ah yes my dear, growth and change... the only things that are constant... change happens regardless (it's an absolute) however the growth part (that's your choice, I thinks that's when free-will plays into it all), Its our choice to grow into better human beings that will help point the youth and future of humanity into a more beautiful race.... and or of course we could choose to grow in a negative (which I just went on a tangent about and then deleted because there is no more room for anymore negativity in this world) I love you my dear. "Be the change you wish to see in the world." ~Ghandi