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  • 36 / Female
  • Jersey City, New Jersey, US
  • Last Login: 6/23/2009

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Interests

  • General


    Reading, writing, music, clubbing/dancing, watching movies, spending time with my family and friends, debating/discussing politics and current events, photography/art/fashion, spending time in the city
  • Music


    All kinds, but I love Stevie Wonder, Chaka Khan, Erykah Badu, Talib Kweli, the Roots, Jill Scott, Common, Kanye West, Jay-Z, Fred Hammond, Kirk Franklin, Lalah Hathaway...and the list goes on and on...

    Jay-Z - American Dreamin Live (American Gangster)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHVihXRCfAE

    One of the greatest...



    Lalah hathaway - Tragic Inevitability
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rzE0ADNT9h8

    LH is one of my favorite artists/musicians. She bucks every R&B trend and still has a devoted fan base. The song's haunting arrangement and her smoky sultry lyrics had me in tears one night...and that's when I realized that everything had changed.



    Floetry - Say yes
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ql9gtxs8jUc

    Floetry - Say yes

    Grown and sexy. That's all that needs to be said.



    Anthony David - Words feat. India.Arie
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHc_fQZkIUY

    ACEY DEUCY in stores June 24th

    sweet song...i love Anthony David. Such a sexy Black man.

  • Movies

    I'm a movie junkie, so there are too many to mention...so I don't wanna bore you with my list.
  • Television

    Nip/Tuck, Law and Order (the original, SVU, CI/Major Case Squad), CSI, Andromeda, Battlestar Galactica, Enterprise, Grey's Anatomy, House, Boston Legal, the Avatar, Batman - the Animated Series, Mad Men...
  • Books

    The Bible, but that's not all. I'll work on this later.
  • Heroes

    My kids - they inspire me and keep me focused on what is most important in life...also women who wear high heels all the time - I don't know how they do it...

Details

  • Status: Married
  • Here for: Networking, Friends
  • Hometown: Chicago - the Windy City...the one and only
  • Orientation: Straight
  • Body type: 5' 10" / More to love!
  • Ethnicity: Black / African descent
  • Religion: Protestant
  • Zodiac Sign: Virgo
  • Children: Proud parent
  • Smoke / Drink: No / No
  • Education: Grad / professional school
  • Occupation: Project Officer

Schools

Networking

Companies

  • A health plan

    • NYC, NY US
    March 2007-present

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About me:




Originally from Chicago


Escaped from St. Louis


Moved to New York


Living in Jersey


Always reppin' the Chi'


Loving my life


What about you????


You are born under the sign of the Rat and your element is Water


Your personality is secretive and mysterious and you prefer to take action behind the scenes rather than to reveal your plans and ambitions. You are sensitive to the slightest interpersonal flaw and you display a great deal of caution in your affairs.


Besides, you do not like the crowd and the hustle and bustle. You prefer a more intimist atmosphere where your qualities can be fully expressed. Better than anyone, you know how to face adversity, subtly getting round obstacles and manipulating your entourage, if necessary. You are awesome in situations of crisis: thanks to your perspicacity, you avoid tricks with disconcerting ease and you also happen to be Machiavellian and scheming.


You never totally open up because you believe that it would give other people the means to act against you! On the other hand, you have mastered the art of making your interlocutors reveal what they wanted to conceal. Actually, you only need a word to guess the underlying stakes of any situation.


On the chapter of your flaws, a weak moral sense is to be mentioned: you do not hesitate to show perfidy. However, your advices prove very judicious most of the time. This is the reason why your influence is considered beneficial.


Chinese astrology has five elements, which are referred to as agents: Wood, Fire, Earth, Metal and Water.


You have a deep affinity with the agent Water. In China, this element corresponds to the planet Mercury, the black colour and the number 6.


You are particularly sensitive to your surroundings, the atmosphere of a place and the climate of a meeting. Your high receptivity allows you to perceive naturally the stakes underlying people and situations.


You are reserved by nature, you favour emotions and inner life, leaving challenges and audacity to other people. You frequently maintain a certain distance and you share your true feelings with few intimate friends only. It is probably because you know that genuine communication is a difficult exercise.


Everything in your realm is sheer subtlety and nuance. The danger is that you may escape realities and indulge in indolence without fulfilling your responsibilities. This is the other side of the coin of your extraordinary sensitivity and your exceptional clear-sightedness.


You feel in tune with few people. However, this selectivity forges relationships that are long-lasting because they are natural and genuine.


Virgo Woman
August 24 TO September 23
Slogan: I Serve, Therefore I am.



GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS:


In the main, most Virgo women are very hardworking and diligent girls.Their work and vocation are extremely important to them and by nature they are always searching for new avenues in order to improve their position in life The sign of Virgo provides a person with many skills with which to successfully meet life’s challenges. The Virgo girl has an extremely ever active mind that, at times can prevent her from relaxing or indeed, being able to fall asleep.


In keeping with her Gemini counterparts, the sign of Virgo is also ruled by Mercury, referred to as the mental planet.


This quality can present some problems at time as she can be far too “Fault Finding” both with herself and with others. The Virgo woman can just as easily discover a hole in your judgment or logic as she can spot one in your sock! The wise Virgo woman however, is far more aware of abundance rather than lack of it, of opportunity rather than restriction, and how to generate improvement rather than create dissension.


The sign Virgo rules the digestive system and, the Virgo girl can be extremely choosy about what and how she eats. Her Diet, Food, and health are very important to the Virgo woman and, since the Virgo’s stomach and intestines are particularly sensitive, she should never eat meals at a time when she might be emotionally upset.


While the wise and mature Virgo woman is highly discerning about just everything in life, the immature Virgin can rank among the most wasteful and self-indulgent of women.


MONEY & FINANCES:


Although the sign of Virgo relates to the time of harvest and is therefore naturally oriented to the concept of material surplus, many Virgos tend to believe that they are closer to the chasm of destitution than to the horn of plenty. Major life concerns for the Virgo girl tend to centre on her vocation and her money. What follows is an ancient secret truth that if mastered by the Virgo woman will lead her to total financial security—”Energy follows thought.” The Virgo woman must to learn how to master her own mind in order that she can program her own prosperity and not detract from it.


PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS:


The Virgo woman relates very well with a partner who has a strong personal plan and, who intends to get ahead and succeed in life. She cannot abide and will not tolerate lazy and shiftless people, and irrespective of how sexually attracted she may be to someone; she will not remain in any relationship for too long with any person who has little economic or social potential for success. The Virgo woman can be very fastidious as to with whom she relates and would prefer to go out with friends or, even stay home to work on one of her numerous projects, than to go out with person that she considers unworthy. The Virgo woman tends to be faithful in marriage, will be very supportive and very much a wonderful friend throughout. Scorpio, Cancer, Capricorn and Taurus are signs that relate very well with Virgo. On a lesser scale Aquarius, Aries, Libra and Leo formulate good friendships. Those of signs Sagittarius and Pisces can prove difficult, as can Gemini and other Virgos at times.


How to win back a Virgo


December 4, 2006 by Jeffrey Kishner


Have you lost a Virgo? Do you want to win him back? Then all you have to do is be perfect. Obviously, he left you because you were somehow inefficient.
The first thing you need to do is take a fearless inventory of yourself, and identify all of your human flaws. Then eradicate them.
It could be that you did not improve in the face of his relentless criticism. Don’t get me wrong, I know you tried, but surely you missed a spot [on the dishes/his favorite shirt]. You might not have seen it, but he did. You see, that’s your problem — you just don’t see.
What? I’m sounding like the Virgo who dumped you? Stop being so sensitive! Here I am, telling you how to rid yourself of all your imperfections, and you complain! No wonder he left you!


Cancer Rising and Moon in Sagittarius


Your Moon in Sagittarius suggests that your psychic and intuitional senses are very open and active. (Also, you have much more sensitivity to others' troubles than the average Moon in Sagittarius person. You are not as relentlessly upbeat and jolly, not such a party animal, and not as outgoing). Your need for freedom may conflict with your desire for security or your devotion to your children and family's needs.


Venus in Leo


When Venus in Leo people are in love, they are proud, even boastful. This position of Venus can turn humble Virgo Suns or retiring Cancer Suns into somewhat demanding lovers. Venus in Leo loves to court and be courted, and they need to feel very special. They are warm, generous, and even grand. Though really quite loyal to their partners (remember that love is THE most important thing in Leo's life), they thrive on attention from the opposite sex. Be prepared for their displays: they will tell you about any advances members of the opposite sex make on them. Remember, they're just showing off to you, and it's likely harmless. It's a different story if you do the same, however. That's when you'll hear the lion roar...and, no doubt, you'll want to keep these cats purring. Venus in Leo wants to appear experienced in love, even if they have little or no experience whatsoever!


Venus in Leo men and women have high expectations, but once you know that these expectations revolve only around how much attention you are giving them, you'll see that they are really quite big-hearted about most everything else. They are threatened by a relationship that appears to have settled too much, or one that's lost its spark. They are also threatened by indifferent or impersonal behavior on your part.


Although their needs for physical expression through sex are generally quite strong, their need for love is perhaps even stronger. It is hard for Venus in Leo people to separate love and sex, and even their most erotic fantasies are infused with love and affection. For this reason, few Venus in Leo folk would last long in a relationship that is mostly sexual. On the flip side, they may last longer in a love-only relationship in the absence of satisfying sex, but they are unlikely to feel very satisfied.


Pleasing Venus in Leo involves paying loads of attention to them. If you're willing to make only one adjustment in your ways, it should be to remind Leo how wonderful they are. Respect and appreciate them, always. Put up with their childlike moments and their tall tales. They want to be seen as attractive by you, so avoid (at all costs!) putting them down in this area. They actually lose interest when they perceive the slightest loss of interest in their partner, and you can expect that any letdown will be acted out in a dramatic fashion. Remind them, in a gentle way, that your emotions count too. If you are feeling a little jealous, let them know. Remember, to Venus in Leo, your small jealousies are affirmations that you find them attractive and expect the rest of the world to as well. Let them decide where to go on a date, and let them pay too. When Venus in Leo feels loved and appreciated, they reward you with loyalty, a big sense of fun, and plenty of physical expressions of their love.


My Personal Ad Bio: "I'm warm-hearted and fun. I'm funny, and experienced. Let me show you a good time."


Mars in Virgo


These productive and busy people are goal-oriented, practical people. Although they can be a little scattered at times, simply because they are doing so many things at any give time, Mars in Virgo natives get things done—quite well! They have a knack for handling a wide variety of tasks at once, and a tendency to take on perhaps too much at the same time.


Most Mars in Virgo natives are not particularly aggressive by nature. Although they can be a little hard-nosed and critical at times, they rarely resort to pushing others around. Still, an annoyed Mars in Virgo native can be difficult to be around! Arouse their anger and they turn into complaining, over-critical nags. Generally, these natives don't make themselves nuisances, so this stage is unlikely to last for very long. It is a sensitive position, however. It doesn't take much to make these people nervous.


Mars in Virgo people are quite protective about their "system" for getting things done. Although rather humble in a general life sense, they can be quite particular about their methods—how they organize and accomplish their goals, mostly with work. Theirs is a nervous energy. Although they have some staying power, they can be restless and are not given to sticking with the same projects for too long.


These natives derive plenty of energy and life force from the things they do—their work, hobbies, and any kind of projects they take on. An idle Mars in Virgo native is a sorry sight, indeed. Fidgety, nervous, worried...all of these things are a sure sign that Mars in Virgo people have either too little to do, or far too much on their plates. There is a perfectionist at the heart of all people with this position. They'll be the first to deny this, but it's there! They worry when they are not producing anything, and they worry about whether what they've produced will measure up.


An earthy and sometimes nervous sexuality generally characterizes people with this position of Mars. In a sense, their performance in bed is similar to their work. These people want to be good at what they do. They will generally be open to experimentation, if only to feed their curiosity and to feel savvy. There's often a shy and humble side to Mars in Virgo in any area that involves putting themselves out there and letting go (areas ruled by Mars). But experience and knowledge are important to these natives, and this drive generally wins over their natural reticence.


When Mars is in Virgo, there is generally a healthy attitude towards sex. Sex to them is a bodily function, necessary for health and general well-being. Everyday stresses and tensions are released in sex, whether it's with others or with themselves. They are turned on by people who have largely gone unnoticed. Simple and sweet is the way they like their bed partners. They also get turned on by the idea that they are your slave. They love doing little things for you, and get worked up when they know you appreciate all the things they do. They can be a little insecure about their own bodies, and they make up for it by paying close attention to their methods of turning you on. They are very respectful of your likes and dislikes, and focus on the things that have had the most success. Virgo is the sign of the virgin, and this aspect gives others the idea that they are very selective. Don't be entirely fooled by this, however. They are not as picky as they appear. In fact, they love imperfections and have the best time with a partner who needs care. They'll make a project out of you, and you will likely never feel quite so attended to with anyone else. Their fantasies often feature the downtrodden and inexperienced. They are insatiably curious about sex, although many don't take their curiosity much beyond fantasy. Voyeurism is especially appealing to these lovers. We are giving Virgo a little more attention than other signs simply because we feel this sign has been misunderstood on the topic of sex. They are generally not as picky and particular as their reputation says—and they are not as "virginal" either. In fact, they want to please and to be savvy in the lovemaking arena. They'll generally "do" more than many other signs, and they're not afraid of getting dirty either, within the confines of a healthy relationship.


LIFE PATH 5


The key to your personality is freedom. You love travel, adventure, variety and meeting new people. You possess the curiosity of a cat, and you long to experience all of life. You love to be involved in several things at the same time, as long as you are not tied down to any one area.


You like change, new things and new horizons. You can make friends easily, and your personality is upbeat and often inspiring, attracting people form all walks of life.


You have a way with words, and an uncanny ability to motivate others. Highly suitable vocations for you include sales, promotion, entertainment, investment, science, medicine, the occult, public service an all careers that require travel and verbal skills. A person with 5 Life Path is often comfortable in front of an audience particularly as master of ceremonies or in comedy.


You are sensual and you love to taste all of life. You find it difficult to commit to one relationship, but once you committed, you can be faithful as an old dog.


You likely lack discipline and order. You can also be impulsive, doing or expressing things you regret later. Freedom and a need for adventures sometimes are not properly controlled y those born with this life path, which can cause problems with drug abuse, overindulgence in food or sex, or general abuse of the gift of life. You are multitalented and posses a variety of diverse abilities. However, discipline and focus are the true keys to your success. Without these, many of the tasks you begin will remain unfinished and they will fail to realize the true fruits of your abilities. With hard work and perseverance, the sky is the limit.


You may have been perceived as a wild child by adults and a source of concern by your family. However, do not be obliged to hurry your choice of career. You are often a late bloomer, and you need to experience life before you can truly know and commit to your heart's desire.


Your challenge is to learn the true meaning of freedom. Change is constant in your world, requiring adaptability and courage. Try to maintain an exercise program, keep your body in shape and limber. The flexibility and durability of your body will promote security and confidence within you.


You yearn for freedom, and self-employment attracts you powerfully. Your challenge is to settle into one area in order to cultivate your ability sufficiently to earn a living and to attain success. Once you find the niche, the motivation and inspiration you supply to others will bring you much in return. You will find your friends and colleges supporting and promoting you in the road of success.


The Panther
The name panther is often associated with a particular species of leopard or jaguar and sometimes the cougar. The black panther is smaller but more fierce than lions and tigers. They are agile climbers and excellent swimmers. Because they can sprint with great speed they hold the teachings of quick decisive action.


Panthers have over 400 voluntary muscles that can be used at will when the need arises. This symbolizes an ability to shape shift realities using all parts of the body to perform a task. They can move gracefully in and out of situations as well as freeze and not be noticed. Because the panther is not a good long distant runner those with this medicine should incorporate movement therapies into their life that enhance endurance. They need to learn how to pace themselves and not push to fast or hard on any one task.


The power of the panther is the power of silence. It is extremely quiet when hunting or stalking. It knows when to make its presence known and when to become invisible. The panther holds the secrets of unseen worlds and is associated with lunar energies. Within the darkness of night lies the truth of creation. Those with this totem hold knowledge of a galactic origin. They have a responsibility to care take this knowledge and caution must be applied when sharing it with others. When the student is ready the teacher appears. If the student isn't ready the information received could be detrimental.


Panthers have acute sensitivity. The hairs on its body especially on the face pick up subtle vibrations. This is symbolic for those with this totem. It indicates a need to pay attention to their feelings and honor the messages those feelings convey. Touch can be an important avenue to explore to awaken ones hidden gifts. The black panthers coat, sleek, smooth and sensual has been linked to sexuality. When panther appears in a persons life it might be asking you to resolve old sexual issues or to embrace your sexuality fully.


The black panther has great mysticism associated with it. It represents the life and power of the night. It can show us how to embrace the darkness and awaken the light within it. When you experience the presence of panther one of its most noticeable features is its unblinking stare. It appears to see right through the body. Those with this medicine use their eyes as a healing tool and have the potential to heal on a cellular level.


Author Ted Andrews states that in Egyptian rituals a panther tail was worn around the neck or waist to help protect and strengthen the individual. It has been a symbol of the "Argos of a Thousand Eyes," who guarded the heifer IO who was loved by Zeus. After his death, the eyes were transferred to the feathers of the peacock. A powerful totem to have the panther always brings a guardian energy to those to whom it comes.


Black “Panther” is actually Jaguar with melanistic (black) coloration. Quite frequent in Jaguars, the black color helps Them hide more effectively in the dark jungles. Forest (dark) Jaguars are usually smaller in size than Golden Jaguars.


To the Aztecs, Black “Panther” saw the shadow inside every being. He represented the Great Smoking Mirror. In this role, He foretold the future, kept Time, and was the Gatekeeper to the Unknownable.


Black “Panther’s” Wisdom Includes: The Shadow Self
Nexus of Time
Walk Without Fear in Other Realms
Knowledge of Prophecy




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Who I'd like to meet:

People who love life and aren't afraid of the truth/people who are secure in who they are/people who don't get off on tearing others down to feel better about themselves/people who aren't wrapped up in materialistic, vain pursuits/people who love to laugh and have a good time




Estelle - American Boy ft. Kanye West
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WDJwVHB-bEw

I'd like to meet lots and lots of handsome sexy boyz - race and nationality unimportant. lol



Dwele "Sketches of A Man" album preview
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dLIQMa-rCRc

I love me some Dwele. MMMMMMM chocolate. And his lyrics are so soulful and contemporary...he actually gets it right. I ain't no damn groupie, but I probably would act a fool if I did meet him. Sorry.

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  • Apr 28 2009 1:22 PM

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    MyHotComments Thanks for adding me as your friend Sweetie Pie!
  • Apr 10 2009 5:32 PM

    You're very welcome!!!
  • Apr 10 2009 2:54 AM

    Dropping a lil sunshine on ur page!!!! Luv Ya Sis!!!! I hope you feel better!!!
  • Apr 2 2009 8:03 PM

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  • Apr 2 2009 12:53 AM

    woo woo woo! feel better.
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  • Mar 10 2009 9:29 PM

    Hey Hey Heeeyyy!!

    Passing by to show some love. I talk about success all the time, however, let’s not rule out failure. Failure teaches people many more things than success ever can. If you’re failing or struggling at the moment, don’t feel depressed. You should actually be happy because there’s something to learn from your experience. I’m who I am today because I fought through the failure and struggle. There may be more to come for me; however, I’m always prepared mentally to go through it all. Remember; keep your eyes on the prize, “Tunnel Vision”. There will be distractions, but hey – There’s no Challenge too great. God will never give you more than you can handle.


    P.s. “If another person can do it, you can too!!!”


    With kindest regards,

    Robins aka “D” Motiv8or
  • Mar 5 2009 4:38 AM

    WHICH ONE ......WATS GOING ON??????
  • Mar 2 2009 2:19 AM

    yea its me and that was not the look i was going for
  • Feb 7 2009 3:40 PM

    Hey there Cuz, Stopping by to say hi. I hope you have a wonderful weekend.

    ~Anna
  • Jan 2 2009 5:53 AM

    Hey sweetie... Happy New Year!!!!!
  • Dec 30 2008 5:16 AM

    Hello There,

    I wanted to stop by to wish you and yours a Happy New Year. Take care and make every minute count for 2009. Stay Blessed


    Warmest regards,

    Robins aka “D” Motiv8or
  • Nov 30 2008 6:58 PM

    Hey there cousin,

    I hope that you had a wonderful Thansgiving Holiday weekend. Thanks for thinking of me on the Holiday. Love you lots!!!!

    Miracles & Blessings,
    Anna
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  • Nov 14 2008 7:03 PM

    hey there! how are you doing?
  • Nov 3 2008 9:05 PM

    Hey Cousin. Just thought I'd stop by and say Hello. I hope all is well on your end. Love You.

    ~Anna
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  • Sep 18 2008 3:27 AM

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  • Sep 16 2008 3:57 AM

    Happy Birthday Cousin... I didnt forget about you . Love you lots. Hope that you had a fabulous birthday.

    ~AM
  • Sep 15 2008 10:44 PM

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  • Aug 30 2008 2:37 PM

    Hwy "T" , I hope that you all are enjoying this holiday weekend. Sending you some Sunny Cali Love..

    Your Cuz,
    AM
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  • Jul 20 2008 10:10 PM

    Hey Cuz, not much happening on my end. Just got home from church and singing all morning in the Choir. Yeah, I know I need to hit up that side of the coast and see how you all are holding it down. LOL, Love you all !!!!!

    ..AM
  • Jul 4 2008 10:48 PM

    not much just working alot and enjoying life.
    How are your sisters doing?