The Worst

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  • The Worst

  • 27 / Female
  • ASTORIA, New York, US
  • Last Login: 7/10/2009

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Interests

  • General

    Are there gender norms for grief expression? How can we deconstruct them? Does mainstream culture allow us to process grief in a healthy way or does it make us feel like we have to hide it? How is working through grief important in combating burnout and isolation in those who work for radical change? What are positive and negative examples of reactions to your loss when you asked the radical community for support? If you are helping someone cope with a loss, what can you say or do? Can radicals benefit from keeping grief processes close to the surface and in the community's consciousness?
  • Books


    N’Drea: One Woman’s Fight to Die Her Own Way by Andrea Dorea, (available at www.eberhardtpress.org/pdf/ndrea.pdf)
    Part of Me Died, Too: Stories of Creative Survival Among Bereaved Children and Teenagers by Virginia Lynn Fry (very mainstream, yet good if you want information about how art can help young children process loss).
    Friends Make the Best Medicine by the Icarus Project
    A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius by Dave Eggers (amazing honest account of parental loss; beware of blatant “white dude” narrative voice).
    The American Way of Death by Jessica Mitford
    The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion (Ruthlessly honest account of an experience with sudden loss, although the author fails to examine her position of privilege in society and this can be frustrating).
    Another Country by James Baldwin (touches on a suicide within a tight-knit group of friends.)
    Life is Hello, Life is Goodbye by Alla Renee Bozarth
    Swimming in a Sea of Death by David Reiff (Susan Sontag’s son)
    Bridge to Terabithia by Katherine Patterson
    The Cancer Journals by Audre Lorde
    On Death and Dying by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
    The Mourner’s Dance: What we do when people die by Katherine Ashenburg
  • Heroes

    Audre Lorde!!

Blurbs

About me:

“The Worst” is a compilation zine exploring grief and loss and how they are processed by members of d.i.y and other radical communities. I am currently accepting submissions for Issue 2, which articulate your personal response to grief and loss. The optional theme for the second issue is “gathering”—how do we use space and social interaction when we grieve? How does it feel to engage with your grief process in a group? Alone? One-on-one? Are there safe vs. unsafe grief gatherings? What are some ways we can gather in our communities to acknowledge loss and support those who are grieving?

Other ideas to explore:
Barriers to grief expression
Handling multiple/simultaneous losses
Our control or lack of control over the process of dying
Talking to your family about grief, talking to your friends
Anticipatory grief: grieving for an impending loss before it occurs
Grief rituals and anniversary activities: what do you find helpful? Due date: June 1, 2009. Anonymous submissions welcome. theworstzine@gmail.com * theworstcompzine.blogspot.com * 30-42 30th St. apt 3R/Astoria, NY/11102 * or send as a myspace message.

Who I'd like to meet:

To order a copy of Issue 1: Please send $5 per copy (or $3 plus $2 in stamps) to: Kathleen McIntyre 30-42 30th St. Apt. 3R Astoria, NY 11102

Please include your return address any how many copies you want to order! If you don't have 5 bucks, send me a trade instead, or just write me a nice letter!.. .... You can also order a copy from:
strangerdangerdistro.com

papertraildistro.com

dorisdorisdoris.com

quimbys.com

microcosmpublishing.com

Comments

Displaying 23 of 23 comments
  • Jun 23 2009 1:12 AM

    are you doing a workshop at the zine fest in brooklyn this weekend? I will probably see you there!!!
  • Apr 29 2009 4:30 PM

    Thanks for the friend request! If you want to trade zines, just let me know.
  • Feb 26 2009 8:22 PM

    Thank you for this zine. When my father died I felt so alone. Reading other people's experiences, especially from the DIY radical community made me feel so connected. I tried writing something for issue #1 but never sent it. Hopefully you will see me in Issue #2. Thanks again,
    Jo.
    t Fury
  • Feb 26 2009 7:27 PM

    ‘This is Forever’: Creating Communities of Care and Movements of Self-Reproduction with Silvia Federici & Team Colors

    Tuesday, March 3rd 2009
    7pm at Bluestockings Book, Fair Trade Café & Activist Resource Center
    174 Allen St. LES ~ www. bluestockings. com

    Join the Bluestockings and the Team Colors Collective for a discussion and presentation on the current crisis of care, “creating communities of care and movements of self-reproduction”.

    For more information.
  • Sep 19 2008 6:53 PM

    YOU ARE ON FIRE!
  • Sep 14 2008 12:47 PM

    hello again! hope you are well. I still haven't put out my next issue of T.F.
    G "the baltimore" issue but am planning to get it done by the baltimore bookfair at the end of the month - and then I will send you a copy :)

    best wishes,
    c
  • Aug 21 2008 6:27 AM

    Great review!
  • Aug 21 2008 4:54 AM

    congratulations on all the awesome reviews!!!
    xoxoxoxxoxox
  • beth Online Now!

    Jul 13 2008 3:32 AM

    thank you The Worst. you have given me push in a lot more ways than you know.

  • Jul 1 2008 3:20 AM

    I received my copy of it last week. It's amazing and refreshing to read the stories of those who have lost someone they love. I wish we could all get together in a place and talk...
  • Jun 18 2008 7:18 PM

    Just got my copy of The Worst.

    I'll keep you posted on what I think, but I've read some of it, and it's amazing.

    :)
  • Jun 6 2008 4:28 AM

    Still consider it one of the best things I've ever contributed to.

  • May 23 2008 5:15 PM

    Just received my copy of The Worst, it looks great! Thank you, will have more feedback soon.

  • May 19 2008 4:08 PM

    Got it! (went to the p.o. box) I'm in the middle of reading right now - It's Beautiful!!! (will tell you more when I am done reading) Thank you so much for keeping me in mind and sending out a copy right away.

  • May 18 2008 10:53 PM

    dear the worst,

    yr the best! thanks for coming to my house the other day, it was really swell...

    love
    ali beast
  • May 18 2008 8:33 PM

  • May 16 2008 11:46 PM

    Hello Kathleen,
    How is The Worst coming along?
    I look forward to reading the first issue.

    I plan to have photos to submit for the 2nd issue.

    All the best,
    Bethanne
  • May 15 2008 10:15 PM



    Cant wait to see the WORST in all its glory!
  • Mar 27 2008 4:17 PM

    lets hang out!
  • Mar 13 2008 8:27 PM

  • Feb 29 2008 5:53 AM

    we love "the worst"
  • Feb 6 2008 11:51 PM

    hi, how are things going?
  • Oct 21 2007 6:12 PM

    READING AT BLUESTOCKINGS IS A VERY BIG DEAL. SELF PUBLISHING IS A HUGE DEAL. THE CONVERSATIONS YOU ARE STARTING ARE INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT. YOU ARE A ROCKSTAR. REMEMBER TO BREATHE. AND DEMAND MASSAGES.