Jen

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is feeling a little better emotionally but physically am SICK SICK SICK. Got inked yest.; see blog. :)Mood: awful awfulPosted at 1:23 AM Nov 16 view more

  • Jen

  • 29 / Female
  • Atlanta, Georgia, US
  • Last Login: 12/1/2009

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  • General

    Okay, hands down, this is one of the funniest things I have EVER seen in my life - set to one of the greatest songs I've ever heard. Enjoy...

    One of the best commercials ever!!

    The other best commercial ever!

    My interests are...singing, drawing and painting, decorating (eclectic cottage style, Shabby Chic, IKEA), animals, makeup, graphic design, the Jumble, psychic/supernatural stuff, reading, writing, grammar - yes, it's fun.

    I have three cats and three dogs - they're my babies. I'm with the most wonderful guy who reminds me every day that real love does exist; he is always sweet to me and his patience is seemingly endless. I love kids, and all I ever really wanted to be was a mom...I hope I can be half as good at it as mine was. But I am a busy mom to my pets and a very proud aunt!

    I have a severe addiction to buying makeup. It's like crack.

    My relationship with God is important to me. My views on certain spiritual things have changed somewhat through my life experiences and just over time, but that doesn't mean I have let go of him.

    Two of my biggest wishes for the world are for every girl and woman to be happy with herself and feel pretty, strong, confident, and capable and for all animals to be safe and loved. It makes me mad when people say, "You can't save them all." No, I can't, but I can do my part and save one or a few. Evil happens when good people do nothing.

  • Music

    The Cliks, Joy Williams, Julie Roberts, Clay Aiken, Jimmy Wayne, Faith Hill, Martina McBride, Jessica Andrews, Keith Urban, SHeDAISY, Billy Currington, Rick Trevino, Bethany Dillon, Rachael Lampa, The Wilshires, Aslyn, Ritchie Valens, Clay Crosse, Jake/TAP, Nichole Nordeman, Natalie Grant, Lari White, Abba, Tanya Gordon, Dixie Chicks, Donovan, Maroon 5, Duran Duran, Zac Brown Band, The Wreckers, Taylor Swift, OneRepublic, Jen Foster, Jessica Dunnagan, pretty much any finalist from American Idol (Brooke White rocks!). Pretty broad spectrum. I'm rediscovering a love for 60s music too.

  • Movies

    The Notebook, A Walk to Remember, An Affair to Remember, Under the Tuscan Sun, The Stepford Wives (both versions), Serendipity, The Princess Bride, Team America: World Police, Dodgeball, White Noise, What About Bob?, Office Space, Napoleon Dynamite, Dark Water, Madagascar, Oliver & Company, Aristocats, The People Under the Stairs, Much Ado About Nothing, Dead Again, Where the Heart Is, Walk the Line, Narnia, A Christmas Story, Because of Winn-Dixie, Ernest movies - know what I mean?, Airplane, Bruce Almighty, BORAT.



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  • Television

    American Idol, Roswell (why, oh WHY, did you have to end??? Thank God for Sci-Fi reruns), Ren & Stimpy, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, The Oblongs, MXC ("Right you are, Ken!"), The Office, Dog Whisperer, It's Me or the Dog, Supernatural, Veronica Mars, Charmed, Ghost Whisperer, Medium, Kyle XY, anything about the supernatural or psychic stuff, any kind of singing talent competition, decorating shows and anything on HGTV, makeover shows, and yes - I admit it - I love Matlock, Murder She Wrote, Diagnosis Murder, Perry Mason, Father Dowling, Columbo...all those cheesy murder mystery shows.

  • Books

    The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd

    Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers

    The Hiding Place by Corrie ten Boom

    Please Love Me by Keith Miller - EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO READ THIS BOOK!

    Feathers Brush My Heart by Sinclair Browning (stories of moms who contacted their daughters after their deaths)

    Motherless Daughters by Hope Edelman

    Jane Green books

    Learning to Sing by Clay Aiken

    Wicked

    Agatha Christie books and most any mystery

    Psychic stuff like Sylvia Browne

    The Secret and books like it

    Happy for No Reason by Marci Shimoff

    Between, Georgia and Gods in Alabama by Joshilyn Jackson

    The Book of Bright Ideas by Sandra Kring

    No. 1 Ladies' Detective Agency/Mma Ramotswe series by Alexander McCall Smith

    Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides

    Currently reading: a silly little mystery from the used bookstore

  • Heroes

    I really admire people who have gone through adversity but never lost hope and kept going and also people who are trying to make a positive impact on those around them. Lucas Silveira from The Cliks is a great example of both. I also admire any strong woman who is not afraid to speak her mind and have opinions. My bestest friend of over 20 years is also my hero because she has taught me a lot about being content and loving myself for who I am and because she's just plain awesome. At the risk of sounding like I'm full of myself, I'd have to say I'm somewhat of my own hero...at only 28, I've already survived a divorce...I've gone through several deaths of my pets and, of course, my mom...I won't say it's ever easy, and I don't want to make it out like I'm just so strong and tough. I couldn't have made it without God and so many people surrounding me who love me. But I could easily have shut down, and there were times when I wanted to...but I refuse to.

Details

  • Status: In a Relationship
  • Here for: Friends
  • Orientation: Straight
  • Ethnicity: White / Caucasian
  • Religion: Christian - other
  • Zodiac Sign: Leo
  • Children: Someday
  • Smoke: No
  • Occupation: graphic designer

Status and Mood

  • Jen is feeling a little better emotionally but physically am SICK SICK SICK. Got inked yest.; see blog. :)
    Mood: awful awful
    Posted at 1:23 AM Nov 16
  • Jen is mourning my sweet Buddy.
    Mood: aching aching
    Posted at 6:00 AM Nov 10
  • Jen We won the pet costume contest in our 'hood on Halloween!! Hopin to upload pics soon!
    Mood: accomplished accomplished
    Posted at 10:02 PM Nov 3
  • Jen YEAH!!!! My new Lime Crime lipsticks JUST CAME!! Pics coming soon, including "No, She Didn't," which is SKY BLUE!! Positively giddy!!!!!!!
    Mood: oh, yes, she did oh, yes, she did
    Posted at 8:01 PM Oct 29
  • Jen is excited about Halloween!!!
    Mood: spooky spooky
    Posted at 8:56 PM Oct 20

Activity Stream

Blurbs

About me:

Quit Smoking Resources (click):

American Cancer Society's Smokeout page

FREE SmokeBuster quitting kit + $10 patch coupon


I have some very strong opinions about smoking. If you watched your mom waste away from cancer far too young and knew it could have been prevented, you'd have some strong opinions about it too. I don't buy that crap that everyone has to die of something. Don't put the people you love through that. If you smoke, please do whatever it takes to quit. If you can't do it for yourself, do it for the people you would be leaving behind.

My mom passed away on Valentine's Day 2005 from lung cancer. I can't even begin to describe the pain I constantly feel. I'm only just starting to feel like I have some kind of hope again. What else can I say...it seems that lately the best way to describe myself is to talk about who I am now that I have lost her...but I also know that her unconditional love for me has and always will shape me even more than my grief.


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So if you knew about factory farms what I know about factory farms...it would make it pretty hard for you to eat meat anymore too. The animals undergo needless pain and suffering, not to mention the resulting environmental damage. Join me in saving 100 animals a year by not eating meat. For me, this is less about the moral issue of eating meat and more about not supporting an industry of cruelty.




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Somewhere out there is a unique place for you to help others - a unique life role for you to fill that only you can fill. - Thomas Kinkade

Do not look where you fell, but where you slipped. - African Proverb

Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here. - Marianne Williamson

In all people, there are two sets of feelings: one is fear, the other is love. If there is fear, then we shrink as a person. But love, wow! That can move mountains! - Jorgen Roed

Adversity is the stuff that shows whether you are what you thought you were. -American Proverb

The world is round and the place which may seem like the end may also be only the beginning. -Ivy Baker Priest

No matter what situation you are in right now, there is a purpose to that situation. By working with the specific conditions in front of you, you will begin to discover things about yourself that will give you clues to the next step. Your job will be to look, listen, feel, choose, and act. -Carol Adrienne

We enjoy warmth because we have been cold.
We appreciate light because we have been in darkness.
By the same token, we can experience joy because we have known sadness.
- David Weatherford

Do the thing you believe in. Do the best you can in the place where you are and be kind. - Scott Nearing

Live for something - do good, and leave behind you a monument of virtue that the storms of time can never destroy. - Thomas Chalmers

Charm strikes the sight, but merit wins the soul. - Alexander Pope

A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world: everyone you meet is your mirror. - Ken Keyes, Jr.

Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact. - William James

Every individual makes a difference. We cannot live through a single day without making an impact on the world around us. And we all have free choice - what sort of difference do we want to make? Do we want to make the world around us a better place? Or not? - Jane Goodall, wildlife researcher

Until he extends his circle of compassion to include all living things, man will not himself find peace. - Albert Schweitzer

I will prepare and someday my chance will come. - Abraham Lincoln

There are some things which cannot be learned quickly, and time, which is all we have, must be paid heavily for their acquiring. - Ernest Hemingway, Death in the Afternoon

When you rule your mind, you rule your world. When you choose your thoughts, you choose results. - Imelda Shanklin, writer

The happy and efficient people in this world are those who accept trouble as a normal detail of human life and resolve to capitalize on it when it comes along. - H. Bertram Lewis

The average dog is a nicer person than the average person. - Andy Rooney

There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face. - Bern Williams

Life is eternal, and love is immortal, and death is only a horizon; and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight. - Rossiter Worthington Raymond

We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. - Kenji Miyazawa

It's so curious: one can resist tears and 'behave' very well in the hardest hours of grief. But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer... and everything collapses. - Colette

You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present. - Jan Glidewell

Missing someone gets easier every day because even though it's one day further from the last time you saw each other, it's one day closer to the next time you will. - Author Unknown

I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life. Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have – life itself. - Walter Anderson


My favorite poem:

..Solace..
by Dorothy Parker

There was a rose that faded young;
I saw its shattered beauty hung
Upon a broken stem.
I heard them say, "What need to care
With roses budding everywhere?"
I did not answer them.

There was a bird brought down to die;
They said, "A hundred fill the sky-
What reason to be sad?"

There was a girl whose lover fled;
I did not wait the while they said,
"There's many another lad."..


My pirate name is: Calico Jenny Flint..

Often indecisive, you can't even choose a favorite color. You're apt to follow wherever the wind blows you, just like Calico Jack Rackham, your namesake. Like the rock flint, you're hard and sharp. But, also like flint, you're easily chipped, and sparky. Arr!

Get your own pirate name from fidius.org.


Which are you? FANTASIA

You don't apologize for anything. And why would you? You've had to battle through too many tough times to worry about what other people think of you. That's why you don't mind attention: whether it's having the cutest outfit at the party or the biggest singing voice on Idol. You never forget what matters most to you, though, and that's your loved ones. If you feel like you're not getting the respect you deserve, you can - and will - stand up for yourself. Just remember to choose your battles and save your energy for the things you truly care about.

Who I'd like to meet:

Other "motherless daughters" and people with similar interests as mine. Rap Cat. My future daughter someday. So far, the really cool famous people I've met are Joy Williams, Clay Crosse, Jaci Velasquez, Jimmy Wayne, The Wreckers, Aslyn, and Jen Foster. And Jessica Dunnagan, because she's going to be HUUUUUUUUGE someday soon. :) Oh, yeah, I also met the voice of Space Ghost (George Lowe).

I would give anything to be reunited with Lauren Maney...I've never forgotten you and will find you someday. I promise.

Pieces of Flair

Comments

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  • Oct 12 2009 9:26 PM

    Jen,
    Wanted to let you know that my debut "Like I'm Beautiful" is now available on iTunes, on sale for only $5.94!!!!

    Hope you have an amazing week!
    Be blessed,
    Kelly Murray

    PS. FEEL FREE TO FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER @KELMURRAY :)
  • Sep 28 2009 6:46 AM

    hey friend how are u doing
  • Sep 21 2009 9:33 PM

    i kno it is lol. it's from minee
  • Sep 15 2009 5:41 PM

    thnk u very much i like it a lot.
  • Sep 12 2009 3:34 PM

    I've been thinking so much about you lately and really wanting to talk to you. The kids think we talk so often. I try to tell them we don't. I'll try to call you this afternoon or evening if I can. I hope you're feeling better.
  • Sep 12 2009 12:20 PM

    You're awesome! ♥

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  • Aug 13 2009 5:37 PM

    Happy Birthday Hottie Pants. I love you Mucho Grande!! XOXOXOXOX-Love from Us all!
  • Aug 13 2009 4:18 AM

    happy birthdayyy!!!!!!!!!!
    i lovee youuuu!!!!! ♥
    (:
  • Aug 10 2009 6:45 PM

    yeaa it annoys me sometimes. i have a folder with a ton of notes from things that i did this year. But i've never heard of those other things you said. Are they complicated?
  • Aug 10 2009 6:20 PM

    lol yeaa. i rlly like doing stuff to pics. i took a photography class my junior yr and all we did was use photoshop i didn't rlly like it tho because we had certain things we had to do. I think pic nik is way easier to use than photoshop i get confused on how to use it sometimes lol.   
  • Aug 10 2009 4:50 PM

    lol well maybe i'll think about it
  • Aug 10 2009 4:25 PM

    noo i've never thought about doing it.
    i'm not that creative lol
  • Jul 31 2009 7:38 AM

  • Jul 29 2009 4:04 AM

    so whats the good stuff?  on my end.. nothing good happening really... gotta catch you up on life
  • Jul 29 2009 2:29 AM

    aw thanks :)

    how are u
  • Jul 9 2009 2:47 AM

    Holy crap! Who are those little kids? LOL! Those were good times. I loved hanging out with you in art class. You should email me copies of the murals; I don't think I have pics of those. We can't call Mrs Chamlee by her first name...=P Did she have more kids after the first one we knew about? That's so cool. She was a great teacher!

    Yeah, I ran into Jennifer Bell at Lenox one day and caught up with her on facebook. She joked about how she was putting her GA Tech degree to good use. =P It's pretty neat seeing her on tv. She's got an adorable little son, too!
  • Jul 4 2009 12:46 AM

    We do hope you can come out to a
    very special show we are playing.
    Friday July 10th. 8pm - 4 gogirls
    bands playing in support of our
    fellow gogirls members, the band
    Cornerstone from Austria. Playing
    USA for the first time! Let's show
    them a warm Atlanta welcome
    w/green bracelet, electricsoul,
    and cell fehrenbach!
    Uptown Loft
    9700 Medlock Bridge Road
    John's Creek (Duluth area)
  • Jul 2 2009 2:21 AM

    my distant friend... how is everything going for you these days?
  • Jun 2 2009 6:48 AM

    hope your foster doggy is doing ok
  • May 26 2009 11:06 PM

    No clue chica. It will come to me eventually
  • May 15 2009 9:18 PM

    Hey there,
    2 GoGirls shows coming up.
    Acoustic at East Point Corner Tavern
    Sunday the 24th
    Rock and Soul/Electronica at Smith's Olde Bar
    Tues the 26th.
    Hope to see ya at one of these.
    Cheers!
  • May 12 2009 11:51 PM

    I install grantie countertops. Was slow awhile. It's work till school this fall. Just started going to the Graveyard. We should met up and catch up on life one night.
  • May 12 2009 12:29 AM

    Awesome! Work is picking up and summer is here. Yay!! How are you?
  • May 9 2009 11:00 PM

    Hola chica!
  • May 8 2009 3:57 PM

    Aw thanks for the link Jen... that was tough to get through, but beautiful :)
    Yeah I have a real love/hate thing with Mother's Day but trying to embrace it for myself more.
    Hope you have a great day just reflecting on your love for you mom, I know I will :)
    Take care love!