Scot McKay -- X & Y Communications
Scot McKay
Never, Ever Settle...Ever Again.

Male
42 years old
SAN ANTONIO, Texas
United States



Last Login: 7/6/2009
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    Scot McKay -- X & Y Communications's Interests
General

 

Self-improvement, helping others, BMX, mountain biking, surfing, stand-up comedy, autocross, cooking, travel, motorcycles, guitar, karaoke, geocaching, creative writing, podcasting

Music

 

The harder the better, unless it's a romantic evening out listening to live jazz or swing. Also anything that makes a good karaoke song.

Books

 

Deserve What You Want, Cook For Your Date,How To Manage Your Wildly Successful Dating Life, and Never, Ever Settle...of course.


     Scot McKay -- X & Y Communications's Details
Status:Married
Here for:Networking, Friends
Orientation:Straight
Hometown:Baltimore, MD
Religion:Christian - other
Zodiac Sign:Libra
Smoke / Drink:No / Yes
Children:Proud parent
Education:Grad / professional school
Occupation:Author/Entrepreneur--Dating And Attraction

   Scot McKay -- X & Y Communications's Schools
Messiah College
Grantham, PA
Graduated: 1988
Student status: Alumni
Major: Education/Psychology
Greek:   Sigma Pi

1984 to 1988
Franklin High
Reisterstown, MD
Graduated: 1984
Student status: Alumni
Degree: High School Diploma
 

1982 to 1984

   Scot McKay -- X & Y Communications's Networking
Technology - Internet - Webmaster

Marketing - Marketing - Online Marketing

Radio - Promotion - Media Director


   Scot McKay -- X & Y Communications's Companies
X & Y Communications LLC
San Antonio, TX US
Founder, Managing Consultant

DateToOrder.com
San Antonio, TX US
Founder, Managing Partner

X-Net Media
San Antonio , TX US
Founder, Managing Partner




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   Scot McKay -- X & Y Communications's Blurbs
About me:


Scot McKay here. I'm a professional dating coach and founder of X & Y Communications--a one stop shop for dating and seduction excellence.

After a difficult divorce several years ago, I heard from virtually everyone that "it wasn't my fault" and that "there was nothing I could have done" to have been a better husband. Not accepting a victim's mindset, I adopted an attitude of continuous research into exactly what it is that attracts men and women to one another, and--more importantly--what keeps them together for years.

In other words, what exactly is a "healthy" relationship, and what makes it happen?

This research has been ongoing for over five years to date, and has literally been a life-changer for me. I've experienced the most successful dating life imaginable, culminating in my decision to choose one great woman and spend the rest of my life with her. My new wife Emily and I were married on December 9th, 2006 and have every reason to expect a rich and rewarding life together for many years to come.

What I've learned about men, women and relationships has been so profound and meaningful that I've gone back to my roots as a life coach after a successful management career in the IT world...and X & Y Communications is born.

Life is an adventure that is meant to be shared. Drop me a note and let's see about helping YOU be wildly successful at attracting the opposite sex.

Who I'd like to meet:

 

"If in a relationship, serve notice that you are there by choice rather than by default."

-- Scot McKay

 

 

"If you are like me, you already sense that you've just got to BE the best partner possible in order to GET the best partner possible. Otherwise, the only real-world alternative (at best) is to 'settle' for a partner who disappoints you--and vice-versa. Millions of people live this kind of unhappy existence, drowning in pornography or soap operas in a weak attempt to vicariously live a dream which they have squandered. Knowing that real fulfillment is possible in a relationship, my passion is to help you make sure you are not one of the untold masses who 'settle'."

-- Scot McKay

 

 
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If you are interested in becoming the most successful member of the "dating pool" you can be, drop Emily and I a message or visit us on the Web at www.dating-advice.us.

X & Y Communications exists entirely to help you become the best you can be when it comes to dating and relationships--without having to learn and/or do things the "hard way". It doesn't matter if you are young or old, as yet unmarried, married, divorced or widowed. X & Y Communications can help you maximize your success in preparing for and eventually realizing the ultimate in relationships with a significant other.

I am the author of Deserve What You Want, a book about how to make yourself the best partner you can be in order to attract and keep the kind of person you desire. I don't believe in "settling", and I hope you don't either.

I also have a free booklet called Get What You Deserve, which is yours for stopping by www.dating-advice.us and signing up for our newsletter. Among other pleasant surprises found when you sign up, there's an archive of previous issues in case you want to get caught up.

And then there are also those podcasts we do, aren't there? Jump on that bandwagon below and gather up all the episodes you can carry for free. If you listen and like what you hear, please write a review for us on iTunes.

 

 
 

 

     

Oh...and if you want to learn previously untold secrets about how to drive your date wild by cooking for him or her, don't miss the book we have entitled Cook For Your Date.

 

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Jul 6 2009 10:29 PM

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Jun 30 2009 9:28 AM

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Thanx for the ADD:-))

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Jun 18 2009 8:50 AM

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Jun 4 2009 10:33 AM

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Feb 2 2009 10:21 PM

Hey, just wanted to stop by and tell you that your'e freaking awsome !

Why?

Just because...Your'e human being. No other reason.


So Remember that and send some good positive energy to everyone you come across today too! That will make us all happy...:-)

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Jan 7 2009 4:48 PM

thanks for the add, we really appreciate the support!! have a kickass day, complete with heavy metal, and little debbie snack cakes!
Check out our myspace!
Rahsaan





Dec 31 2008 4:46 PM

I wanted to drop by and wish you a New Year full of continued prosperity and love! :o)
Double Your Dating





Dec 31 2008 2:33 AM

Happy Holidays and have a great New Year!!! Cheers!
GB Ent. (www.guillaboyz.com)





Oct 13 2008 1:06 AM

When you go to a nice restaurant, barber shop, hair salon, etc, do u leave a tip? Why or Why not?
Adrienne





Oct 10 2008 9:20 PM

Thanks for accepting my friendship and it's a pleasure to meet you. I look forward to learning more about you.


Hope you have had a wonderful day.


God Bless,

Adrienne

AdrienneSmith. net
LOST BOY





Sep 26 2008 8:18 PM

Happy B-day, Scot!
GB Ent. (www.guillaboyz.com)





Sep 26 2008 1:55 PM

Happy Birthday!!
CURIOUS - (NEW CD ON iTUNES NOW!!!!)





Sep 26 2008 9:27 AM

♥ Happy Birthday ♥
Ocean City MD





Sep 25 2008 1:08 AM

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Sep 23 2008 4:54 PM

Scot :)
Create your own banner at mybannermaker.com!
Scott





Sep 17 2008 12:47 AM

Hey Scot,
Thanks for the add man!
petyamarina





Jul 8 2008 7:06 AM

Hi Scot!

Very nice to see you here too! :-)

Pett xoxo
Steve Mohacey





Jun 25 2008 11:56 AM

Scott-

Thanks for visiting my site and listening to my music.
Best wishes,

Steve
Virginia





Jun 18 2008 7:14 PM

Hello Dear New friend,
Greetings from Brazil!
Thanks for add.

Its my pleasure to be your friend!
Cool Site! I loved! Congratulations!
Have a great day!
All the best always
Kisses and Hugs(Brazilian Way)
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Jun 17 2008 9:16 PM

Hey whats good just comin threw to show ya page some love....thanks for the add...check out the music when ya get a chance..1




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Jun 14 2008 2:46 PM

Create your own banner at mybannermaker.com!

Hey Scot...thanks for the friend request :)
Wishing you a FUN weekend and GREAT week ahead; stay in touch!
Ashley :)
Kristabelle





Jun 14 2008 9:48 AM

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