
I love to laugh!

I'm just an average woman making my way through the days. I enjoy a simple fun life.
Here are some cool links:
Aaron's Alley - Concert tickets connection
Big City Summerfest
Blue Girl Productions
The Bug Jar
City Newspaper
City of Rochester Events
Dinosaur Bar-B-Que
Discover Rochester Magazine
East End
Freetime
Insider
Lilac Festival
Lightning Ridge
Lux
Main Street Armory
Memorial Art Gallery
Montage Live Music Hall
Monty's Krown
The Penny Arcade
ROCKchesterHEADBANGERSAnonymous
Roc Wiki
RochesterHappyHour.com
Rochester Music Coalition
RMC on Myspace
Rochester Underground
Seneca Park Zoo
Taste of Rochester
TiLT Night Club & Ultralounge
Water Street Music Hall
WBER
WCMF Calendar
Vertex
Go check them out and see what's happening around town!!
This list I need to keep handy:
Music Genres defined on Wikipedia
My friend's adult merchandise biz.
Mike Montrois
jerry vogel
M M
Honey Girl
terry Hartleben
Yvette Simons
I enjoy the usual - hanging out with friends, music, food, fitness, art, books and movies.
Hugh Downs ~ "A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes."
Drink wine, this is life eternal.
This, all that life can give to you.
It is the season for wine, roses, and drunken friends.
Be happy for this moment,
This moment is your life.
~ from The Rubaiyat by Omar Khayam
I believe we make our own happiness. You might hear me say "I'm the happiest person you know." And you'll certainly hear my favorite saying, from time to time, "Do whatever you want". I'm a firm believer in the value of individuality!

above is Ozzy & Me in 1982
Concerts and the local music scene have always been a big part of my social life.
I love lots of heavy metal - especially LIVE! At home and at work, I often listen to other genres (even mellow stuff).
Alice Cooper was always one of my faves + other classic rock, southern rock, rockabilly, punk, some techno, drum & bass,
ambient. MOBY!
I like about half of the jazz that I've heard; Pat Metheny, Miles Davis - good shit! I even enjoy wimpy oldies, soft rock, blues or country sometimes. Hippie music in the summertime. Depends on my mood, where I am and what I'm doing.


My favorite Big Bang Theory quote so far (that show makes me LOL, for real!): Sheldon: "While I do not currently have a scathing retort, you check your email periodically for a doozy!"
I need some good books lately - any suggestions?
Stephen King
Tom Robbins
Dean Koontz
J.R.R. Tolkien
Nora Roberts
Tad Williams
Watership Down ~ by Richard Adams
Backstage Passes ~ by Angela Bowie
I'm with the Band ~ by Pamela DesBarres
Any Rock and Roll or Groupie stories
I always read lots of true-crime and war stories too.

Here is one of the few great old poems that I can truly appreciate. It has long been my favorite and references a painting that I also love.
Musee des Beaux Arts
Enjoy
by W.H. Auden
About suffering they were never wrong
the old Masters: how well they understood
it's human position; how it takes place
while someone else is eating or opening a window
or walking dully along
how, when the aged are reverently, passionately waiting
for the miraculous birth, there always must be
children, who did not specially want it to happen, skating
on a pond at the edge of the wood:
they never forgot
that even the dreadful martyrdom must run its course
anyhow in a corner, some untidy spot
where the dogs go on with their doggy life and the torturer's
horse
scratches its innocent behind on a tree
In Brueghel's Icarus for instance: how everything
turns away
quite leisurely from the disaster; the ploughman
may
have heard the splash, the forsaken cry,
but for him it was not an important failure; the sun shone
as it had to on the white legs disappearing into the green
water; and the expensive delicate ship that must have seen
something amazing, a boy falling out of the sky,
had somewhere to get to and sailed calmly on.
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This poem was dedicated to a lost friend, Adam. It makes me think of art and death. It was also featured as a prelude in the book of one of my favorite movies 'The Man Who Fell to Earth'.
