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BETTY
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		Do you know my friend Jesus???? Female 46 years old FLORALA, ALABAMA United States Last Login: 7/31/2009
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General	''BE A VOICE FOR THOSE WHO CAN NOT HELP THEMSELVES!"" +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ ''THINGS YOU CAN DO TO PREVENT CHILD ABUSE'' 1.Volunteer your time. Get involved with other parents in your community. Help vulnerable children and their families. Start a playgroup. 2.Discipline your children thoughtfully. Never discipline your child when you are upset. Give yourself time to calm down. 3.Remember that discipline is a way to teach your child. Use privileges to encourage good behavior and time-outs to help your child regain control. 4.Examine your behavior. Abuse is not just physical. Both words and actions can inflict deep, lasting wounds. 5.Be a nurturing parent. Use your actions to show children and other adults that conflicts can be settled without hitting or yelling. 6.Educate yourself and others. Simple support for children and parents can be the best way to prevent child abuse. After-school activities, parent education classes, mentoring programs, and respite care are some of the many ways to keep children safe from harm. Be a voice in support of these efforts in your community. Teach children their rights. When children are taught they are special and have the right to be safe, they are less likely to think abuse is their fault, and more likely to report an offender. Support prevention programs. Too often, intervention occurs only after abuse is reported. Greater investments are needed in programs that have been proven to stop the abuse before it occurs -- such as family counseling and home visits by nurses who provide assistance for newborns and their parents. Know what child abuse is. Physical and sexual abuse clearly constitute maltreatment, but so does neglect, or the failure of parents or other caregivers to provide a child with needed food, clothing, and care. Children can also be emotionally abused when they are rejected, berated, or continuously isolated. Know the signs. Unexplained injuries aren't the only signs of abuse-depression. Fear of a certain adult, difficulty trusting others or making friends, sudden changes in eating or sleeping patterns, inappropriate sexual behavior, poor hygiene, secrecy, and hostility are often signs of family problems and may indicate a child is being neglected or physically, sexually, or emotionally abused. Report abuse. If you witness a child being harmed or see evidence of abuse, or if a child tells you about abuse, make a report to your state's child protective services department or local police. When talking to a child about abuse, listen carefully, assure the child that he or she did the right thing by telling an adult, and affirm that he or she is not responsible for what happened. Invest in Kids. Encourage leaders in the community to be supportive of children and families. Ask employers to provide family-friendly work environments. Ask your local and national lawmakers to support legislation to better protect our children and to improve their lives. Stressed out? Wondering what to do? It does happen. Caring for children is sometimes a difficult task. Discipline is especially challenging. Here are some ideas that can help: Talk about feelings. Take your child's feelings seriously and work through them. Use firm communication. Say what you mean, and mean what you say. Model the behavior that you desire in them. Children learn from what they see and hear. Encourage your children often and recognize each one's personal best. Use "time-out" balanced with "time-in." Remember, discipline is a verb meaning "to teach." ++++ADVICE FOR NEW PARENTS'' ++++ Sleep when you can. "Priorities at this stage should be feeding yourself, feeding your baby, changing her, and sleeping," . Use self-soothing exercises, such as deep breathing and visualization. Arrange for time away from the baby. Hire a sitter, exchange babysitting, or call helpful relatives and trusted friends to babysit. When you are alone with baby and cannot comfort her, put her in her crib, make sure she is safe, and without leaving the house, get away from the screaming. Play comforting music or take a shower. If you're in a new place or can't reach your helpers and feel you're going to become abusive, call or go to a neighborhood church or synagogue for help. Use a slogan to help you get them through these times. "My all-time favorite is 'Now is not forever,'" says Levine. She adds: "Be patient. You and your baby will survive and eventually even thrive." PRAY,PRAY,PRAY! REMEMBER....THESE TIMES TOO SHALL PASS.... ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Signs of Physical Abuse Physical Indicators: Unexplained bruises and welts on the face, throat, upper arms, buttocks, thighs or lower back in unusual patterns or shapes which suggests the use of an instrument (belt buckle, electric cord) on an infant in various stages of healing that are seen after absences, weekends, or vacations. Unexplained burns, cigarette burns, especially burns found on palms, soles of feet, abdomen, buttocks; immersion burns producing "stocking" or "glove" marks on hands and feet; "doughnut shaped" on buttocks or genital area. Rope burns. Infected burns indicating delay in treatment; burns in the shape of common household utensils or appliances. Behavioral Indicators: Behavioral extremes (withdrawal, aggression, regression, depression). Inappropriate or excessive fear of parent or caretaker. Antisocial behavior such as substance abuse, truancy, running away, fear of going home. Unbelievable or inconsistent explanation for injuries. Lies unusually still while surveying surroundings (for infants). Unusual shyness, wariness of physical contact If you are concerned about the safety of a child and want to report suspected child abuse or neglect,If you suspect child abuse or neglect, it should be reported to your local law enforcement agency, social services agency, or child protective services. If you are unsure how to report, contact Childhelp USA® National Child Abuse Hotline by telephone at 1-800-4-A-CHILD® or through their website at www.childhelpusa.org for information about how to report in your community. ******************************************************************************************************************** PLEASE HELP STOP CHILD ABUSE..IT IS OUT THERE PEOPLE AND U CAN HELP..EVEN IF IN A SMALL WAY.DO WHAT YOU CAN..ONE DAY YOU WILL BE ASKED WHY YOU DID NOT HELP THE LITTLE ONES WHEN YOU COULD ..HOW WILL YOU ANSWER THAT??? please take time to read and view the pics on my blog--titled child abuse...thank you...warning--the pics are disturbing...*** ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ National Domestic Violence Hotline Telephone 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TDD 1-800-787-3224 www.ndvh.org Your support and encouragement can be of tremendous value to a friend involved in an abusive relationship. You can ease the isolation and loss of control by listening, providing information and helping your friend to explore options. (source: National Domestic Violence Hotline) The following are websites and toll-free hotlines (some are recommended by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services Administration) that may also prove useful to you. Child Abuse Childhelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) www.childhelpvillage.com The Childhelp USA® National Child Abuse Hotline operates 24 hours a day, seven days a week, and receives calls from throughout the United States, Canada, U.S. Virgin Islands, Guam and Puerto Rico. Approximately 134,000 callers are assisted annually with Childhelp USA's abuse hotline. The Childhelp hotline is staffed with professional counselors who utilize a database of thousands of emergency, social service and support resources. Since the 1982 inception of the Childhelp hotline, more than 2 million calls have been received from children in the midst of abuse, troubled parents, individuals concerned that abuse is occurring, and others requesting child abuse information. The child abuse hotline offers crisis intervention, information, literature and referrals. State-of-the-art technology provides translators in approximately 140 languages. (source: Childhelp USA) Child Abuse Awareness www.child-abuse-blog.blogspot.com This site was created to bring to the forefront the sad reality of child abuse throughout the world in the 21st century. The site contains blogs, information and links to other sites dealing with abuse of all kinds. Child Care Child Care Aware 1-800-424-2246 www.childcareaware.org Choosing child care is an important decision. Good child care arrangements can improve the daily lives of children and parents. In addition, children in high quality care have higher levels of success when they enter school. (source: Child Care Aware) Law and Parents www.lawandparents.co.uk/home.htm The extent to which we can be held responsible for our children's behaviour can be a merky area. This site explains the law and your rights. Lawyers for Children www.lawyersforchildren.org Lawyers For Children is a New York City based not-for-profit corporation that provides free legal and social work services to children in foster care and to children who are involved in high conflict custody or visitation cases. We have compiled a list of local and national links to child advocates, government agencies and other organizations of interest to our clients and their guardians. Parenting Teens www.parentingteens.com Information and articles for teen parenting, troubled teens, teen education, teen boot camps. Also provide parents to offer their views about military schools, boarding schools and parenting issues. Teen Boot Camps www.teenbootcamps.com Information about various teen boot camps and military pre-training camps for teens and troubled teens. Mountain Homes Youth Ranch www.mhyr.com MHYR is a therapeutic wilderness treatment program for troubled teenagers ages 12-17 that operates on a 15,000 acre working ranch in Northwest Colorado. The MHYR program has been featured on the Dr. Phil show and received students from the show who needed therapy. Resolution Ranch - Troubled Teens Boot Camp www.resolutionranch.com Resolution Ranch designs individualized therapy based on the personal needs of each teen. Mental Health FindCounseling.com Phone: 708.445.9800 Toll-free: 877.735.6442 Fax: 312.275.7369 www.findcounseling.com FindCounseling.com is a mental health portal and searchable directory of therapists, including psychiatrists, psychologists, and marriage and family therapists. Its features include a glossary, journal articles, and self-help resources. The website features psychologists around the country and the other resources can be of use to anyone around the globe. Abuse in America On the average, more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends every day. Domestic Violence National Domestic Violence Hotline Telephone 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TDD 1-800-787-3224 www.ndvh.org Your support and encouragement can be of tremendous value to a friend involved in an abusive relationship. You can ease the isolation and loss of control by listening, providing information and helping your friend to explore options. (source: National Domestic Violence Hotline) Missing Children National Center for Missing and Exploited Children 1-800-THE-LOST (1-800-843-5678) www.missingkids.com The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children’s® (NCMEC) mission is to help prevent child abduction and sexual exploitation; help find missing children; and assist victims of child abduction and sexual exploitation, their families, and the professionals who serve them. National Runaway Switchboard 1-800-621-4000 1-800-RUNAWAY www.nrscrisisline.org Every day 1.3 million runaway and homeless youth live on the streets of America. One out of every seven children will run away before the age of 18. Each year approximately 5,000 runaway and homeless youth die from assault, illness, and suicide. (source: National Runaway Switchboard)
Music	**** CHILD SMILES IN THE SAME LANGUAGE* LET US ALL LOVE EACH OTHER.............................. .. ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ Abuse in America On the average, more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends every day. Am I abusing my Partner? Not all men are abusive, how do you measure up? Abuse Is: ? Calling bad names or putting someone down ? Shouting and cursing ? Hitting, slapping and/or pushing ? Making threats of any kind ? Jealously and suspicion ? Keeping someone away from family and friends ? Throwing things around the house Domestic violence is a crime. It destroys relationships and families. It passes from generation to generation. It doesn’t have to be this way. If you abuse, you can choose to stop. Call us at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3223. Friends & Family Yes, it is your business Maybe he’s your friend, your brother-in-law, your cousin, co-worker, gym partner or fishing buddy. You’ve noticed that he interrupts her, criticizes her family, yells at her or scares her. You hope that when they’re alone, it isn’t worse. The way he treats her makes you uncomfortable, but you don’t want to make him mad or lose his friendship. You surely don’t want to see him wreck his marriage or have to call the police. What can you do? Say something. If you don’t, your silence is the same as saying abuse is ok. He could hurt someone, or end up in jail. Because you care, you need to do something… before it is too late. What Can You Say or Do? Draw attention to it. “Do you see the effect your bad words have on her?” “When you do that, it makes her feel bad.” “Did you mean to be so rough? That’s not cool.” Tell him what you think. “I’m really worried about her safety.” “I’m surprised to see you act that way. You’re better than that.” “I care about you, but I won’t tolerate it if you abuse her.” “This makes me really uncomfortable. It’s not right.” Express ideas about loving behavior. “Loving her doesn’t mean abusing her.” “Good husbands and partners don’t say or do those kinds of things.” Offer suggestions or solutions. “Men should never hit or threaten the women they love.” “Kids learn from their parents. Is this how you want your son to treat women?” “How would you feel if your daughter chose someone who acted like this?” “Call me if you feel like you’re losing control.” “Maybe you should try counseling.” “You should talk to your faith leader and see what he/she suggests.” If his behavior is criminal, tell him so. “Domestic violence is a crime. You could be arrested for this.” “You could end up in jail if you don’t find a way to deal with your problems. Then what would happen to you and your family?” He May Not Like It He may not listen. He may get enraged, deny it, ignore you or make excuses. He may want to talk about what she did to him. He may even laugh it off or make fun of you. Still, you need to say something. Your silence is the same as saying you approve. Or He May Take You Seriously and Decide to Change If men learn to put down and abuse women from other men, they can also learn from other men how to respect women. When you decide that violence against women is unacceptable and choose to lead, other men will begin to think twice before they strike with their words or fists. It isn’t easy or comfortable, but men must step up to the plate because next time, it could be your sister, mother, friend or co-worker. It’s the right thing to do. Listen. Teach. Lead. Help Stop Domestic Violence If you are concerned about the safety of your friend’s partner or spouse, or to learn about services in your area, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or TTY 1-800-787-3224. Do The Right Thing Tell Him There Is A Better Way .. .. National Center for Missing & Exploited Children PLEASE BE A VOICE,WHEN WE STAND TOGETHER,CHANGE COMES!
Movies	**** and if you are on drugs and need someone to talk to me..please don't hesitate..be glad to help however i can...don't let drugs/alcohol destroy your life,friends and family.... Methamphetamine affects your brain. In the short term, meth causes mind and mood changes such as anxiety, euphoria, and depression. Long-term effects can include chronic fatigue, paranoid or delusional thinking, and permanent psychological damage. Methamphetamine affects your body. Over "amping" on any type of speed is pretty risky. Creating a false sense of energy, these drugs push the body faster and further than it's meant to go. It increases the heart rate, blood pressure, and risk of stroke. Methamphetamine affects your self-control. Meth may be as addictive as crack and more powerful.1 Methamphetamine is not what it seems. Even speed drugs are not always safe. Giga-jolts of the well-known stimulants caffeine or ephedrine can cause stroke or cardiac arrest when overused or used by people with a sensitivity to them. Methamphetamine can kill you. An overdose of meth can result in heart failure. Long-term physical effects such as liver, kidney, and lung damage may also kill you. Get the facts. The ignitable, corrosive, and toxic nature of the chemicals used to produce meth can cause fires, produce toxic vapors, and damage the environment. Stay informed. Ninety-two percent of methamphetamine deaths reported involved meth in combination with another drug, such as alcohol, heroin, or cocaine. Know the risks. There are a lot of risks associated with using methamphetamine, including: Meth can cause a severe "crash" after the effects wear off. Meth use can cause irreversible damage to blood vessels in the brain. Meth users who inject the drug and share needles are at risk for acquiring HIV/AIDS. *********** How can you tell if a friend is using meth? It may not be easy to tell. But there are signs you can look for. Symptoms of methamphetamine use may include: Inability to sleep Increased sensitivity to noise Nervous physical activity, like scratching Irritability, dizziness, or confusion Extreme anorexia Tremors or even convulsions Increased heart rate, blood pressure, and risk of stroke Presence of inhaling paraphernalia, such as razor blades, mirrors, and straws Presence of injecting paraphernalia, such as syringes, heated spoons, or surgical tubing What can you do to help someone who is using meth? BE A REAL FRIEND MAYBE EVEN SAVE A LIFE. ENCOURAGE your friend to stop or seek professional help. For information and referrals, call the National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information at (800) 729-6686. The bottom line: If you know someone who uses meth, urge him or her to get help. If you're using meth--stop! The longer you ignore the real facts, the more chances you take with your life. It's never too late. Talk to your parents, a doctor, a counselor, a teacher, or another adult you trust. Do it today! (BORROWED FROM http://www.freevibe.com/Drug_Facts/meth.asp)) *******************************************************
Television	don't care much for tv...show's suck and the news is depressing! I enjoy watching my grandbabies more!
Books	BIBLE BILLY GRAHAM LIBRARY ANNE RICE SERIES STEPHEN KING LEFT BEHIND the calling- THE GREEN MILE stop child abuse--any way you can warning pictures are graphic but true************** Rather than the milk of human kindness, this child received a faceful of scalding milk. His permanent scars are a sign of a society in which sexual pleasure is considered immoral and violence against the body is considered morally necessary for salavtion of the soul. The child needs love and affection -- not abuse. **********THIS IS AN SCTUAL PICTURE OF A DR. PERFORMING SURGERY ON A BABY UNBORN AT 5 MONTHS IN THE WOMB,IT REACHED OUT AND GRABBED THE DR.S HAND! PLEASE DONT ABORT!! IT IS A BABY!
Heroes	JESUS FIRST====HE TOPS THE LIST VOLUNTEERS MY FAMILY=FOR LOVING EACH OTHER NO MATTER WHAT,MY HUSBAND JEFF,SON DARRELL ,DAUGHTER RITA ,SON ZACK 2 GRANDCHILDREN BILLY AND KOLBY, AND RILEE,SHE IS ALWAYS IN MY HEART AND PRAYERS,EVEN THOUGH I CAN NOT SEE HER,SHE IS,AND WILL ALWAYS BE, MY GRANDDAUGHTER.CHARLIE MAE AND SUMMER AND R.J. and also a grand i can't hold until i get to heaven...i named him SEPTEMBER,the month we lost him.... FRIENDS--NANCY B. BILLY GRAHAM RUTH GRAHAM

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Status:	Married
Here for:	Friends
Orientation:	Straight
Hometown:	florala
Body type:	5' 6" / Athletic
Ethnicity:	White / Caucasian
Zodiac Sign:	Virgo
Smoke / Drink:	Yes / No
Children:	Proud parent
Education:	High school
Occupation:	hmemaker/volunteer

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+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ MAKE SURE YOU VOTE THIS YEAR,,IT IS CRUCIAL FOR OUR COUNTRY...IT'S NOT THE PRESIDENTS FAULT...iT IS CALLED A DEMORATIC CONGRESS....DON'T BELIEVE ME? DO RESEARCH!!!! VOTE MCCAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ HI! 44 year old mom,wife and Nannabee to my awesome grandson's Kolby wAYNE(2) and Billy Tray(5) & granddaughters Angelica Charlize Mae and Summer Leighann & aunt bee to justin,josie,mj,alexis and rj... !!)..i live in south Alabama,no i am not a red neck,lol... I am old school!
I love jesus and living in the country .I have a son , Darrell-member of Straightjacket 4 nixon ,plays bass and is engaged to the beautiful and sweet Julieanna Hernandez,parents to charlie mae. My daughter Rita ,mom of Billy, Kolby & summer ,Zack my teenage step son-15 and hubby jeff,who also plays guitar for STRAIGHTJACKET 4 NIXON and loves to ski .((and several more i consider stepkids and always will! love you guys and girls))..God has blessed me with an awesome family whom i never take for granted and i love unconditionally....they are my wings.Extended members are my mom,sister Dorothy,my one and only nephew on this side-Justin(aka-my j.j.)parent to great nephew riley james(rj) brothers Johnny and Robert and one like a brother-Jamie.also have a best friend ,who is also part of my family ,Nancy..we can share pain and happiness And have shared tears and smiles,Accomplishments and defeats.Best of all we share our grandkids.
We enjoy family outings,camping,fishing ,swimming etc.i am at my highest looking at a sunset over the ocean..i love the feel of the breeze off the water and nothing like the sounds of the waves coming in.There is something mystical and calming listening to the sound of the wind blowing through pine trees at night,and i can't leave out thunderstorms and rain falling on my tin roof!
I'm happiest when i hear the giggle of my grandkids happiness and hear i love you nannabee.
I have a few chickens ,several great pyraneese dogs,and a family of ducklings! i love to be outside,i am not an indoors person..never have been and don't plan to be until the good lord says so... I try to be as self sufficent as i can .I plan on buying more chickens and ducks come spring and a garden in the works now.I am also considering buying a milk cow-Jersey maybe. ********************I also enjoy blogging and entering contest along as well,I invite you over to read.. http://nannabees.blogspot.com/
http://oldwaybecomesnewagain.blogspot.com/
*************************************** I ALSO HAVE A LOVE FOR BABIES AND CHILDREN AND TRYING TO HELP THEM..THERE ARE WAY TOO MANY BABAIES BEING ABUSED AND NEGLECTED AND ABORTED.I DO NOT MEAN DISCIPLINE,TEACHING CHILDREN MANORS,RESPECT,LIMITS,,ETC..I MEAN ABUSE!!! AND FAR TOO MANY TIMES IT IS BY THE VERY ONE'S THEY CALL MOMMIE AND DADDY..THERE IS NO SENCE IN THIS WHATSOEVER PEOPLE! NO EXCUSE!!! IF YOU CAN NOT HANDLE YOUR ANGER AND BE RESPONSIBLE..PLEASE LET SOMEONE HAVE THEM WHO CAN...NO ONE IS KNOCKED FOR DOING WHAT IS RIGHT,,,AND GIVING A CHILD YOU ARE NOT READY FOR TO A LOVING HOME IS THE MOST SACRIFICIAL LOVE YOU CAN OFFER THEM..DONT HURT THEM...LOVE THEM ,OR AT LEAST ALLOW THEM THE OPPURTUNITY TO HAVE A CHANCE AT LOVE AND A PEACEFUL HOME....IT TAKES A LOT MORE THAN BEING ABLE TO HAVE SEX TO BE A MOMMIE AND DADDY.IT IS HARD...VERY HARD,BUT WORTH IT ALL..,SO GIVE THEM A CHANCE TO SMILE AND TO RESPECT YOU ONE DAY FOR THE CHOICE YOU MADE FOR THEM.... ********************************************************* +++

+++ ******************************************************** THIS LADY HAS WORKED HARD ON HER PAGE FOR CHILDREN,,LOTS OF HELPFUL AND EDUCATIONAL LINKS..PLEASE TAKE A MOMENT TO VISIT HER.... www.luvscreations.com/stop_abuse.htm ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL SITE http://members.tripod.com/~leelah/sitemap.html STOP KILLING OUR CHILDREN!!! http://www.windyweb.com/stop.htm ********************************************************** beautiful place and lots of info for people who have survived sexual abuse as a child.. http://www.angelfire.com/ok2/tellnow/index.html ********************************************************** +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ ***

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Who I'd like to meet:
****JESUS!! AND one day i shall...heck we all will...believe it or not,,, so i do hope you are ready...*****want that be awesome ! to meet the maker of heaven and earth(the word)that came to this earth as a man and then gave his life for all of us ..WOW!

*****people who never give up ,no matter what the problem may be...what does not kill you only makes you stronger and more tolerant.. ***people that do not have drama ,jealousy , greedy ,lying personalities!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! **people that step out of the safety zone to help and give to others!