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  • Deliyah cameron

    I wish you a Happy Birthday to you Tomika.

    3 years ago
  • Roderick Boyd

    Just wanted to  wish one of the most beautiful women in the world a Happy Birthday.

    3 years ago
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    Happy b-day honey,,,1 love of spain

    3 years ago
  • Porkchop Brown

    happy birthday

    3 years ago
  • Dennis Beatty

    ho tomika just stopping by to wish you a happy birthday you deserve to have the best bday possible for being such a positive inspiration to me have a good birthday ms skanes my hero peace

    3 years ago
  • ANDRE CARR'S CD@ITUNES,…

    Ok check list....Talent(check) beautiful(check)Sexy(check)Smart(check)Confident(check) and Amazing also(check) Id say the check list is complete and everyone knows it...keep workin it baby ..You got this..(check)(check) The reason God only made one of you ..because you can't clone perfection..The Sky Is Limit For You ..women look at you and marvel at your greatness they try to look like you,act like you...walk like you.....He'll they even try to talk like you,but deep down inside they know they can never be you...Cause there is none like you,not one..God bless you my beautiful anoited Sista...........You need to be in a Movie

    3 years ago
  • Jrome It's a new Day

    happy birthday

    3 years ago
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  • P Sims

    Why did i think we shared the same birthday? August 22? Anywho Happy Birthday!!!

    3 years ago
  • Filmrunt

    Happy Birthday Tomika

    3 years ago
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  • General







    I LOVE POETRY!

    Here is some of mine:
    (Scroll Down to read a few of my poems i wrote back in the day...)


    My Poetry

    All poems by: Tomika Skanes


    'I wasn't finished loving you'
    poem by: Tomika Skanes

    I wasn't finished loving you
    and like a moments thought
    you came and went
    I wasn't finished loving you
    much too short a time was spent

    and your song
    so few had heard
    I memorized each verse
    I had not chance to love you more
    our time was much too terse

    I wasn't finished loving you
    the day you went is the day I died
    I never fathomed it would be so soon
    we'd have to say goodbye

    So many things we were to do
    so many things I never knew
    I damn the day you left, my love
    I wasn't finished loving you

    ..

    'Closed Doors'
    poem by: Tomika Skanes

    i was clutching at straws
    receding further, behind closed walls
    raking with fingers
    at a tundra of things
    unable to comprehend the ways nor means.
    a single hope divided
    beyond dispair
    to ravaging like an eagle
    with no wings.
    unable to fly
    to seek
    to know
    i stumble along
    locked,
    behind closed doors.

    A wayfarer at best
    too young to know better
    too old to regress.
    fighting the urge
    to surrender it all
    wasting time
    as time wastes me
    years surpassing
    ambitions and dreams.

    creating a prison
    containing myself
    remaking myself
    repeating myself
    my steps
    my past
    the same mistakes owning me
    pinning me down
    i suffocate, drowning
    crying aloud.

    yet unheard, unnoticed
    my books unread
    the pages keep turning
    all the while burning
    the steps that i've tread.

    We grow to gain
    yet in the scheme of things
    there's no distinction
    we're all the same.

    The same journey
    though different paths
    yet we seek to attain
    what the other man has.
    in bettering ourselves
    we forget ourselves
    encircling a lie,
    linking wrongs with rights.
    falsely accusing
    dispatching the blame
    there's still no distinction
    we're all the same.

    The truth is apparent
    yet seldom is seen
    confused with knowing,
    a different belief.
    We pound at the door
    misinterpreting the signs
    the door was wide open
    while locked was our minds.

    Creating a vacuum
    empty space to behold
    pained to reveal
    all lacking to know.
    realizing the fault
    now plainly i see...
    i was held hostage
    by no other than me.





    'rain'
    poem by: Tomika Skanes

    rain
    snips at me
    panicked
    like my mother's screams
    i stand and watch
    the sun
    dying within my eyes

    haunted by
    this face of death
    there is such
    that nothing's left
    but the sobbing, aching
    sounds
    that clouds the conscienceness
    of the mind

    reasoning all disipates
    as i sit
    and calmly wait
    how grim
    and calculated
    is this fate
    i've yet to analyze



    'Mine Iniquity'
    poem by: Tomika Skanes

    beguiling words
    you do secrete
    preempting hands
    do take hold
    empty promises made to me
    yet enamorously told

    you occluded my empassioned heart
    you bastardized my soul
    and in a state of sullen stupor
    my innocence you stole

    an iniquity you were to me
    and slimy to the touch
    profound wonder it is to me
    how i loved you much





    'Moments'
    poem by: Tomika Skanes

    and with gentle touch
    he bows my head
    down
    to kiss his cheek
    so there we stood for a week

    he looked at me with pure delight
    slowly sauntered to my right
    peeled off his shirt
    what could i say?
    there we stood for a day

    soon that day turned to night
    and the hours became minutes
    until i found myself
    grasping for seconds
    or just a moment longer with you...

    'The Lord is With You'
    poem by: Tomika Skanes

    When the road seems long and rugged
    and you feel you're on your own
    Remember the Lord is with you
    you're never all alone

    When you feel the tasks are many
    more than you can do
    Remember the Lord is with you
    to help you make it through

    When the baggage that you carry
    is too much for you to hold
    Remember the Lord is with you
    to lighten up your load

    When the results, you feel, are few
    and you've done all that you can
    Remember the Lord is with you
    to lend a helping hand

    When the days are full of worries
    of the world that's so unkind
    Remember the Lord is with you
    to lift them from your mind

    When you feel that life's a battle
    and defeat is all you gain
    Remember the Lord is with you
    to ease away your pain

    When you feel your heavy burden
    is more than you can bear
    Remember the Lord is with you
    for God is always there

    No matter how long the journey
    or how rough ahead the ride
    Remember the Lord is with you
    He's standing by your side




    'In My Arms'
    poem by: Tomika Skanes

    i held you in my arms
    last night
    i didn’t want
    to let you go
    i caressed the features
    of your face
    memorizing each life trace

    i almost cried
    laying there
    your body
    so close to mine
    and i held you there
    in my arms
    as we slept away
    the night




    'Burning Brightly...'
    poem by: Tomika Skanes

    Maker of the light
    keep light to my heart
    burn it brightly
    so it waits for one

    sometimes i forget
    and soft fingers sway
    to cap the light
    for which i wait

    now glass shield surrounds it
    i've willed it there
    through time
    i've found the strength
    to hold it
    steady with my mind

    until you come back to me
    waiting i will be
    forever burning brightly
    so you'll know
    exactly where to find me


    Please visit my poetry section of my website to read more of my poetry!



  • Music

    My favorite artists are Maxwell, Mary J. Blige, Prince, Joe, Carl Thomas, MJ, Alicia Keys and the Debarges. And of course I love Beyonce'! I love LOVE MUSIC...any song that tells a story and stirs that deep emotion.
  • Movies

  • Television

    I'm a HGTV and TLC junkie...(House Hunters, Designed to Sell, Property Ladder...i love home improvement shows) I also like to watch Top Chef & Project Runway when I get a chance to catch it on TV.
  • Books

    Wuthering Heights (omg, never cried so hard in my life, lol), Native Son, Alex Haley's Queen
  • Heroes

    my mom - she's 200% Amaazin!

Blurbs

About me:



.. .. .. ..

Special Thanks to THE REAL SKY
for my Tomika Skanes Official Myspace Theme Song!









I AM...

I love to love, and i love to laugh.
im passionate, sincere and try to be as honest as humanly possible.
I am stubborn (not hard-headed - there's a difference)...i get that from my momma too, lol.

im not extremely sensitive, but i AM extremely emotional...
but im too proud to let just anybody see that side.

Im quiet and shy...til you get to really know me...

i keep friends few, family close, and enemies just in view. i seldom let anyone in my personal world and space...if i do, you must be someone Xtra darn special to me.

I am compassionate and forgiving,
but there are somethings in life i dont tolerate from anyone and if you cross those lines...
i wont hesitate to X that negativity from my life - it is just too draining to hold on to something or someone who is trying selfishly to drain your personal light from you.

i like to think i'm a realist, but at the same time i dream big..sometimes too big.
but i know what i deserve and i will not settle for anything less than that.

..just like the line, "I want the fairytale", from my favorite movie - if you've seen the movie, you know what i'm talking about...

Remember we all have a personal light that shines within...
it is just our job to learn to love ourselves first...when you truly love yourself and let go of all your insecurites and remove yourself from the drama of life, that is when your personal light will shine through for the world to see.

Sometimes you have to let go some of the things that mean the most to you
if it turns out not to be right for you...
if it was meant to be... it will...you just cant force it where it doesnt fit.

i love to write and express in words my thoughts and emotions...words speak volumes...


"Everyone that comes in to your life, enters for a reason, whether it be for a lifetime or for a season"

I Love all my fav people in my life right now... I'm grateful to be starting this new year with so many blessings!




"Some people live for DRAMA...I choose to live for ME.
So if you have haters...(as many of us do)...Let them hate...
they are only TRYING to hide...THEIR own INSECURITIES"


So True!
So those of you with your own haters, just remember that you must doing something when people are too worried with what you have going on rather than taking care of home.
Remember to take care of home first & foremost or someone else will.









"As we grow up, we learn that even the one person
that wasn't supposed to ever let you down...
probably will.
You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time.
You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken.
You'll fight with your best friend.
You'll blame a new love for things an old one did.
You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love.
So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset...is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.."

LOVE YOUR LIFE.
You only have this one opportunity to live your life for you.










Who I'd like to meet:



"Life can be understood backwards, but can only be lived forward...no one is flawless, so dont let your mistakes own you. When you know better, Do better....but always keep it moving." - T.S.





Here's a little story that touched my heart...hope you find it touching as well:

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked her, 'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Life Is a Gift. Today before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak. Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion. Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who went too early to heaven.

Before whining about the distance you drive - Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet. And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and think: you're alive and still around.






What most people need to learn in life is how to love people and use things instead of using people and loving things.






Here's something new for yall:
Check out my new commercial airing late nights on BET, go ahead and text Tomika to 99199, i know u're curious!!!! lol:



"CRIBS!"

A behind the scenes look at a mansion shoot i did back in the day....ahhh, when i was blonde. Just me and randal playing around with the camera before the actual shoot.

It's definitely rare video footage of me TALKING...lol...as some of you may already know...i hate talking on camera!! Most of the time I sound like a complete retard when i do talk on camera because i get so flustered easily. I'm such a dork!! So enjoy a chuckle as u watch it. ;O)




Details

  • Status: In a Relationship
  • Here for: Networking, Friends
  • Orientation: Straight
  • Height: 5' 6"
  • Ethnicity: Other
  • Zodiac Sign: Leo
  • Children: Someday
  • Smoke: No
  • Occupation: Model / Web Designer / Agency Owner

Schools

  • Georgia State University

    • Atlanta, GA
    • Graduated: N/A
    • Degree: None
    • Major: Computer Science
    • Minor: Math
    1996 to 2000
  • Redan High School

    • Stone Mountain, GA
    • Graduated: N/A
    • Student status: Alumni
    • Degree: High School Diploma
    1992 to 1996

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