"This is my one and only life and it's a great and terrible and short and endless thing and none of us come out of it alive"
"Faith is knowing that if you must step off a cliff, either a step will appear or you will be taught how to fly"
"There is no past tense in loving someone. Either you DO or you never did"
"Years from now, I won't remember every Friday night, or the things that made us laugh until our stomachs hurt. I will remember that YOU were the ones who were there"
"It's only when we truly know and understand that we have a limited time on earth and that we have no way of knowing when our time is up, that we truly begin to live life to the fullest, as if it were the only one we had"
"I didn't mean to fall in love, but I did. You didn't mean to love back but I know you did"
"I was born to tell you I love you"
Tears are the silent language of grief ~ Voltaire
The risk of love is loss, and the price of loss is grief
But the pain of grief
Is only a shadow
When compared with the pain
Of never risking love. ~ Hilary Stanton Zunin
Movies
Catch and Release, P.S. I love you, Over Her Dead Body, Just Like Heaven, To Gillian on 37th Birthday, A Walk to Remember, The Notebook, Conversations With God
The Bible, Widow to Widow, I'm Grieving As Fast As I Can
Heroes
God, my soulmate, our soldiers, mothers, fathers, people who try to help others, everyone on here who gets up everyday and LIVES another day even when they are hurting so much in side and it would be easier to not to get up at all... Bless you all for you are all heroes!
The Widow Hood's Details
Status:
Single
Zodiac Sign:
Libra
The Widow Hood ~Take these broken wings and learn to fly again~ Posted at 12:58 AM Apr 22 view more
Who I'd like to meet: Widows and Widowers to share our stories and have someone to talk to when others just don't understand... No you are not going crazy, you are just grieving...
We are all experiencing the loss of a loved one. While they may have left us in different ways, at different times... some recently, some long ago. We continue to love them and miss them.
If you want to add a special song on our music player, please send me an email or comment... this page is for US... to help us get through the tough times that we must face. So we do not have to face them alone.
I hope you find a little hope and inspiration here. I hope that we can find a way to get through our most trying times together.
Sincerely,
The Widow Hood
So you think that it's over Say your love has finally reached the end Anytime you call Night or day I'll be right there for you If you need a friend Yeah It's gonna take a little time Time is sure to mend your broken heart Don't you even worry Pretty darlin' I know you'll find love again
Yeah Love is all around you Love is knocking outside the door Waitin' for you Is this love made just for two Keep an open heart and you'll find love again I know Love is all around you yeah Love is knocking outside the door Waitin' for you Is this love made just for two Keep an open heart and you'll find love again I know
jump around..........
Love will find a way Darlin' Love is gonna find a way Find it's way back to you Love will find a way So look around Open your eyes Love is gonna find a way Love is gonna Love is gonna find a way Love will find a way Love's gonna find a way Back to you Yeah I know I know I know I know
i am lost. i feel insane, i don't want to leave my house. i feel angry and afraid. it was so sudden, and i suppose he thought he had many years to plan. life insurance is minimal. i can't even keep my house clean. i have two teenage boys who i have every other week. i'm supposed to stay strong for them. but sometimes i fall apart. i needed to come up with a plan. a plan so that i can keep my house and take care of my boys future. they found him. why would god let that happen. it was horrific. the only plan i could come up with is to go back to school, so when i finish they will hopefully let me refinance. my husband swithched to a 15 year mortgage so the house would be paid for by the time we retired. now i am stuck with a mortgage i can't afford and the won't put it back to a 30 because of income. it will hopefully work (my plan). i will go to school for 11 months and then be near $20.00 per hour. then they may let me refinance. meanwhile, the minimal life insurance will be used to pay the mortgage, cobra health insurance, utilities, car payments- basically all living expenses. i don't know why i am writing all of this. you all have your own problems and grieving. just tell me i'm not crazy. it's only been a month and a half, but sometimes it feels forever ago...
I lost my father (my hero) 3 years ago Dec 9th. Now my husband died of a heart attack on Nov. 30th 2008. I am completely lost, but somone did send me this poem:
Death is God carrying us in one arm while the other flings aside heaven's door to welcome us back to the blazing hearth of our first home,while those inside, having arrived before us, rush to the door like glad children shouting "They're here, they're here!"
Death has a bad name on earth but in heaven it's a homecoming party everytime the door opens.
God does not forget those earthbound children, sad and left behind. God leaves the party early to enter into their despair and to get them ready for their own parties someday.
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Just me, Suzie, chiming in to say HELLO. Hope everyone has a nice weekend. Weather beautiful in Northern Cal, and I just finished mowing the lawn and washing the truck. I call those, "MAN CHORES", but I certainly don't mind doing them. Beats vacuuming!!! Best to all, -Suz~~Widoed in 2004. I miss you, RJ; especially on the weekends. Hi Paola!!! Love you...
Death is not something to be feared. It is part of life. We all know we are going to die one day. But knowing that doesn't necessarily ease the pain when we lose someone we love. But we can get through it... with love.
