of BDSM lifestyle and "scene play" activities. Yes, I am a very "kinky girl" and proud of it!
I am also a very complex woman that enjoys a fabulously wide array of other interests both in and out of "the Scene". I am fascinated by the delicious balance of Yin and Yang energies that make the Universe such an amazing place to inhabit and explore. As I learn more about Taoist practices, I am discovering that I keenly interested and becoming more attuned to how these complimentary yet opposing forces play out between myself and others, especially in sexual relationships.
This may help to explain my love of the Hindu and Indian Dieties on this page. Shiva represents to me, that "eternal masculine consciousness" that can be present and undisturbed in the face of feminine chaos. He is sexy in his deliberate calm demeanor, focussed and creative, intellectual yet powerful and virile.
Just as the feminine nature is to shift and move with her emotions, his concorts, the many faces of the Goddess vary with the legends. I see parts of all of them with in me.
Kali - fierce, powerful and at times wrathful and cruel. She is the dark feminine Goddess of destruction. Parvati - who so adored him that she devoted herself to proving her love and thereby being permitted to serve him. Shakti - sensual and loving, well known for her association with all things sexual. There are many other faces of the Goddess of course, and if you are lucky, you shall meet them all in your lifetime and each one will serve you well in all her own way.
My special interests and talents (both as a top and as a bottom) include sensual sadism, especially the skilled use of single tails, canes, needles, geni / nipple torture and other delightfully painful activities.
I love ecstatic suffering. Willingly surrendering your / myself to feed the sadistic demons that dwell with in a trusted partner, to explore the darkest places that live in each of us with out fear and shame, to lustfully and lovingly embrace your monsters to me is one of the greatest gifts two people can offer one another.
I am also an avid bondage enthusiast (again top & bottom)and while I do LOVE tightly confining leather gear nothing compares to rope for me! Ohhh I just can't get enough of incredibly detailed decorative rope work, tight confining bands of hemp on flesh especially japanese shibari style, suspension and wicked predicament bondages.
I have one very special friend in my life that has taught me more about the joys of surrendering to another in rope in the last year, than I had ever imagined before. Thank you "Mac" and I love to be "high" in your hemp. ..
Shibaricon is my favrotite event of the year and I look forward to sharing rope space with my fellows enthusiasts every Memorial Day weekend. Check them out: Shibaricon
Here is a sample of one of my favorite ties and my own first efforts at erotic photography:
I have a house full of extremely well equipped playrooms and probably a hell of a lot more equipment than I actually have room for some days but that sure doesn't keep me away from shopping!! (ha ha I LOVE to shop but then that is a very feminine trait isn't it?)
This photo is of one of my favorite rooms that I call "My Temple Space"
Who I'd like to meet:
I get approached mostly by male submissives and while I do see male submissives professionally, submissive men do not sexually turn me on,(sorry guys)! Please DO NOT ask to serve me as a submissive or slave unless you are willing and able to see me professionally. In other words.. I ONLY see submissive men on a professionasl basis! Sorry guys!
I currently have a primary love interest in my life and I am not seeking to replace him. He understands that I enjoy "bottoming" to others on occasion and we have agreements about what parameters that can occur in. I very much enjoy sharing erotic experiences with strong masculine energy, especially intensely focussed, highly skilled & creative dominants that enjoy topping firey & powerful feminine energy. While I can be very submissive to the right kind of man, I am very particular about who I submit or bottom to. I mainly seek spritually evolved and very self aware men with whom to share intimate experiences of a depthful and intense nature.
This is my favorite video I have ever seen on the web. I swear it has drawn a tear from me at least a dozen different times that I have watched it and I hope that the "Free Hugs Campaign" continues to spread across the world! Give some one a hug today!
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